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Open post: The Christmas Walk

Today Royal watchers will be looking forward to the annual Christmas walk, as the Royals leave the Sandringham estate and walk to St. Mary Magalene church for the 11am service.

Who will be there, and what will they be wearing? Will this be the first Christmas walk for Prince George and Prince Charlotte? Will Edo show up looking handsome - and what will they do with Andrew?

Here's an open post to discuss.

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The Cambridges released a black-and-white photo of their family this morning, a shot taken by Kate of her husband kissing their youngest son, Louis, while Charlotte and George look on.

Louis looks adorable and Charlotte looks fine, but George looks as if he'd rather be elsewhere. If Royal photoshopping has now become acceptable, how about 'shopping in a more flattering shot of the son and heir?

Comments

Teasmade said…
Can you all see this?

https://twitter.com/julesverne12345/status/1210929873415524352/photo/1

Archieharrison.com was registered in February 2018, before the wedding. They must have already put in an order for the baby.
Fedde said…
@lizzie
Ah, okay. Well, it'll be interesting to see how it unfolds because I'm positive a divorce will follow. Eventually. Unless MM decides to off 'H' if he broaches the subject so she can remain a royal as a widow.

Hasn't MM in all her known previous relationships/marriages moved on to someone else while still with the 'ex'?

If things around H&M (and standard BRF events) are quiet again, perhaps 'how would Harry move on after divorcing MM' could be a nice speculation post. We've had one about how they as a couple can turn the tide but I think we can all agree that moment has passed and to some (most?) it's even questionable whether Harry could regain his popularity after a divorce now that we've seen his true colors.

@tweeymma
Oh! Now I'm wondering whether MM also registered a website for a girl beforehand. Otherwise this could be considered (circumstantial) evidence of at the very least IVF with gender selection, if not surrogacy.
lizzie said…
@Fedde,

I don't think there will be a divorce as soon as many here seem to think. But I do think there will eventually be one.

And yes, you are correct it does appear M doesn't let go of one relationship before the next one is somewhat in place.
Humor Me said…
My two cents on the trademark:
I thought the royals did this as a "protection" of the brand. Kate did this in 2013.
So - is it protection of the Name "Sussex royal" or is it a step towards merchandising?

Sandie said…
"Humor Me: 'I thought the royals did this as a "protection" of the brand. Kate did this in 2013.
So - is it protection of the Name "Sussex royal" or is it a step towards merchandising?'

I think William, Kate and Harry did this for the Royal Foundation not to protect, control or monetise the brand but to forestall exploitation, e.g. someone could make T-shirts with the Royal Foundation name and people buying the T-shirts would think they are supporting the Royal Foundation but they are actually buying from someone who is exploiting the name for private gain.

What Meghan wants to do with the trademarking is anyone's guess!

Does anyone know why the list of items in each category is so short for the Royal Foundation but so long for the SussexRoyal Foundation?
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DesignDoctor said…
@Fedde MM, however, not so much. She’d be more inclined to find a way to off Harry’s fiancée than to give up her title.

Some of the nasty looks she has (surreptitiously) shot at Kate caught on camera have been frightening!
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Louise said…
Thanks for the link, Trudy.

Sad that those poor restauranteurs are feeling the wrath of Smirkle's crazed fans.
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Unknown said…
Glowworm here: re the reported stay in the 14.1 mil mansion...true? Who knows. We’ve been fooled before. But, it’s no big deal...they/she rented it. They revealed their location by requesting a visit to a restaurant with out of this world security requirements...all designed to alert the press. She ‘s running through old H’s trust fund as fast as she can.
Anonymous said…
@Fedde,


IIRC, the discussion about QEII's Christmas schedule and separating the children from the adults (for more than just meal time) first started when George was born... The public (at least those commenting online) thought was odd and very old fashioned, almost as in children should be seen not heard. George, Charlotte and and their other cousins don't seem to have suffered much during the past few Christmases with the Windsors, though...

Good point, I did not know this, and agreed, Fedde -- they've not suffered and their manners seem impeccable (an issue I have with some of the children I know). And I'll add, I do not see why it is "old-fashioned" to think that children and adults have different interests and not all activities and events are age-appropriate. So, I think it's absurd that this would be interpreted by some as children seen/not heard. I think it's more about children in appropriate situations, and those are not always the same as for adults.
SwampWoman said…
lizzie said...
@Fedde,

I don't think there will be a divorce as soon as many here seem to think. But I do think there will eventually be one.

And yes, you are correct it does appear M doesn't let go of one relationship before the next one is somewhat in place.


Doesn't seem to be much more in upward mobility she could strive for unless it would be for waaaay more money. Lauren Sanchez, one of the ultimate upward mobility climbers, better keep a close eye on Jeff Bezos (cheaters gonna cheat).
Unknown said…
Glowworm here: in fact, this is just the knee-jerk reaction we should expect from her after being ridiculed and derided for the Christmas card showing Archie spending HIS first Christmas crawling on the floor of a Toronto brothel (some would call it a wh...house).
Fedde said…
Oooh, MM might just be what Jeff Bezos deserves...
Anonymous said…

I can just see Rach flouncing about in that "mansion" thinking she's all that lol. I personally think it's a little too-too (what rich people thing a rich person's house should look like) and dark. Lovely setting, but otherwise, meh-ish to gauche IMO. Still, I'm surprised it took her this long to leak the specific location, unless of course, it's a ruse and she is somewhere else entirely.
Unknown said…
Glowworm here: Oh Fedde, she is! But, truthfully, I want her to end up somewhere in some Middle Eastern harem...as just one of a number that isn’t #1.
Glow W said…
@tweetymamma I live in the woods and have sketchy internet, so I can’t see it. I see the comments on it.
Glow W said…
I love the house lol and would also think I’m all that if I was staying there several weeks lol.
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Glow W said…
I haven’t been to Victoria (bucket list) but I have been to Vancouver and just LOVE the area. The house looks like a good place for someone to stay give its on a peninsula and the house has a turret.

“Journalists” trick people all the time...it’s how back in the day they found our Chevy Chase was in rehab. They called his wife and impersonated a friend and she thought she was just talking and turns out, she was tricked into giving all the details away to the press.
SwampWoman said…
When they come off their "break", perhaps PW could make sure Jeff Bezos has accepted an invitation to also attend a function that MM is allowed to attend. I know, y'all are going to tell me that JB is far to savvy to fall for her line of bull, but in rebuttal I give you Lauren Sanchez.
Teasmade said…
@tatty, It's a screenshot of a "whois" lookup with details of the registration of "archieharrison.com" on GoDaddy on Feb 12 2018. Which means that this name was contrived prior to the wedding and to the conception of this child, whoever's he is. So they had this un-royal, wackadoodle name picked out over a year in advance. Plenty of time to locate and hire a surrogate.

I have seen this only once, on Twitter (although I'm working today and don't have time to go down a rabbit hole) but on reading the comments, I have to say that a few have pointed out that this isn't really connected to MM at all in the provided "paperwork."

Then I went to archieharrison.com and GoDaddy says the domain is available.

So (shrug emoji)?
SirStinxAlot said…
Let me guess, this property is going up for sale early 2020?? Every property Meghan has rented has gone up for sale. The one she rented in Toronto and MM and Trevor's rented home in California.The home H&M rented briefly in the Carribean too. This was an advertisement to " sell the property" gimmick.
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SwampWoman said…
I concur with the consensus that if their location was "given away" it was deliberate, IF they were even there.

I find it odd. I live near a resort area where VIPs cycle in and out regularly. The VIPs, if they need privacy and lots of security, come in before or after regular business hours.
Glow W said…
I still maintain the rug didn’t match the one at soho and I’m truly at a loss to know why people thought it did match. The designs were not the same.

@tweety I don’t know anything about registering websites, but is it possible someone registered a website on that date and then changed the name after he was born?
CatEyes said…
FYI regarding the use of titles of a married-in royal after divorce here is the explanation og the Letters Patent:

"Princesses by marriage are the recognized wives of the Sovereign's sons and male-line grandsons.[1] Generally, these women are entitled to the style "Royal Highness" by virtue of marriage, and retain the style if widowed. However, Queen Elizabeth II issued Letters Patent dated 21 August 1996 stating that any woman divorced from a Prince of the United Kingdom would no longer be entitled to the style "Royal Highness". This has so far applied to Diana, Princess of Wales, and Sarah, Duchess of York."

So if Meghan became divorced she would not be able to use 'HRH' and be styled, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex. If Harry remarries, his wife would be HRH Duchess of Sussex.

If someone knows otherwise, please correct me.

SwampWoman said…
tatty said...I still maintain the rug didn’t match the one at soho and I’m truly at a loss to know why people thought it did match. The designs were not the same.

@tweety I don’t know anything about registering websites, but is it possible someone registered a website on that date and then changed the name after he was born?


Oooh, tatty, you are *very* devious. I like that.

/I am chagrined, chagrined I say, that I never even considered it.
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Fedde said…
SirStinxAlot
Let me guess, this property is going up for sale early 2020?? Every property Meghan has rented has gone up for sale. The one she rented in Toronto and MM and Trevor's rented home in California.The home H&M rented briefly in the Carribean too. This was an advertisement to " sell the property" gimmick.
December 28, 2019 at 9:23 AM

Exactly! H&M probably already left the property and now the owner thinks he/she can sell it for a higher price since there was extra exposure and some sad people will think it's worth more if other rich/famous people valued it as a Christmas getaway.
lizzie said…
@CatEyes,

What I thought but wife#2 would be HRH *The* Duchess of Sussex.

Of course, I guess new Letters could be issued.
Fedde said…
tatty
@tweety I don’t know anything about registering websites, but is it possible someone registered a website on that date and then changed the name after he was born?
December 28, 2019 at 9:33 AM

The creation date is Feb 12, 2018. The update date is Feb 13, 2019.
CatEyes said…
@lizzie
I agree, about *The* but figured some sharp eyed poster (like you...lol) would correct that, I just didn't want to double post..thanks for the correction!
CatEyes said…
One thing I learned by reading the Letters patent info is that a "Duke" is second most impostant title, just below the Monarch. When in reality, there are more "Dukes: (and by extension 'Duchesses") than Princes or Princesses. Yet it seems many think Prince or Princess is a higher title.
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PrettyPaws said…
Hi, Nutties

Re the removal of titles for the Harkles, only an Act of Parliament can remove their titles. However, there is a little-known way by which this can be forced to be discussed in the aforesaid Parliament.

There is a special site online that anyone can access where a petition can be launched and, once a certain number of signatures have been collected (not sure how many, maybe 50,000 or 100,000) then the subject of the petition must be brought up in Parliament.

I believe that, if such a petition were made, and the requisite number of signatures were collected, then the mere fact that it existed would send the senior Royals into a complete tail spin. I can imagine the Queen and Prince Charles if this happened. I don't suppose such a petition would gain much importance within the establishment but it may, if started, force the BRF to actually do something concrete regarding PH and MM.

Just a thought.
Girl with a Hat said…
tweetymamma, the domain is not up for sale.

I went to godaddy.com and that domain was bought some time ago.

And, no, it is not possible to change the domain name. A slight change in a domain name, for example to archieharrison.ca instead of .com or even archyharrison.com is a totally different domain name. Interestingly, I went to whois to try to find the domain owner and it wasn't in the records.

Another point related to the information above - it always amazes me how some people here will try to twist anything around in order to protect Meghan or defend her or find someway of taking the blame away from her. If these people used all of that creativity in writing fiction instead of defending a con artist, they could win the Nobel Prize for Literature, their inventiveness being limitless.
Fedde said…
CatEyes
One thing I learned by reading the Letters patent info is that a "Duke" is second most impostant title, just below the Monarch. When in reality, there are more "Dukes: (and by extension 'Duchesses") than Princes or Princesses. Yet it seems many think Prince or Princess is a higher title.
December 28, 2019 at 10:12 AM

There's a difference between "regular" Dukes and royal Dukes. William and Harry both became royal Dukes upon marriage because QEII bestowed the titles (and lands?) on them and their wives.
Sandie said…
@tatty: 'I haven’t been to Victoria (bucket list) but I have been to Vancouver and just LOVE the area. The house looks like a good place for someone to stay give its on a peninsula and the house has a turret.'

But it is winter, so Meghan will not be able to swim and lie on the beach, which she loves to do (as well as posing for the camera)! I can imagine Harry going hiking, but running and hiking have never been featured activities of Meghan. A tropical private island would be more like her holiday place, with lots of restaurants and wine and perfect places for selfies, and friends coming to stay to enjoy parties on the beach (of course, in between plotting and planning how to become the most powerful, influential and famous person in the world!).

She's probably planted the story just to get attention.

If I had to give Meghan a job it would be in sales ... blind them with switch-on charm, lots of quick word salad and lunches at wonderful venues (plus the flourish of a handwritten card and carefully chosen gift basket). She would win the 'sales person of the year award' every year! (I was head of an editorial and production department and I adored the sales people but gosh they made my life difficult .. 'drop quality and just give us more product quicker' was always their approach and 'your standards are too high' they complained after I had halved the length of the production cycle while trying to maintain standards.) The BRF seniors are wrong in thinking that a good sales person (so woke and articulate and fashionable and educated and smart ... ha!) is what they need to promote and foster longevity of the monarchy. What they need is standards and grace and dignity and traditions and non-partisan support and promotion of all that is British (and to tackle real problems in a slow, steady lasting change kind of way ... the small steps Her Maj spoke about). Meghan can do none of those things.

Nope, I doubt they are where the DM said they are, unless it was the only freebie they could get.
Unknown said…
@Mischi said...
"Another point related to the information above - it always amazes me how some people here will try to twist anything around in order to protect Meghan or defend her or find someway of taking the blame away from her. If these people used all of that creativity in writing fiction instead of defending a con artist, they could win the Nobel Prize for Literature, their inventiveness being limitless.'

...Thank you for saying this Mischi. I totally agree and find it puzzling why this type of activity would be found here on this specific blog where people who feel MM is untrustworthy at the very least are posting. Perhaps it is the result of paid MM supporters.

Mischi - what are your thoughts on the supposed reveal of the Harkle's location?
CatEyes said…
@Fedde

Yes I know that. What I said was true, I never said Harry was a duke at birth.
Teasmade said…
@Mischi: Interesting! I just went to archieharrison.com, which took me to a GoDaddy site that said it WAS for sale. Very mysterious! I even tried archieharrison.co.uk--same thing. If we could post graphics, I'd attach screenshots.

That is also strange about your whois attempt. Could someone have made a facsimile of the whois results and posted that to Twitter? It looked very real.

By the way, I WANT this to be true, as proof of her scheming! So these contrasting results are bolstering that hope for me.
Fedde said…
CatEyes
@Fedde

Yes I know that. What I said was true, I never said Harry was a duke at birth.

December 28, 2019 at 10:41 AM

I never said it wasn't? You sounded surprised about the (royal) duke being ranked higher than a prince and mentioned that there are more dukes than princes, which is why I thought I'd explain the difference.
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@Lizzie, ‘They could be retired off but they'd still have titles as Andrew does and as Edward did.’

When I mentioned the Sussex’s being retired off, I simply meant no longer be working royals or receive any kind of financial assistance from the public etc. I know royal born princes never lose their titles. I highly doubt the Queen would ever revoke Andrew’s dukedom, which he like his nephew’s received upon marriage from the Monarch. ;o)


@LiverBird, ‘I don't think Fergie has ever held the title of 'Lady Sarah'.’

So true! Lol Sarah never had a title till marriage.
CatEyes said…
@Fedde

I will not engage anymore on this with you as you impute something I did not say/infer ("surprise"). I have seen your tone/rebuttal with others and I don't want it to happen to me. In particular, I said "Yet it seems many think Prince or Princess is a higher title", note I said others, not me (no 'surprise'). I'm just trying to help by supply info. Period. End of.
Liver Bird said…
There is no way the queen would respond to a public petition asking for members of her family to be removed from royal duties. That would set a precedent whereby the public got to chose who was and was not entitled to royal titles, and for an institution which is based on the concept of royal status being granted purely by birth or marriage, that would be a very dangerous move. If the public gets to choose who is and is not 'royal' then what exactly is the point of the monarchy at all?
@LiverBird, ‘There is no way the queen would respond to a public petition asking for members of her family to be removed from royal duties. ‘

I concur. I’ve said it before, the British public can’t cherry pick which royals we want or don’t. It’s either a monarchy or a republic.
Marie said…
@Fedde, that's quite interesting with the idea that they were offered the mansion in order to raise possible selling prices! I never thought of that, but it would make sense and fit the style of Meghan. Btw, I am just curious, but is it true that a royal duke is ranked higher than a prince? Because I thought that a prince is sort of outside the peerage classification (duke, earl, marquess, etc). For example, Prince Edward is not a duke, but he certainly must be ranked "higher" somehow than a regular duke (non-royal).

@LiverBird and @RaspberryRuffle, you're unfortunately quite right. I also tend to think they're trademarking their names, but my main problem is that they have to go about rubbing the "royal" in everyone's faces. As @Elle said, Meg is truly nouveau riche with her gauche McMansion (despite her pleas for using less resources to save the environment) and flaunting her "royal" this and "HRH" that everywhere.
SirStinxAlot said…
@Trudy. I am a real estate agent and it extremely easy to look up on the internet who the current owners are and all the past owners, construction dates, builders, permits, alterations submitted to home or property for approval, etc. Anyone with a keyboard literally. Since the address is known just check public records. Bam! I gaurantee it's going up for sale very soon.
NeutralObserver said…
A quick hit of bitchiness from me while recovering from Christmas.

@SirStinxAlot, You're absolutely right, whether the Harkles stayed in the Saanich house or not, the DM spread looks like a Zillow posting.

@Sandie, Yes, you're spot on. Megs has always made me think 'Assistant Account Executive' of some sort. That would seem to be her natural level of competency. She could sell time shares somewhere, maybe somewhere sunny & with beaches near SwampWoman!

Cheers & Happy Holidays everyone!
Liver Bird said…
@Marie

"For example, Prince Edward is not a duke, but he certainly must be ranked "higher" somehow than a regular duke (non-royal)."

Prince Edward was granted the lesser title of Earl upon marriage as he is expected to become Duke of Edinburgh once Philip passes on.
Glow W said…
+1 Liverbird and raspberry ruffle

Generally speaking, not directed to anyone in particular:
Per the idea of twisting what MM does etc: tell me, what has happened to her because of her grifting? Ask yourself if it is POSSIBLE that people here wish bad things and make up their own creative fiction, suitable for a literature prize because they don’t like her? Possibly? Yes. Possible.

You can call me a sugar, a troll, or a paid MM employee. The point of the matter is you have not been proven right. Nor have I. She is who Harry chose as a wife and it doesn’t matter if you like her or not or wish her to be some kind of criminal mastermind.

She is still standing and you are still here using your time talking about her. If I left and went elsewhere, you wouldn’t have me to temper the ideas, but that wouldn’t make MM go away, get busted for something, get removed from the royal family, or be divorced from Harry.

And I sure wish I was getting paid from someone to be here. Nutty, can you arrange that? Lol


Again, what has happened to her because of her whatever it is she has done that you don’t like? Tell me.
none said…
Perhaps MM is now merching their presence to increase the exposure and price of the property. In exchange they get cover for where they really were.
Glow W said…
@holly yes, I have read if a house has provenance, it increases the price. Also, if the house has a name. This house has both, so if anyone wanted to sell it now would be the time. “Prince Harry stayed here...”
PrettyPaws said…
I just pointed out that the mere thought/existence of a petition would give the BRF food for thought re the Harkles. The newspapers would jump on it and it would make far more headlines than the Brighton petition. At least the Royals would have to accept that the British people were most definitely not fans of PH and MM and would like nothing better than for this awful duo to be removed. Perhaps then they would stop "Ginge & Cringe" from making any public appearances (which always turn into PR disasters) and confine them to the occasional appearance at strictly family events. I am not thinking that a petition would affect the BRF's prerogative re titles, just that it may make them realise that we are totally fed up with the Sussex debacle and cause them to reign in the Harkles' outrageous behaviour and give them the most-vaunted "privacy" they say they want.
SirStinxAlot said…
For the record, Zillow is not a reliable source. Many/ most of their information is inaccurate. Everything from "Forclosure" tags, zestimates, photos, etc. My best advice is to hire a professional when you are in the market to buy or sell.
Perhaps the Sussex's are considering moving back to Canada after all. They may have been " testing" the home to see if they want to buy it. Who knows. Uber rich are often odd.
Girl with a Hat said…
@tweeymamma, this is a direct cut and paste from godaddy.com

archieharrison.com is taken

@Trudy, I don't believe that Markle is staying in the estate listed. I think this is a merching attempt on her part. I do believe Torontopaper1 on twitter who said that Rachel was not allowed to enter Canada. I think Justin Trudeau may have intervened, but if she were rebuffed on her first attempt, I don't think she was headed for a $14 million mansion which she rented.

Also, it is very trollish to come here and defend obvious missteps by Meghan by trying to gaslight the rest of us, like saying that the name of the domain was incorrect or changed. A domain name doesn't have variations in it. When you make a typo when entering a web address in your web browser, it doesn't forgive your error. It gives you the domain name you typed in, typos and all. The fact that I have to explain something so obvious is a surefire sign of gaslighting. And you know which type of person gaslights other people, don't you? It starts with a "n" and ends with a "arcissist". And it's her narcissism that makes normal non-narcissistic people dislike Meghan.

The endless stories with corrections to corrections are typical gaslighting by Markle, by the way. She makes us doubt our own reality.

Liver Bird said…
It's a beautiful house but I dunno.... I kind of think Meghan's ambitions ran a bit higher than a house in chilly Canada owned by some anonymous 'multi-millionaire'. I can't see Meghan as a cold weather sort of person. Remember CB and the other loons were convinced she was shacking up at Oprah's pad in California? And no 'leaked' photos of celeb 'friends' dropping in? Other than the grander establishment, in what way was this an upgrade from their Frogmore life?
Glow W said…
@prettypaws isn’t there already a petition (I don’t mean the Sussex one

@sirstinx Zillow and realtor are both wrong for my house. Both show one bedroom and one bathroom less than I have and the guesstimate is completely wrong because I have a custom house in an exclusive area and the nearest comps are less than in terms of area, so the guess if off by 75k (my guess about their guess)
CookieShark said…
It appears in the past that MM has enjoyed luxury travel, expensive foods, and designer clothing. Since she married PH, it appears that she poses in pictures and then quite soon later those pictures are Instagrammed or on other websites where her clothing/jewelry is identified. It's quite tacky as it looks like she is "selling" how to look like a member of the RF, which is something that family would never want. The fact that she has not respected this, when this family is providing her lifestyle, is disrespectful.

Just as a regular person, I think people take exception with MM because there are several clips of her pushing others out of the way (and she does not even check to see if the person is OK). I also don't appreciate H&M's "Travalyst" as it is a preachy way of telling us ordinary folk how to vacation. Yes I choose cheap flights and cheap hotels because I earn a certain amount per hour. This is what I can afford. Also I work, I can't travel whenever I feel like it and follow the Travalyst global "push" for greatness. Are we supposed to believe their latest trip to the McMansion in Canada was ecofriendly?
Hikari said…
Re. Sussexes leaked location...they probably got it for free in exchange for the “cachet”. Ha of their visit helping to sell the property. It wouldn’t surprise me either if the Harkles made the seller absorb the cost of their security upgrades and demanded a cut of the eventual selling price. With a permanent plaque to be installed that says HRHs the Duke and Duchess of Sussex slept here.” Now that the location has been “leaked”... by them, I’m sure they are safely gone. New Years will be spent in Ibiza or Nice perhaps...somewhere warm.

IIRC Sarah Ferguson’s father Maj. Ronald Ferguson. was HM’s Master of Horse. Horses are near and dear to ER’s heart, but I was surprised that the stable man’s daughter was deemed posh enough to be the wife of the Queen’s heir spare and favorite.
Girl with a Hat said…
@LiverBird, Victoria and Vancouver are about as chilly as the UK, probably not even that cold. You should check your facts about BC. It's not a cold place, relatively speaking, and she seemed quite happy in Toronto. Vancouver is much warmer, and has a very big film industry as well. She was pushing to become the GG of Canada's wife, and was wiling to live in Toronto, so I think she'd be amenable to Vancouver's climate as well. It's Ottawa and Montreal that are much colder.

I don't think that house is her style. She doesn't seem to appreciate traditional esthetics and likes the more modern minimalistic style. I honestly think she goes to Buckingham Palace and thinks that she would have a garage sale with all that stuff and put in nice copper fixtures.


KayeC said…
Don't know if this has been shared or not, but below is a link to the charlatan dutchess blog that has a breakdown of owners/good and services of the Sussex Foundation compared with The Royal Foundation of D&DofC.

Interesting.....

https://the-charlatan-duchess.tumblr.com/post/189918235544
KayeC said…
Lol, duchess.....not dutchess....
Liver Bird said…
@PrettyPaws

I think the royals know the Harkles are unpopular and that they are damaging the family's reputation. If we are correct that the 'family time' was forced upon the Harkles, they may also be taking action against them. As in: lie low, keep out of the news and then in the new year decide if you want to be a part of this family or not, and if you do it will be on our terms. If not, then we'd be sorry to see you go but maybe it's best for you to make your own way in life.

There has been a definite theme of 'it's all about the heirs' in royal communications of late, and while I still think the Harkles could have a role to play if (big if!) they're prepared to do it respectfully, they aren't actually needed. I suspect that will have been made clear to the Harkles so it's up to them how they respond.
Girl with a Hat said…
@Hikari, I don't think she would want to stay there. It's not her style and she finds it unappealing. I think when she was yachting, she would see very rich nouveaux riches and she thinks that is how rich people live. She doesn't appreciate having an original Rembrandt or Degas or even a Freud in the lounge. She has never really lived with or understood the real upper class before Harry.

It reminds me of the Turm und Taxis who are German royalty, trying to sell some land in some country where they owned several hundred thousand acres. They had to explain it to some government commission. They said that it wasn't in their habit to sell land but they had done it in the 14th century at the request of the Pope at that time.

That's not something she can wrap her little head around, that she now belongs to such a family. She was set for life and her descendants as well, for a few generations, but she blew it by merching some trinkets from Jessica Meyer and a coat from Stella McCartney.
Liver Bird said…
"IIRC Sarah Ferguson’s father Maj. Ronald Ferguson. was HM’s Master of Horse. Horses are near and dear to ER’s heart, but I was surprised that the stable man’s daughter was deemed posh enough to be the wife of the Queen’s heir spare and favorite."

I think Andrew's generation of royals was the one where we saw a major change in attitudes towards marriage. When his Aunt Margaret married Anthony Armstrong Jones it was the first time in 400 years that a senior royal married a 'commonor' (though of course by most standards he was very posh) and considered quite daring. Since then however, all of the royals have married non-aristocrats, with the obvious exception of Charles' first marriage to Lady Diana Spencer. The future Queen Catherine comes from a family which, though wealthy and upwardly mobile, wasn't considered posh at all. Quite a change in just a few generations.
Girl with a Hat said…
@Liver Bird, I think you will find that the Queen's father married a commoner. He was a senior royal, being the second in line to the throne. This is from wikipedia


In a time when royalty were expected to marry fellow royalty, it was unusual that Albert had a great deal of freedom in choosing a prospective wife. An infatuation with the already-married Australian socialite Lady Loughborough came to an end in April 1920 when the King, with the promise of the dukedom of York, persuaded Albert to stop seeing her.[33][34] That year, he met for the first time since childhood Lady Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon, the youngest daughter of the Earl of Strathmore and Kinghorne. He became determined to marry her.[35] She rejected his proposal twice, in 1921 and 1922, reportedly because she was reluctant to make the sacrifices necessary to become a member of the royal family.[36] In the words of her mother Cecilia Bowes-Lyon, Countess of Strathmore and Kinghorne, Albert would be "made or marred" by his choice of wife. After a protracted courtship, Elizabeth agreed to marry him.[37]

They were married on 26 April 1923 in Westminster Abbey. Albert's marriage to someone not of royal birth was considered a modernising gesture.[38] The newly formed British Broadcasting Company wished to record and broadcast the event on radio, but the Abbey Chapter vetoed the idea (although the Dean, Herbert Edward Ryle, was in favour)
Girl with a Hat said…
To explain - although the Queen's father became King George vi, his name was Albert. He chose to be known as George, because Albert sounded too German.
SwampWoman said…

@Sandie, Yes, you're spot on. Megs has always made me think 'Assistant Account Executive' of some sort. That would seem to be her natural level of competency. She could sell time shares somewhere, maybe somewhere sunny & with beaches near SwampWoman!

Oh, snap. Perhaps she would like to go boating and feed the alligators. That would be dangerous and illegal, of course, but it doesn't seem that laws apply to her. And just think of the selfie opportunities!
Unknown said…
I doubt H&M are moving to Canada. Meg may want to but I am pretty sure the BRF will put the kibosh on those plans unless they stop being working royals. I think Meg is haphazardly putting out feelers to get some pseudo-working royal position like Canada’s Governor General or concoct one in connection to the Commonwealth. She wants to leave the U.K. and is pushing the boundaries hard to find some space away from the BRF while still keeping her royal title.

Meg going to a non-cosmopolitan area for the holidays seemed very un-Meg but now it sounds like business as usual. 2019 was rough on the real-estate market and selling mansions has been really tough for some time now. It’s possible the seller has wanted to unload the property for a while and Meg insinuated herself into the situation making sure they knew what a privilege it would be to host the trio. I wouldn’t have considered it a smart deal but maybe the owner knows buyers will find the Sussex cachet worthwhile.
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Hikari said…
@LiverBird

As the daughter of an Earl from one of the most venerable Scottish families, who enjoyed an aristocratic upbringing in a castle, Lady Elizabeth Bowes Lyon doesn’t sound at all “common” to me. Perhaps being Scots and not of a royal bloodline passed for “common”!in her day. From everything I have read, she was considered a very desirable bride for Bertie and a real catch for the second born son with some disadvantages...his speech impediment and possible learning difficulties. Had Edward not abdicated I get a sense that expectations for the Duke I’d York would not have been high and he would have lived something of a dilettante existence like Harry is now. His wife was the perfect helpmeet for him in the role he would have thrust upon him. The marriage may have been arranged, but it grew into a true love match and partnership, which was a happy serendipity. The Yorks were blissfully happy with their daughters until their idyllic life ended in 1936.

David belittled her as “the Scottish cook” so I suppose she was considered a commoner in Royal circles, but with such a pedigree it’s hard to understand how, other than to attribute it to snobbery rampant in the aristocracy. I’ve heard Queen Mum could be a snob with the best of them. I wonder what she would have made of William choosing a Wisteria Sister with coal minerals in the family tree and a father “in trade” hawking party tat. I love Kate so how fortunate that William was allowed to marry for love.
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Girl with a Hat said…
@Hikari, Diana was also belittled for being a commoner marrying the heir to the throne even though she was a member of one of the oldest aristocratic families in the UK. For royalty, only other royals were considered marriage material hence the inbreeding. LOL
none said…
Mille Fleurs. The home where the Harkels are reported to have stayed. Listed for sale in 2012.

https://homesoftherich.net/2012/09/mille-fleurs-an-18-million-waterfront-estate-in-canada/

Photos in the DM article are from this listing.
KayeC said…
@Mischi, I agree that she was not a "royal" but she was not a "commoner" either. She had the title of Lady Elizabeth and her father was an Earl. I believe her mother came from the Cavendish-Bentinck family, so it would seem she was in the same league as Diana.

It was Queen Victoria and King Christian IX of Denmark that had married so many of their children and grandchildren into royal households that the may have wanted "new blood," as they had started to develop "weak chins." (Just a saying, not being serious, lol)
Hikari said…
Michael Middleton’s Internet party tat business and its subsidiaries net millions of pounds every year. He has an incredibly successful e-commerce Empire. We Americans lack an hereditary aristocracy So for better or worse a family’s class class standing and social desirability is based on their fortune. A self-made multimillionaire, with the drive and acumen to make his own money, rather than to just lay around waiting to inherit it from some moldering relative long dead Makes a man a success in American terms. Money can’t buy manners, dignity or a good heart...what might be called class in intangible terms. But we don’t Pooh Pooh “new money” on principle. It spends the same as old money.
Liver Bird said…
"As the daughter of an Earl from one of the most venerable Scottish families, who enjoyed an aristocratic upbringing in a castle, Lady Elizabeth Bowes Lyon doesn’t sound at all “common” to me."

Where did I say she was? She was an Earl's daughter. As I said, Anthony Armstrong Jones was the first non-aristocrat to marry a senior royal in 400 years.
KayeC said…
Also, another problem was their passing of the hemophilia gene and other not so "royal" conditions. I think that was QV's plan, having so many children and grand-children intermarried to secure the "blood line" among European countries. That is why WWI was known at the time as the "Cousins War." Didn't quite work out as she planned, I guess.
Liver Bird said…
@Trudy

"Although I understand your points on a petition, I can't help but feel it could be a useful instrument to serve in driving the Harkles out. Wouldn't a petition of this sort go to parliament rather than the Queen herself?"

It might 'go to parliament' but it would have almost no impact. Internet petitions get signed by thousands of people all the time, and never achieve anything.

And really, the British public aren't that exercised about the Harkles. Most don't follow their antics in anything like the detail that is seen here. Andrew was a different story. He had been one of the most unpopular royals for a long time, and that ridiculous interview was just hte last straw. His disgrace was on an entirely different level.
JHanoi said…
So if they only arrived December 19th or so , where have they been staying prior to this during their break....Frogmore?
Unknown said…
Were there no European princesses available to tempt Charles with when he finally decided to get married? Or William for that matter?
KayeC said…
@Trudy, yes, I believe one of Queen Margrethe II of Denmark's sisters (maybe Princess Benedikte) was once considered a good royal match for Charles.
Liver Bird said…
@Trudy It's no longer the norm for royals to marry other European royals. Hasn't been for quite some time. With the fall of so many royal houses after WWl there just aren't that many Protestant princesses to choose from in any case. Most of the European royals these days marry 'commoners' from their own countries.
KayeC said…
And I think Princess Olga of the Romanov family was also considered. Don't know who was considering? Charles, the Queen and PP or the Queen Mother?? They all seemed to have a say in his marriage or non marriage.
Fedde said…
@Trudy
Perhaps not due to the age/generational differences? I don't know about Charles' time but when William was in his twenties, most of the European princesses were of a higher station (heirs to the throne) or still young children. Besides, I've always gotten the impression the BRF* aren't that close to their European counterparts; many of the heirs (some of whom are now monarchs) would often "hang out" together but Charles was never around and William wouldn't have been of the same station (and probably a couple of years to a decade younger, too). Tabloids would occasionally imply it's because Charles was jealous that they were younger and were more likely to ascend their throne soon-ish compared to his situation, but I don't know if that's true. I've always found it interesting though that many of the European royals are godparents to each others children, except for the BRF.

QEII has always had pretty good friendships with her fellow monarchs but that might be because they shared more hard times (WWII) together? That's just speculation, though.

*I've heard Edward and Sophie are the exception and have been spotted vacationing with some of the European royals throughout the years, probably because they're often sent to European royal events unless the event requires someone of Charles' station.
Fedde said…
Oh and Liverbird makes a good point about the different kinds of religion among the royals.
SirStinxAlot said…
I don't know about filing petitions, but could a general petition be filed by Americans to have security funding stopped during visits and potential move or business visits to USA? Isn't there a Sussex Royal charity being started in the US? If so, taxpayers in US would be paying the bill. Also, I think it's silly to try to strip their titles. Just start a petition in UK stopping their funding through the sovereign grant. List all the inappropriate things the duo have done over the past years. Everything from transparent skirts, 10 minute "royal visits", poor manners while " on the job", inappropriate behavior in public during visits, inappropriate behavior visiting foreign countries, excessive spending, political activitism, interveneing in political affairs by calling MP's, etc. They do not represent the people or the crown well. Then petition they no longer be allowed as working royals and no longer recieve any public funding. It would be more effective.
Hikari said…
@Liver

I wasn’t disputing with you, just thinking out loud and marveling at the snobbery of a system that would regard a scion of One of the oldest families in Scotland, with titles lands and a castle as Somehow to “common” to be worthy of a second son of a King. I just replied to you because you made the original post. No offense intended.
Unknown said…
Thanks to all for the info re Royal marriages! :-)
KnitWit said…
This link mentions MM has no upcoming royal appearances. Surprising .... Not

https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/1221480/meghan-markle-next-appearance-prince-harry-kate-middleton-prince-william-cambridge-rift/amp?__twitter_impression=true
Glow W said…
@knitwit the only people who have engagements listed on the Royal Diary are Princess Royal, Earl of Wessex, Camilla and Duke of Gloucester.

The Queen, Charles, William, Kate do not have anything listed.
Glow W said…
https://www.royal.uk/future-engagements
none said…
The Harkles have been on 6-week vacation while the other Royals - the Queen, Charles, William, Kate - have had engagements and appearances. Time for the Harkles to go back to work.
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Teasmade said…
Royal or common; those are the choices. "Common" just means not royal. Some may say that "noble" is separate, others that it's a subset of common. Either way, "common" is not a slur or a judgement.

(I'm not here to defend royalty, either--can't stand the concept and the reality is even worse.)
A Blind Gossip piece, unsure if it’s been posted already. I will delete if so.

One for the Sussex’s.... :o/


We warned you that this was coming!

Think back to a few months ago when we talked about the baby.

Our married couple was oddly reluctant to let the public see the baby, citing concerns over safety and a desire to bond privately.

We told you that wasn’t true. Plenty of their family members have managed to keep their children safe and secure over many generations while meeting their obligations as public figures.

We told you that the couple was actually trying to keep sightings of the baby rare while they figured out how to monetize the situation… without the rest of the family finding out.

They bungled that scenario.

However, it’s now full steam ahead with The Big Plan!

What is The Big Plan?

To brand and monetize everything.
You are now seeing that plan being put into motion. And if you question what they are doing, you will be met with anger, misdirection, and insistence that their motives are pure.

We hid the baby because… Privacy! Motherhood!

We take private planes and stay in posh private digs because… Environment! Wellness!

We isolate ourselves from 99% of our family and surround ourselves with celebrities because… Family! Safety!

We are engaging our own outside lawyers and PR team because… Protection! Charity!

How dare you question our motives!
See how that works?

Our couple is good. Those who question their motives or their nonsensical excuses or their bizarre hypocrisy are bad.

By the way, if you like The Clinton Foundation, you are going to love our couple’s charity organization. Why? Because The Clinton Foundation is our couple’s model.

Actually, they think they can be much bigger than The Clinton Foundation.
They just have to keep you pesky commoners at bay while they spin up the machine.

Then it’s cha ching… cha ching… cha ching!

All in the name of charity, of course.

Yes, you may roll your eyes.


https://blindgossip.com/the-big-plan/
none said…
Assuming the Blind Gossip article is accurate, there is no way these two dimwits are running things. Who are their backers and what are their goals? Money? Influence? Pushing the "woke" agenda?
CookieShark said…
"They bungled that scenario"

Fits the bill for the wedding, the baby press conference, this whole summer, the SA tour, needing a 6 week break from a luxurious lifestyle, the Christmas card....

Also can anyone explain what Travalyst is?
DesignDoctor said…
This is what I read:
Travalyst won’t encourage people to travel less, but it will help tourists make environmentally friendly decisions, such as providing tips for offsetting carbon emissions and supporting local communities at tourist destinations. The goal is to give the consumer more eco-conscious travel options when booking trips and educate them on the impact tourism can have on the environment. In the months ahead, Travalyst will launch new industry collaborations and initiatives focusing on different areas of tourism sustainability, including preventing wildlife damage and ways to tackle the growing problem of "over-tourism"—which is literally seeing some of the world’s most beautiful places being loved to death.

How hypocritical of them!!!!
DesignDoctor said…
Sadly, I think the Blind Gossip item is true and agree with @holly that they have backers who are far more competent than them. I don't think those two could find their way out of a paper sack!
none said…
DesignDoctor...Thanks for that explanation of Travalyst. Yes, how very hypocritical! Especially with today's story about the $14 million dollar home they just stayed in.
Glow W said…
If they have backers, the backers are inept.
Louise said…
So, what happened to the "big announcement" by the Cambridges that Smirkle's friend and fake Royal reporter Omid Scobie told us to expect this week?
SirStinxAlot said…
@tatty. Perhaps. Either the backers are inept...or cannot agree how to proceed making them disorganized....or Meghan thinks she knows everything and isn't taking her Que's. Anything is possible.
Anonymous said…

I'll be surprised if they're actually staying there, and I'd be even more surprised if they'd want to buy it. PH might like it b/c of the weather (similar to home), but "warmer" than Toronto does not mean "warm". Even though the temps are in the 30s/40s up here right now, it's bloody cold out there. The damp really sinks in, and living in lots of grey requires a big adjustment. It's not an apples/oranges comparison. I've lived in several different cities, a couple where it snowed regularly, and a warmer, humid one. I deal with the weather here because I find this to be the most civilized of areas, and I like how laid-back it is.

Housing prices out here are insane, so while $14M isn't pocket change, it's not all that, and the decorating is a little behind and pretentious. I do like the conservatory, but I'd have it all redone, and even then, I wouldn't because I find the size of it to be silly (but that's just me, and most Americans don't feel that way). This is pretty common McMansion material out here, as @Marie pointed out. This is not old PNW money, although "old" here is nouveau to East Coast and South, so it's all relative.

As for snobbishness about old money and family, it is not limited to the BRF, and there is a lot of overlap between Diana's family and Chas' (from William the Conqueror to James I, then the split). Also, Diana's came via some illegitimacy, whereas Chas' family claims direct descendants. And old English families appear on both charts (for ex, the Dudleys, the Cavendishes, the Talbots, the Staffords, the Greys, etc.) Diana had more English blood, but even then, the Spencer family was established in the 15th century and weren't granted their coat of arms until early 1500s (which, to some old families, is "nouveau"). There are much older families. So I probably wouldn't dismiss either fam as nouveau riche, but to say that Diana was more royal than Chas etc. may not be fair, either, although I guess Diana liked to say it. Of course, William and PH got both sides, so Wills is definitely King IMO.

Glow W said…
@sirstinxalot yes, to put it in another way, if there is some kind of plan, the plan is not going well lol.
none said…
The plan is just beginning. Will be interesting to watch how the BRF reacts as it unfolds.
CookieShark said…
Thank you Design Doctor.

More of that "I flew a private jet, but I am planting 1000 trees" garbage.
Louise said…
Elle: It is much colder where I live in Canada, but with many sunny days. I prefer this to day after day of overcast skies on Vancouver Island.
Anonymous said…
@Louise, yes, you're smart :)

I sometimes feel that same way about cold, dry, sunny v. chilly, damp, dreary. I love BC and PNW, but OMG, sometimes with the weather. Oy!
Anonymous said…
Oh, and lololol, nothing says "nouveau" faster than this: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/prince-harry-meghan-markle-seeing-21178463

Of course, a new mansion with an imported 17th century fireplace because, you know, organic and tasteful (or ticky-tacky Las Vegas style, you decide). And a Russian oligarch. And a fleet of SUVs.
Anonymous said…
I have nothing but contempt for these two. This looks like something she'd be drooling over on her old blog, The Tig. And Russian oligarch? ARE THEY FLAMING STUPID? I have to assume this is just fake PR because the optics of this are horrific.
Anonymous said…
Yes, @WizardWench, because when all else fails, your LA contacts have dumped you, and the BRF has cut you adrift at land's end, the smartest thing to do is rent a McMansion owned by a Russian Oligarch and travel to it by private jet to underscore your green cred and new launch to save the environment..
Girl with a Hat said…
I don't believe they are in that mansion.

I believe her LA contacts and potential projects are crumbling beneath her feet, because that's where I think she is.

Oprah has problems of her own, and is being seen as a Harvey Weinstein enabler, so I think that she will avoid any more troublesome people for the time being.

Jennifer Meyer and her humiliation by Buckingham Palace about the merching of jewellery caused a lot of bridges to be burned as well.

I think that by showing up to the Lion King premiere looking like a person with mental health issues isn't going to get her many Disney projects either.

Hollywood is about connections and networking as well as looks and mystique. Meghan has lost them all.

She is done like the Christmas turkey.
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xxxxx said…
Owned by a Russian oligarch? This is getting better and better. Hopefully lots more leaks out about the twosome's Vancouver situation. Are they inviting Hollywood deal makers to their temporary waterfront mansion?
Glow W said…
Sussex aide honored: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7833647/Queen-honours-Meghan-Markles-aide-Clara-Loughran-gave-Duchess-wedding-flowers.html

Royal Victorian Order
Anonymous said…
I continue to be astonished at how tone-deaf she is. The real Ms. Markle was her persona as broadcasted on The Tig. Living the high life in expensive, exclusive resorts, surrounded by luxury and sipping on Roederer Cristal Brut champagne at nearly $800/bottle. The "woke" duchess is nothing more than a figment of her own imagination. Sunshine Sachs is either hamstrung by her demands or they are the WORST PR company in the world. We are supposed to be impressed by this? I am thoroughly disgusted. I am NOT okay.
Brown-eyed said…
Domain names. Some years ago domain contacts (up to 3 people for each registered domain) were having major problems being bombed with junk mail.l, etc. Worse was that some domain owners were losing their domains as people figured out how to illegally take someone else’s domain by spoofing the owner’s identity (too long to describe that). Now the contacts’ identities are anonymous and shielded. You can contact godaddy if you have legitimate business and they will forward info to the proper person. This “secrecy” protects ownership and identities. The archieharrison.com domain is paid up to 2020. It can be renewed or dropped by the owner of the domain. It was registered from England.

If you checked the domains of me or my clients, you would find no direct contact information. All of mine are also registered through godaddy.

I have no explanation or brilliant idea about why this Archie domain was registered before the birth. Weird.
Anonymous said…

@wizardwench True enough: The "woke" duchess is nothing more than a figment of her own imagination.

Of course,"Woke" was just Diana-charitable-works cosplay, a shiny heart-tug to lure PH, then she let him be her knight in shining armor, saving her from the mean racists and awful BIL & SIL. Pretty obvious.

If the clueless prince had taken a moment to think about it, he'd have realized that a woman whose blog, the Tig, was focused only on food, drink, travel, and ticky-tacky-wanna-be conspicuous behavior and possessions and who had websites reserved with names like "babes who lunch" and "nutmeg" was not who she was quite momentarily pretending to be. Her sugars would notice this, too. And her "celebrity" "friends" would have been able to steer clear of the mess that she is. But no, because despite every last bloody obvious clue in the form of past history and actions v. words, they've all chosen a "duchess" who is the equivalent of an overpriced knock-off bottom-shelf happy hour cocktail ('sex on the beach' comes to mind).

This is all just absurd, and the Russian oligarch is just a plot twist in a bad screenplay, but my guess is that if the DM and Sun are printing it, it's quite likely true enough, esp with that lawsuit looming. I'd love to know how they found out about the oligarch, however. They could have followed the holding company trail, but it would be far more fun if a reliable source dropped the info.
Brown-eyed said…
@tweeymma

I just checked Whois and also godaddy again. Archieharrison.com is not available for purchase. The account has been paid to 2020. You can purchase “archieharrison” with other endings, such as archieharrison.store or archieharrison.uk.
Unknown said…
Glowworm here: I hear you WizardWench. Neither am I.
What we have here is a person who was attractive enough to marry a man who got her a small, recurring sex-pot, PARA*legal role in a tv series about lawyers. Once he served his purpose he was jettisoned, like many men before him. What I will give her is the drive to create the Tig website...that’s all. This tv series paid her enough to enable her to hire PR firms who employed people with ideas to promote her into a higher demographic where she met more people she could manipulate. Once she landed the dimwit she continued to bring on more PR firms who have created the infrastructure for SussexRoyal Foundation. She has done nothing, created nothing beyond a website. All she has done sleep herself to a place to be able is hire people with far-reaching and horrendous ideas that they are rapidly putting into place.
The world has always had people like her...she’s not the first and unfortunately won’t be the last. Someone asked what has she done wrong...I ask what has she done right?!?!
*The sexpot wasn’t even cast as an attorney...
Anonymous said…

@Unknown, one thing: nothing wrong with being a paralegal or an executive secretary, just saying. I'm not either, but I've known plenty of sleazy attorneys lol, many of whom rely on their terribly competent paralegals and assistants. So, I don't like to diss an entire profession, even when it's done re Rach.
Unknown said…
Glowworm here: nah, me either...just throwing everything including the kitchen sink in...lol
Anonymous said…
LOL Glowworm, and that sounds appropriate because Rach is definitely the 'kitchen sink' ilk (no offense to kitchen sinks lol)
Sandie said…
@Louise: 'So, what happened to the "big announcement" by the Cambridges that Smirkle's friend and fake Royal reporter Omid Scobie told us to expect this week?'

I think it was the open letter from Kate and the photos of her when she spent those two days shadowing midwives. They needed to release the letter and photos before new year as 2020 is some special year honouring midwives and Friday was the best day between Christmas and New Year to do so.

Omid is a rabid Meghan fan so he is used to creating breathless hype over nothing. He is also back peddling like crazy now and denying that breathless tweet about a big announcement! I think he has been cut off access to Meghan and is now hanging around other royals to try and establish himself as an expert royal reporter/commentator (well, that did not go well, did it?).
none said…
Thanks tatty for the link about the Member of the Royal Victorian Order awards. The Queen bestowed a total of 1,097 of these honors, in recognition of distinguished personal service to members of the monarch's family this past year. Very nice!
Miggy said…
@Louise,
"So, what happened to the "big announcement" by the Cambridges that Smirkle's friend and fake Royal reporter Omid Scobie told us to expect this week?"


With Kate's work on 'Early Years' and her recent undertaking of work experience at Kingston Hospital, followed by her open letter to midwives - could her Majesty be passing on to Kate the Patronage for the RCN? ( Royal College of Nursing )

Simply a thought... ( not that I trust a word that Scobie utters.)
catskillgreen said…
They sure shot Travalyst in the foot with this mansion stay. They never think anything through and always are hypocrites.
Liver Bird said…
So we didn't hear a word from the Harkles for about 4 weeks, but now we're getting constant 'leaks' about their location? Supposedly they only moved into the Canadian house on the 19th Dec, so where were they for the other 4 weeks? I'm betting they were allowed to stay in the mansion for free in return for merching, disguised as 'leaks'.
Fairy Crocodile said…
Again they are exposed as hypocrites. If their stay with the Russian oligarch is true it makes Harry's eco preaching even more ridiculous. I doubt this mention is listed in his Travelyst which is supposed to encourage us to travel sustainably and support "empoverished" communities. Definitely not an eco friendly shack in Zambia.
Magatha Mistie said…
@holly Megs assistant award, she previously worked for Will & Kate & married their previous media advisor. She’s now lauded for handing Megs her flowers in church & assisting with engagement/wedding. I don’t know whether to laugh, or cry?
none said…
Liver Bird...I wonder if they are merching the house by their reported presence and in exchange get cover for their real locations.
Liver Bird said…
@holly

Possibly, but given that the mayor of Victoria publically welcomed them to the region, I'm not sure. Also, they managed perfectly well to keep their location secret for 4 or 5 weeks, and the 'family time' must be almost over by now, so why would they need to create a big subterfuge at this stage in proceedings?
Teasmade said…
@Brown-eyed, thanks for "Archieharrison.com is not available for purchase." above. I get the same result! The only weird thing (well, there are many . . ) is that when putting archieharrison.com in the URL, I am taken to GoDaddy where it seems like it's being offered for purchase.

If this is true, this is a scheme of long incubation. That's what stands out to me.
@tweenymma, www.archieharrison.com is not for sale. This is how it works:

"One of our personal domain brokers will contact the current owner to see if he or she is willing to sell the domain name you want. We'll do all we can to get the name at the lowest possible price for you. The Domain Buy Service fees do not include the cost of the domain name."
The owners just haven't published the site yet. Behind the scenes, www.archieharrison.com is owned by "someone" eye roll
punkinseed said…
It's interesting that of all places to "hide" in the Commonwealth, the Harkles would choose Vancouver Island, and Saanich and Victoria in particular. I can only imagine what my mother in law and her family members would have to say about Megs being anywhere near their homes there.
My mother in law's maternal grandmother was a MacMorran. They owned a huge, vast estate in what is now Greater Victoria. They had a mansion and farms with crops, sheep, woodlands, servants, stables, grooms, etc. up until the "Hungry 30's" caused them to gradually lose their estate. However, the descendants married into other well of families and managed to retain their wealth and standing as they owned a candy factory in Victoria and another later owned the biggest car dealership there. Another was the city treasurer of Victoria for many years. Needless to say, when I'd visit the island, I got to see and do tourist things but with much more interesting detail guided by relatives.
Being around my mother in law a lot, she and her siblings taught me how to behave in high class social settings. The Do's and Don'ts, and as a Yankee, who although was brought up to use ladylike ways, you can imagine how often I'd still manage to step in it before being corrected. Afternoon Tea at the Empress for example, would have caused her and me a lot of embarrassment without some kind of rehearsal beforehand. I imagine the cringing, OMG moments the Canadian hosts and servants must be feeling as manner-less, crass Megs visits them, as she uses every foul word or phrase, shows no positive regard for anyone, high or low, and basically puts every foot wrong. Ugh!
My in laws were loyal supporters of the monarchy, staunch Church of England (episcopal), so I know they would be very upset to see this noisy, histrionic harridan interloper come anywhere near their island and they'd all be saying so in a very polite, but cuttingly choice words and they would not spare their disdain for Harry either.
HappyDays said…
wizardwench said…
I continue to be astonished at how tone-deaf she is. The real Ms. Markle was her persona as broadcasted on The Tig. Living the high life in expensive, exclusive resorts, surrounded by luxury and sipping on Roederer Cristal Brut champagne at nearly $800/bottle. The "woke" duchess is nothing more than a figment of her own imagination.

@wizardwench: In some ways, I too am astonished at Mayhem’s tone deafness and disregard of the public optics concerning her behavior. Bit on the other hand, I’m not surprised one bit.

Harry was targeted and stalked by a woman who likely has profound case of narcissistic personality disorder. She checks off all the behavioral boxes for NPD. Mayhem landed herself in the midst of the world’s most perfect storm of resources to feed and grow her NPD and she’s running wild with it.

Nobody in the RF seems to be aware that they are dealing with a narc and that Harry is a psychological captive of Meghan much in the way that people who end up in cults are psychological captives.

Narcs, like cults, seek out emotionally vulnerable and empathetic people. Once such a person is identified, they recruit them into the cult by love bombing the target to make them feel like they’ve finally found their emotional home.

Cults and narcs work quickly to physically and psychologically isolate the target from family and friends while they make them believe its “us against the world” to make the target, who has now been totally sucked into the cult or the narcissistic relationship, 100 % dependent on the narc or the cult, leaving them to believe they have few options to leave.

The quick sex trip to Africa, the advantage of hiding herself in a long-distance courtship and push to a fast wedding and immediate fatherhood have served to benefit Meghan far more than Harry. She presented herself as an orphaned sexpot with strong humanitarian overtones to cast herself as the stand-in Diana2.0 as she pushed the emotional mother-that-Harry-couldn’t-protect-and-save button.
HappyDays said…
Part Two:
As with cults, the personality of the isolated victim is is broken down and reassembled to suit the narc’s purposes via devaluation, which has likely already happening to Harry. It is evidenced by his disheveled appearance, often grumpy demeanor, and comments about being overwhelmed and having a hard time getting out of bed some days as Meghan pushes him aside at public appearances with his tacit acquiescence.

Narcs, like cults, attempt to present a sunshiney facade to the public, but in private, emotional abuse is rampant while the victims’ bank accounts are plundered and the narc’s self-serving agenda moves forward at a dizzying pace.

I was sorry to see Lord Geidt leave because I believe he could have served as a positive outside force to help HM and PC realize they have a merciless predator in their midst who has literally infiltrated their family and institution. They need the assistance of psychiatrists and others who specialize in narcissistic relationships, and yes, cults and deprogramming cult members, which starts with an intervention.

Sussex Royal is the perfect machine and vehicle to serve as cover for Meghan to hide behind as she portrays herself as a caring humanitarian, but she’s only in it for herself, with Harry as her handy prop to put the royal stamp of credibility on this venture. She will use to Sussex Royal to sell real or imagined access and association to movers and shakers or wannabes around the world who just want to be able to namedrop, or much worse, those who want access and favors for less-than-savory purposes in exchange for free travel, luxury lodging, networking, and lucrative deals.

If the RF does nothing, Meghan will continue to run rampant and grow like a cancer. And it’s obvious by her recent trademark and copyright activities of her Sussex Royal foundation, she’s kicking it into high gear.

Yes, it’s HER foundation. This break from William and Kate likely wasn’t Harry’s idea. He probably would have been content to keep things as they were working with W & K. Sussex Royal is just the replacement for The Tig on a far more massive scale.

The foundation is her vehicle to ruthlessly use Harry, the title she gained via marriage, Archie and the next child she’ll produce in 2020 or early 2021, and the royal family itself as tools, props, and pawns for her own enrichment, aggrandizement, and the advancement of her elitist political agenda on the world stage.

Narcs are always destructive and toxic. I believe Meghan, armed with her enabler and ‘rescue me, Harry’ victimhood, plus her race card, could very well prove to be far more destructive to the RF than Andrew could ever be.

The only difference between Harry and Meghan and a cult is that this is a cult with just two members. All extremely narcissistic relationships are that way.
HappyDays said…
Apologies for the long posts. I don’t post often and actually had the luxury of time to say something this morning. This community is fabulous.
KCM1212 said…
I wish Meg would do the decent thing and call off the sugars who are crucifying the restaurant owners. Apparently leaving horrible reviews. They are going to Markle those poor people right out of business.

The woman is taking all the heat for the leak when we know very well that she leaked their whereabouts herself.
Girl with a Hat said…
@KC Martin - Meghan never, ever does the decent thing. That would show weakness and narcissists detest weakness above all.
KCM1212 said…
@happydays

Great post! Excellent synopsis of an ugly relationship. What will stop her?

I worry about how much damage she is going to do to a family and nation that have been nothing but kind to her.

I'm sure she sees kindness as weakness. Sure puts that "is he kind?" fakery into perspective doesn't it?
SwampWoman said…
@holly Megs assistant award, she previously worked for Will & Kate & married their previous media advisor. She’s now lauded for handing Megs her flowers in church & assisting with engagement/wedding. I don’t know whether to laugh, or cry?

Magatha Mistie, maybe that award is the equivalent of a medal for valor in the face of the enemy, or even a purple heart for wounds received in battle. I imagine that any normal person would want to beat her with the nearest available club after having to deal with her in an underling capacity.
HappyDays said…
@KC Martin: Yes, narcs see kindness as a weakness. That’s why they usually pair up with empaths. Harry had a lot of Diana’s empathy, which would normally be a strength for someone in his place in life. But Meghan has used it to worm her way into his life and she continues to use it in public to enhance her image and as likely as a weapon against him in private as she emotionally beats him down, possibly tag-teaming with Doria. Doria has a vested interest in helping Meghan maintain her public facade and maintaining Meghan’s marriage to Harry for at least a few more years until Meghan is a thoroughly entrenched worldwide brand. Then, after Harry is emotional road pizza, she can take her title without the HRH and go on her merry way. That is, unless someone stops her. My hope is that Charles’ reign will be brief and William takes over at a relatively young age and kicks some Sussex ass.

BTW: Emotional road pizza is like the poor little animals who are hit on the highway. After being repeatedly run over by hundreds of vehicles, they are flattened into what is known here in the US as ‘road pizza.’ Meghan will run over Harry until he is an ‘emotional road pizza.’
DesignDoctor said…
@HappyDays Fascinating, accurate synopsis of a relationship with a narc and how they work. If we can see it, surely someone close to the Royal Family can, too. The question continues to be what will they do about it? What actions will they take to save Harry?
SwampWoman said…
Happy Days, I enjoyed reading two chapters of your analysis this morning (grin). It was a very enjoyable read and one that I am largely in agreement with. The only thing I'm not completely settled on is whether Harry is a poor naive hapless victim (which is possible) or an active conspirator that is deliberately harming his family. I find my opinion swinging wildly back and forth.
SwampWoman said…
DesignDoctor said...
@HappyDays Fascinating, accurate synopsis of a relationship with a narc and how they work. If we can see it, surely someone close to the Royal Family can, too. The question continues to be what will they do about it? What actions will they take to save Harry?


I don't know about England but here, it is almost impossible to get help for mentally ill family members. They have to want and request it.
DesignDoctor said…
@ SwampWoman In my opinion, Harry may have been rebellious and initially attracted to her "battle cry" to modernize the monarchy, but now he is a victim of her NPD. You can see he is a victim of her devaluation in his appearance, behavior and demeanor. A narc places their partner on a pedestal and then takes great pleasure in knocking them down. Harry is a shadow of his former, jovial, personable self. The work of a narc is so insidious. Part of the difficulty is that victim wants the relationship to work and the narc plays on this hope that somehow the relationship will turn around and work out. It is harder to leave when children are involved.
SwampWoman said…
Sorry, I reread my comment and I was quite unclear. The mentally-ill person has to want and request treatment. The only way the family can get involved is if the mentally-ill person is a clear danger to themselves or others.
SwampWoman said…
DesignDoctor, I do not see much hope for Harry pulling himself free. I think his only hope is if she ditches him for somebody with more cash if not cachet.
CookieShark said…
@ Happy Days, excellent summary; you pulled it all together so nicely.

One only needs to look at the photos from Inskip's wedding to see MM's rage at baseline. First, there is a picture of MM kissing Harry and his arms are hanging at his sides. Allegedly he had broken up with her before the wedding, but she came anyway. That tells you something about how determined she was. When my ex invited me to Chipotle after breaking up with me, I was like no way, I am not going to be "pretend friends" with you.

In other pictures from the wedding, MM appears annoyed and even angered when other people are talking to Harry. The most damning picture to me is the one where she is grasping him with both arms like a coach, hissing something at him while he looks clearly tired, drunk, or both. I'm sure William saw those photos and was concerned for his brother. I would be very worried if it were my friend, son, or brother who was so ensnared with someone so selfish.

At best, her behavior was rude and she should have allowed him to focus on his friend's wedding. At worst her behavior was diabolical. We saw shades of this later at Prince Charles' Investiture, where she attempted to walk with the rest of the RF. PC looked shocked to see the both of them standing at the door. I am sure they were not supposed to be waiting at the door, but already seated in the other room. Harry would have known that, but perhaps he allowed MM to convince him to try and walk with the RF.

This is where her pathology is really on display. I am very easily embarrassed, so I know people tend to be more assertive than me. However, I think most people would follow directions and not try to gatecrash an important event like PH&MM seem to have done.
Girl with a Hat said…
@Cookie shark, she uses the term "modernising the BRF" to mean gate crashing and pushing her way in. Harry is too naive or dim to know the difference. Other people, like her supporters Serena Williams and Lainey Lee, applaud this and say she is asserting the rights of people of colour. It's a self-feeding loop of craziness, racism and diva women trying to rule the world.
KCM1212 said…
@swampwoman

I totally agree with everything you said. And I am swinging between a feeling of heartbreak...watching this slow motion train wreck and rage that somebody hasn't stopped her. Isnt Lord Geidt still around in a consulting capacity?

I am in sympathy with those who want a petition...any action would be good.
Piroska said…
@KC Martin and those others mentioning petition this is copied from website
An e-petition is an online petition to the House of Commons or the Government started by a member of the public on the e-petitions website.

E-petitions receive a Government response if they have 10,000 signatures or more. The Petitions Committee considers e-petitions for a debate if they have 100,000 signatures or more. E-petitions stay open for six months, or until the end of the Parliament (whichever comes first), after which they are closed.

Constituents who have a question about how their e-petition has been handled can email Petitions Committee staff directly at petitionscommittee@parliament.uk.
Due to recent general election a new Petitions has to be set up.
DesignDoctor said…
@SwampWoman I agree and do not see Harry pulling himself free from her claws.

As I mentioned in an earlier comment, The question continues to be what will they (BRF) do about it? What actions (if any) will they take to save Harry?

It may be wishful thinking on my part, but I hope that the ppl who love Harry, e.g., PC and William, would intervene and put him in rehab. PC put him in rehab once before, correct?

Harry's only hope is to get professional help or to be dumped by Sparkles. I do not think she will divorce him, however, unless she has caught a bigger, richer man in her claws. her motto is "Onward and Upward" like any good social climber and grifter.
Glow W said…
50 years investiture anniversary video: https://youtu.be/wBsHHpfR62M
SirStinxAlot said…
@DesignDoctor. It is my understanding that PC insisted H go to rehab for excessive marijuana use. However, it was only for 1 day. Not going to accomplish anything in 1day.
DesignDoctor said…
@SirStinxAlot Thank you for clarifying that point. Agreed--One day is not enough to accomplish anything!

@tatty In the video the sidelining of MM and Harry is so obvious. That must be hurtful for Harry, don't you think? William, Kate, and Harry used to look so happy together at events.
Unknown said…
Glowworm here: correct me if I’m wrong but in the past and before MM, wouldn’t Harry have typically been included in the HM, PC, Camilla and Csmbridge group viewing the investiture relics?
Liver Bird said…
@Unknown

The reason Harry was not included was because he is not a future Prince of Wales. Nothing to do with Meghan.
DesignDoctor said…
Thanks for that clarification, Liver Bird. Now it makes sense.
Glow W said…
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CatEyes said…
@Unknown/Gloworm

The video clearly shows that Harry and Megs were directed to the next room while only the Monarch and two future Kings (and their spouses) were allowed to view the articles of the Investiture at the same time. Harry not being the future Monarch was sidelined (which probably really grated on Megs as she seemed to be the interloper first). IMO
CatEyes said…
For any Nutties here from the UK or familiar with their laws what can be done to get Harry professional help against his will?

Does someone have to make a showing that the person "is a danger to himself or others"? And if so, are the courts (or other agencies) have a high bar to scale to prove such>

Here in my small county in Texas it is not that hard to get someone committed to a Psychiatric facility.
Liver Bird said…
"For any Nutties here from the UK or familiar with their laws what can be done to get Harry professional help against his will?"

He would have to be sectioned under the Mental Health Act, which would require a court to prove that he posed a risk to his own safety, or that of others. Highly unlikely he's anywhere near that point.
CatEyes said…
@LiverBird

So I assume the Mental Health Act you are referring to is the UK law. Yes, I agree he is nowhere near that level and no doubt Meghan would fight his commitment. Then there is always the fact he could actually be a sane willing participant in all of this. I am actually inclined to think this is the case (and that he may not even be affected by drugs or alcohol, despite his sloppy appearance on occasions).
lizzie said…
@CatEyes,

Texas must be unusual as it's not easy other places in the US to force adults into institutional care unless they are severely mentally ill AND they pose an *imminent* threat to self or others. As I recall, things began to change with the Supreme Court case O'Connor v. Donaldson in the 70s dealing with civil rights and involuntary commitment. (Remember some of the mass shootings; families had tried to get help for adult children and it wasn't possible to force help.) Plus, with the deinstitutionalization movement from the 70s and the move towards community-based treatment in the 80s/90s, there is a shortage of psychiatric beds (general psyc beds) There are private "rehab" clinics but even those are limited some places because it's not easy to get insurance to pay for inpatient substance abuse treatment these days. (And to be fair, unless medical detox is needed, there's no body of published evidence showing across-the-board costly inpatient treatment is superior to intensive [daily] outpatient treatment.) Of course, cost wouldn't be an obstacle for the RF but I'd be surprised if Harry can be legally forced to undergo treatment. "Pocketbook forced" maybe but even then if motivation is lacking...
Sandie said…
@Fedde: 'Hasn't MM in all her known previous relationships/marriages moved on to someone else while still with the 'ex'?'

There is no evidence that she did that with Trevor, but she was looking round before she posted the rings to Trevor.

As for Corey, there is an intriguing trail of evidence on the Internet that she dumped him for Harry.
Sandie said…

HappyDays: I have also picked up that Doria is an enabler in Meghan's grifting.
Anonymous said…

I was curious about the laws regarding involuntary commitment.

The requirements vary from state to state, and each state has statutes governing the standards. There is a score card at the end of the survey. Although the survey is from 2014, the individual state requirements are more recent (Texas, for example, is 2017, and the statutes referenced are correct). If you click on the states, you can see what your state standards are for involuntary commitment.

https://www.treatmentadvocacycenter.org/storage/documents/2014-state-survey-abridged.pdf

https://www.treatmentadvocacycenter.org/browse-by-state/

and this is the link for the NHS, so unlikely the BRF would pursue this, but interesting to consider IMO:

https://www.nhs.uk/using-the-nhs/nhs-services/mental-health-services/mental-health-act/

Glow W said…
@lizzie is exactly correct. In the US, a forced committal is strictly for stabizing the patient. If mental illness is severe (delusions, hearing voices, suicidal or homicidal tendencies) then there can be a Baker Act hearing where the stay is extends 5-7 days, depending on beds available.

It is not for treatment, it is or stability.
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Glow W said…
In short, in the US, you have the right to be crazy as long as you don’t harm yourself or others.
Anonymous said…
@Tatty - Baker Act is Florida.
Glow W said…
It’s a Federal Act
Anonymous said…
@Tatty, yes, we do :)
Glow W said…
Ok, it has different names in different states. It’s referred to colloquially as Baker Act (My BIL has been involuntary committed in several states. Yeah, he is a really winner married to my BPD sister). He has had the trial a few times and had his stay extended at the longest was 7 days.

@elle you are right. The actual true Baker Act is in Florida. Other states have basically the same law just different names
Anonymous said…
@Tatty, not going to argue it. I googled because I wanted to see how the Federal laws overlapped with the state statutes, and this is what I found on several different websites, "Florida Mental Health Act of 1971 (Florida Statute 394.451-394.47891[1] [2009 rev.]), commonly known as the "Baker Act,"..."

These are generally states' rights issues, but there is nothing that says that the state law cannot be adopted federally. (Maria's Law, Washington State, is a good example.) I did not find that, however, in the case of the Baker Act, but I could certainly have missed it. I just searched the state statutes to verify states.
QueenWhitby said…
I’m convinced the Royal Family, especially the Cambridges and their heavy involvement in mental health initiatives, would seek the best psychiatric advice when it comes to identifying and dealing with the narc in their midst. I like the duck analogy, we see the smooth gliding surface, not the mad paddling beneath. We’ve seen how the RF behave around MM - they’re aware.
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Anonymous said…
Also, learn something new every day, @Tatty, FL now has the Marchman Act specifically related to drugs & alcohol.

Wasn't PH underage when Chas sent him to a day of counseling?
Anonymous said…
@QueenWhitby, I agree completely. Just because we see it, doesn't mean the BRF isn't acting on it. When William was talking about addiction during the Mary Berry special, I really thought he was speaking from personal experience, a way to process without saying names or giving specifics. It just had that feel to me, where someone is processing their own issues while sharing generally with others.
Sandie said…
@HappyDays: Yep, you have described well how Harry was captured by a narc, but what lies at the root of a narc is a profound feeling of inadequacy, insecurity, vulnerability, not good enough. The narc does not know this, but they will go to great lengths to protect their inner, authentic selves (they lack the ability to self-reflect and change, the latter they cannot do because they do not have the wiring for genuine empathy). Thus, Meghan will wage war against a tabloid for injuring her self-esteem (the real reason) and threatening her narrative of being the most famous, smart, fashionable, woke, and so on, person in the world, even if it makes no sense. She just does not have the breeding or upbringing or learning to pull off being an elite royal, so she keeps trying to spin the narrative (unconsciously) to get herself accepted as the image she is trying to project and the life she is trying to get.

A narc with no personal talent (for acting singing, writing, painting, sculpting, creating anything authentic and original) is always going to be stressed to maintain the heights that she attained. (If Harry is turned on by little girl/smart girl sexpot, then she can easily be replaced as she gets older and so she has to isolate and control him.)

Narcs do not know what drives them (the inner inadequate self) and do not have the ability to change and so they are trapped in their own pathology.

I feel sorry for her, and Harry, but think it is best for the BRF to cut them loose, soon and quickly. Always send them invitations for private family gatherings but cut them off from all the freebies and the platform that comes with being royal.
Anonymous said…
I wonder if the BRF completely stripped Harry and Meghan of all their "royal" trappings (although I doubt this is legally possible) whether that would induce her to leave him, whereby he could actually get the help he needs. She is merely using him as a crutch for her financial machinations. What if all the cache goes away? What if they quietly informed her that she cannot capitalize on her royal title for her schemes? They need to cut her off at the knees. The BNF destroyed her hopes in Hollywood (humiliating Meyer was a master stroke--Ms. Markle is DEAD to L.A. now); they should and need to take this further. They need to hire a kick-ass lawyer who is well versed in social media law and take her out. Ferret out the bots. Ban anyone on twitter who disparages the royal family. Use all the legal tools at their disposal. Do it in a way that is quiet (like with Meyer) but starts to close off her potential revenue streams. They need to lean VERY heavily on the domain companies that are issuing all these domains using Sussex and Royal, etc. These domains are clearly using the BRF as a way of selling products. So cut her off from profiting on this marriage. Harry at this point is just a shadow. I doubt he even knows what he's signing these days. Go to the mattresses. She's cunning but she's not smart. The BNF need someone who is both cunning AND smart, and so legally savvy as to make her head spin.
Fedde said…
I personally believe some of the folks here (and possibly elsewhere in RL) are being too generous when they call Harry a victim who's fallen in MM's narc clutches and that it's down to his emphatic side (inherited from Diana, obvs). Harry was "loved" for years before he got together with MM/showed his true colors (yes, I believe this is the real him, not Victim!Harry) but about 85% of that was down to some pretty damn good PR from ELF/the BRF.

Where was his emphatic side when he dressed up as a NAZI or when he referred to fellow a soldier as his "little Paki friend" and called another a "raghead"? That was Harry uncensored.

Harry himself has stated in the past that the public doesn't know the real him. MM may be his biggest enabler where ELF/the BRF were the ones "holding him back", but I truly believe this is the real Harry. Well, with a bit of addict mixed in but that too is part of who he is and was prior to meeting MM. He has simply found someone who encourages him to be himself and probably tells him they are entitled to be/act this way and everyone else simply has to accept it because they're royals, and he's Diana's son, and William gets all the good press because he'll be king one day.
Anonymous said…
@Fedde & Tatty, what if it's not either/or, but both? Most things are, and I suspect that applies to PH as well.
SwampWoman said…
Yes, Baker's Act is in Florida. I'm not a huge fan of it. If somebody isn't in a crisis mode, they're evaluated and sent home. (There are far more batsh*t crazy people in Florida than there are psychiatric beds available, so only the most batsh*t crazy people are kept. The rest are on a catch and release basis.) The town batsh*t crazy man that sets people's houses on fire and plays chicken in traffic isn't sufficiently crazy to be held more than three days. The only reason he hasn't killed anybody is that he is pretty incompetent. Heck, maybe he has ADHD as well because he'll sometimes wander away from arsoning.

When crazy people are REALLY in a crisis mode, the police are called. If Great Uncle Jack with dementia is screaming about his 85-year-old wife in a wheelchair cheating on him with the next door neighbor while brandishing a knife, or a young man hearing voices in his head for the first time charges the police after beating his mother, they probably aren't going to survive long enough to be Baker acted. Heck, the police shot and killed an ancient woman in a wheelchair that was chasing her family members around with a knife. They didn't want her killed, they just wanted her disarmed.



CatEyes said…
@lizzie and @tatty

>>>Texas must be unusual as it's not easy other places in the US to force adults into institutional care unless they are severely mentally ill AND they pose an *imminent* threat to self or others.<<,

Sorry I did not respond sooner but went to the store and Wow a lot of comments now when it was slow earlier.

First off, I was only referring to a 72 hour psychiatric hold which can be granted with virtually no evidence just somone's opinion of another voiced in the Justice of the Peace court (the lowest court in Texas). However, if the person committed wants to contest it after the 72 hour period is up, then they have a chance to say something in a full hearing in the district court (next level up). At that hearing, the prosecuting party might be the assistant DA. and the party in question will be afforded an attorney to fight it. I have witnessed several of these and just like anything justice hinges on the judge, the competency of the aggrieved party's attorney and the diligence/fairness of the *prosecuting* attorney. In fact the aggrieved party can represent themself if they want and can.


CatEyes said…
@tatty

>>>In short, in the US, you have the right to be crazy as long as you don’t harm yourself or others.<<

Actually, you can be held for observation even if you have Not harmed someone...held if you "pose a danger to yourself or others".
Tea Cup said…
@QueenWhitby yes, you can very well see the BRF has MM's number. You couldn't get anymore "gray rock" than Sophie Wessex on the balcony at Remembrance Day. Meghan tried to disarm her with a fake warm smile (undoubtedly for the benefit of the cameras) and Sophie was clearly having none of it. She and Timothy Laurence could barely conceal their disdain for the narcissist between them.

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