I read somewhere an observation of parallels of Harry and his mother - of how they both appeared to become bored after they no longer had their official duties. And how they seemed adrift as to what to do next with themself . I started thinking then of how Diana (probably) had certain expectations of what love, marriage would be (maybe he loves me, only me and not her, happy ever after and who knows but perhaps that marriage is all sweetness, light, happy and joy like in a romance novel) ... which leads to expectations of what marriage might have been for Harry's wife. Or even Harry. Oh boy. I don't recall marriage comments but do remember how he talked and wrote about how he wanted for his kids to be able to grow up with their cousins, second cousins in what sounds like how he grew up playing with family, doing the annual this and that with family (minus his parents not getting along). A vestige of his childhood he wanted to repeat, pass on as import...