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The Nutty Challenge: If Diana met Meghan

Let's say a time-space portal has opened up and the Diana of August 24, 1997, is able to step through it and meet Duchess Meghan.

They meet up at the Harbour Gym in Chelsea, always one of Diana's favorites, and repair to the juice bar in the spa for a chat.

Diana is the same kind-hearted but flakey, obsessive, and occasionally manipulative woman she was before her death, and she has been following Meghan and Harry's recent adventures from the other side.

What do they say to each other?  Specific lines of dialogue encouraged. 

Comments

Mary said…
Whatever Diana’s flaws and foibles, she well and truly loved her sons, so I know she would be horrified by Harry colluding with Me-Gain to attack and harm William, his wife and children. She would be appalled that Harry would reduce the issues and charities to mere lip service and exploit them for profit and aggrandizement. Diana put herself out there, she wasn’t partying for donations like Harry and his getting to travel and play polo for donations. I believe Diana would call Me-Gain out and not let Me-Gain or her surrogates change the subject of play the blame game. She’s let her know in no uncertain terms that her 15 minutes were up. Diana would then talk directly to Harry, and give him two choices.
punkinseed said…
Diana: "GET YOUR TANKS OFF MY LAWN!"
NikNak said…
Oh Lord, with Diana on the scene poor Doria would have been ostracized. I believe there would have been a lot of hugs, beaming smiles and linked arms. Meghan would have fan-girled the eff out of Diana and latched on for dear life. I wouldn't have been the surprised if Diana would have been asked to walk her down the aisle, or Doria on one side Di on the other.

Both being clever opportunists in their own way the English media would have gone mental. There certainly would have been three in the Sussex marriage.

Diana was the first member of the BRF -- and many people -- to openly hug AIDS patients. That is a powerful testament to her compassionate soul.

Me-Gain arrives at the highest paying photo op, oops, I mean public appearance.
Lottie said…
If Princess Diana was alive Harry would never have been interested in the likes of 'the Megan Markles' of the world...a social yacht climbing, self promoting, greedy opportunist
I should think Princess Diana would have pushed his studies, directed his career choices and he would likely have excelled to his best abilities and had a healthy self esteem and felt loved, positive and fulfilled.
I think to a large extent Harry has been left to his own devices without much guidance from the BRF and certainly not the unconditional love and guidance he would have had with his mother.
I think Princess Diana was fair with both boys and promoted equality, unity and love between the brothers, something that the RF never necessarily did.
There is no way that Princess Diana would have stood by and allowed this current state of affairs to develop as it has, with the snarky snide comments and division from PH & MM
I personally think MM has a chronic case of narcissism and Harry has a passive aggressive personality, which is the cause of the current problems.
Who knows maybe Diana could have maneuvered this in a more positive direction?
Meanwhile since Princess Diana's death Harry has basically been left alone to his own devices, stewing and rotting while William is being groomed with full attention to be the future King.
I am sure had Princess Diana been alive, she would have seen through Ms Markle and would have steered Harry well clear of her.
And i do not believe for a nano second Princess Diana would have had 2 minutes to spare for Ms Markle, especially with the situation concerning her father and family.
I'm sure Princess Diana and Harry's immediate family would have met with Mr Markle & Doria well before the wedding took place, which would be an incredibly normal protocol with any family...Royal or not


Lottie said…
I notice that i did repeat myself, apologies it has a been a big day moving house and the box to write the comment is small, sometimes more than others ; )
abbyh said…
I think Diana would have started with a traditional English reserve. I have serious doubts she would have greeted or accepted the open arms offered on the recent PR video.

She (D) has mythic cult status of this perfect person who was always loving, warm, kind and greeted everyone as a friend. I don't see that happening here though. I think we would then see a restrained Mama Bear letting loose about what was happening to HER kids.

Whether or not it would evolve into who do you think you are trying to take my mantle as you are me 2.0? would be a not sure. I think a lot might depend on how the above was received and responded to. My best guess is that MM doesn't have a lot of practice in the art of a good apology (to begin with and then it wasn't the expected response by D, a more of under fire doesn't make it easy to come off as more genuine than normal).

Diana certainly had her disagreements with the RF but I could she her moving heaven and earth to get them to take action. And, stomping her feet, NOW!
Jdubya said…
If diana walked in today, she'd grab MM, drag her into sauna room, bitch slap her a few times, lock her in and turn up the temp and leave. She'd find harry, grab him by the ear, drag him off and put him in line. Then grab any real baby and take him into protective custody.
Fifi LaRue said…
Meghan runs up to Diana, and puts her claw on Diana's arm. "Princess Diana! May I call you Princess Mum? You're the mother I never had." Meghan cries a little.

Diana removes the Claw, turns to Harry and says, "Come darling, let's have a little talk." And Diana and Harry leave Meghan standing by herself.
BlueRidge said…
Diana wound have loathed Nutmeg and protected Harry from Meg’s schemes. Torn her shreds and sent her packing to hunt fur other princes and millionaires, elsewhere.

Diana would also have passed along some of her own negative traits to Harry however, IMO.

William was her confidante but Harry was her favorite, I have always thought. Diana went overboard trying to spoil Harry & give him acclaim alongside future-king William.

The Windsors , especially the Queen Mum, paid less attention to Harry than William, it has been documented as a longstanding behavior pattern.

Diana had her neuroses, too, including borderline personality disorder IMO. She could be shrewish, paranoid and passive aggressive/manipulative at times so I think Harry would have seen this and perhaps picked it up.

Meghan’s similar qualities are no doubt familiar to him from Diana. People are often drawn to others who show the same qualities as their family of origin. We tend to define “love” by however love relationships in family were displayed and seen.

So Diana would have made short work of Sparkles but also reinforced those qualities she shared with Sparkles, keeping Harry still drawn to those traits.

I think Diana was a great mum and charity patron as her works with AIDS, children’s, land mine and do many great causes & organizations demonstrates.

Diana genuinely cared about people rather acting a part. Everyone has great strengths and weaknesses. Her negative traits I don’t see as wiping out all the good Diana did in her lifetime. I simply note it as one area in which Megs may feel “familiar” and attractive to Harry and why.
Now! said…
Ha ha! As the acting students say... “And...scene!”
SwampWoman said…
Now, Jdubya, is that what Diana would do, or what YOU would do? (I have to say that it is certainly what I would do!) Since she was 36 when she died, I'm certain that she would certainly not appreciate the "little girl" act that MM is putting on when she is allegedly miming Diana; I believe Diana would have taken it as mocking. She definitely would have been angry about fake charities. I believe that she would have given them both an earful about slacking off on his real duties/charities to attend things like the Lion King premiere. If there is a baby, she would be all over them for hiding this child as though they were ashamed of him.

Diana would probably be appalled by MMs behavior.

If Diana hadn't perished in the MVA, would she have had her happily ever after? I would like to think that she would have found her own version of prince charming, been happy, produced more non-heir-to-the-throne children since she loved being a mother, maybe a beloved baby sister for the boys. I like to think that she and Charles and Camilla could have been amicable. (That is what I would like to think, but only if she got good psychiatric care and meds.)

A person can only get by on good looks for so long, then it comes down to good heart and good character. I think Diana had a very compassionate heart and she (mostly) tried to do the right thing.
If Princess Diana was still alive, he’d still have a career in the armed forces, he’d be doing charity work which wasn’t self benefiting, wouldn’t have spent time naked in Vegas/smoking dope/snorting vodka/wearing a nazi uniform and he’d either be married to or in a long term relationship with someone from Princess Diana’s background or someone who was a friend of a friend from someone he went to school with. Meghan wouldn’t be on the periphery, wouldn’t have been thought of or even have gotten more than a handshake and maybe a picture for her self absorbed Insta account at a charity function which she trolled for “kind” victims to support her lifestyle.
Girl with a Hat said…
If Diana were still alive, Harry would be married to Chelsy since the press didn't kill his mum.
Humor Me said…
Well said Mary. I also believe Diana would have vetted MM throughly and advised caution, just like Wills did.
SwampWoman said…
If Diana were alive, Harry wouldn't have have had enough personal money to tempt MM.
SwampWoman said…
Dressed in 1990 fashions, Diana would still be better dressed than MM.
NikNak said…
I have to respectively disagree. Chelsy is underestimated and was Harry's first serious girl and I think she taught him quite a lot (sex wise to start with) she was not interested in being part of the firm. period. Her family were not keen either. It was a rough break up (break up, together then break up again) but C was always clear on who she was and wanted. Meghan walking down the aisle as a 40 something virginal bride must have made her smile.
50 and counting said…
I wish. My son is getting married to the woman he's been with for 10 years. I've met her divorced parents maybe five times (and trust me, we've tried). We've had no involvement in the wedding plans, other than to be used as an ATM.
SwanSong said…
Diana was a stickler for good manners and proper etiquette. I think she would have boxed Harry on the ears for never getting on a plane to meet Thomas Markle in person before the engagement was announced. Really lazy on Harry’s part; shady on Meghan’s part, especially given the glowing things she wrote about her dad on her blog.
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KnitWit said…
I envision a Dynasty style catfight culminating with Di hitting her over the head with the Artificial doll.
Lilalee said…
I think Charles and Diana were on their way to being amicable. There is video of the two them coming out of a meeting from one of the boys school (this is after the divorce) and Diana goes to Charles car and leans in as Charles kisses her cheek and then she goes to her car. I thought that was so sweet.

I also think in time that she, Charles and Camilla would have been amicable. With Diana, Harry would have had a better teenage life. He still would have gone onto the Marines but I think she would have pushed education too. She would have have had a hand in their relationships also. Which makes me wonder about Kate. I love Kate and she is perfect for William. But would Diana have approved in the beginning? I don’t know. So many things could have been different if she were still with us. Good and bad.

But the scenario put to us. If 36 year old Diana ran into 38 year old Meghan at the juice bar. Diana was always weary of people and she liked to have the power over people. Meghan is an A type personality that would have rubbed Diana the wrong way and from the onset she would have banished her back to Canada. Megs would have had her one time dalliance with a prince and would be back on the hunt again.
Jdubya said…
But the question isn't what if Diana never died. It is if she returned now, having watched everything that has transpired. So yeah, i think she'd bitch slap MM :)

Now, if she had lived a full life - Harry would not be with MM. Probably never even crossed paths with her.
fairylights said…
"Mum, I've decided to marry Meghan Markle."

"Have you Darling, you must bring her around for tea. Soon." Diana reaches for her engagement book and looks consideringly at the next week of meetings, quickly reaching a decision regarding which one could be shifted. "Thursday is open, I will see you then, love you darling." Diana hangs up the phone ignoring the sound of her son saying 'But Mum..."

Scene break to two days later, during which Diana has firmed up the information that everyone concerned had been gathering over the last few months.

Harry and Meghan enter the room to find Diana waiting for them, the tea table beautifully decorated and stocked with inviting refreshments. Meghan immediately begins gushing over Diana, Harry has not been able to get a word in edgewise, and the claw has been employed to good effect the entire time. Diana has taken this all in as she calmly sips her tea.

"Harry darling, you should take a walk and allow your young woman and I to get acquainted. Go on now, shoo!" Harry walks away, doing as he was bid by Diana.

Diana leads Meghan to her sitting room, retrieves a thick sheaf of papers from a side table and sits down in a large wing backed chair while gesturing Meghan into a much smaller chair across the room from her. Meghan begins to burble out more nonsensical drivel, only to be cut off by a Princess Diana who was suddenly all business.

"You may have thought that you could scoop up a royal prince for yourself, but you've scooped the wrong one." Diana said, leaning forward slightly and glaring directly into the actress' eyes. "No," she said, holding her hand up, "you will remain silent. My dear, you are quite simply in over your head. Did you think that we wouldn't learn all your tawdry little secrets? You may have thought you could manipulate the press into doing what you needed it to, but let me tell you, you little twat, I was successfully manipulating them while you were still in nappies. So let me tell you what is going to happen. You are going to gently and nicely explain to Harry that you can't marry him within the next week, and you are going to make sure that you do not in any way suggest that the break up is his fault. If you do not do as you are told," Diana said, holding up the stack of papers, "every single one of your tawdry little secrets will slowly be released to the papers and examined in excruciating detail until you comply."

Megan stared at the woman she had revered. Her plan was foolproof, how could this happen? She was Meghan Markle, the smartest woman in the world.

Diana smiled a cold little smile at the conniving woman across from her, certain that her message had been delivered. Amateur.

So there you go. I don't think Meghan would have ever gotten her foot in the door if Diana was still alive. Perhaps an East Coast American who was accustomed to polite society and charity work would have been welcomed, but not a snippy little gold digger like Meghan.

hardyboys said…
What a beautiful answer. MM and her innocent wife eyed virginal smile. She probably had over 40 lovers on May 18 2019
Kate said…
Hahaha nice story! I agree with this! Diana would have seen right through Me-Again and all her faux humanitarian claims! Diana was a true humanitarian. I really hope divorce comes sooner rather than later!!
If Diana was to rise from the grave and see the current state of affairs...Haha... I think she would be secretly giving interviews to her favorite journalists, spilling all the secrets. It was her go to move after all,wasn't it. And a very effective way of getting the truth out it was.

All the celebrities coming out for MMs defense would pale in comparison to the coup Diana would pull. And we would definitely see a lot of eye rolls, death stares, publicly made jibes and scarfing from her whenever MM would be around.

Infact, going by how crazy things are turning out to be, and what with the "Emotional pilgrimage" MM plans to make to Diana's memorial, I'm inclined to think that the ghost of Diana might just actually rise from the dead, and go see a journalist or at least appear in their dream and do a spill all !!

Fifi LaRue said…
Well done Fairylights!
And on a side note ... how ridiculous and cringy is the headline that "Meghan Markle plans on making an emotional pilgrimage to Princess Diana's memorial on her death anniversary" !!
Urghhh...!

Makes it seem like she plans to walk barefoot up a mountain, thorns and bristles strewn upslope while the mountain is on fire and poor devote Meghan braves the hellfire, tears streaming down her face singing Hallelujah in her sweet melodious voice, all the while balancing a single candle white candle in the palm of her hand, it's flame flickering in the wind. Like she would climb all the way, swim through the lake, then throw herself down at the bust of Diana and the heavens would open up and shower lilies and roses, and of course forget-me-nots, down upon her.

The headline paints a weird image in your mind. Also... Has she already decided that it will be emotional, and she is going to cry?? Does she have a speech prepared? Has she prepared and coached Harry already? Are they going to talk emotionally about all the bullying they have been subjected to and how all they can now do is find respite and solace at feet of Diana's memorial because the world is against them??? What does it even mean? And why oh why would anyone ever let them do it?!
Rainy Day said…
Meghan would send her security team in advance to clear out the juice bar so that she and Diana would be alone. She'd arrive wobbling on heels, wearing see-through yoga pants and a baggy top, carrying a bouquet of forget-me-nots and a box of banana cupcakes with icing saying, "We miss you", "We love you", and "Queen of our Hearts". Archieficial would be in a pram, which she would park in a corner and ignore.

Diana would dump the flowers and cupcakes in the garbage, fix her limpid blue eyes on Meghan, and say, "What in the hell do you think you're doing, and who the f*** do you think you are? Get out - now - and never come near my boys again!"

Diana would then fade away and disappear, and Meghan would get up and walk out, so shocked that she would forget and leave Archieficial in his pram in the corner.
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Anonymous said…
Alice, you left out the hair shirt lol. Givenchy is doing a bespoke one just for the pilgrimage.
Oh yes of course, how silly of me. A through white linen shirt with stripes, inspired by Lady Diana's favorite PJs which Diana was wearing when she was just the same size and age as baby Archie, she was wearing those when she first dreamt of Meghan marrying her beloved Harry (you see, she had a premonition about Meghan marrying Harry and she shared this with Givenchy personally and told him to make this shirt for Meghan for when she would bring the blessed baby Archie to her tombstone)

And the hair extensions, made of top notch silken organic vegan hair from the mane and tail voluntarily donated by Harry's favorite polo pony.
Too funny, and entirely plausible. We might just see the giggles and lip bites and bronzed blushes of MM capturing this encounter on her IG, to the sound track of "Every breath you take" (by The Police).

Also ... wouldn't it be totally awesome if/when MM makes her emotional pilgrimage to Diana's grave and Lady Di l, lurking behind some bushes, starts pelting over ripe bananas and woke cupcakes at her. She was known to be quite the prankster.

Plus, who's to say that she hasn't already come back as her her own version of poltergeist Peeves, a la Harry Potter, and gets the kicks out of haunting Frogmore.

It could also explain the horrible ratty hair, over use of bronzer, ill fitting clothes, wrong bump sizes, wobbly bumps, unexplained weight gain on a diet of kale smoothies and oxygen alone, the Panama hat that doesn't fit anymore, the hole in Harry's brown shoes etc etc etc
gabes_human said…
I immediately thought she would be wearing a bespoke Givenchy sack similar to her wedding dress but with a hood like a monks robe. Of course it would be made of sackcloth ( think burlap). Will she walk on her knees for the last 20 feet? There is a pocket in the hood to conceal onions so that the tears will flow beguilingly as she soggily looks up at Harry. If she can get away with it, she has a bottle of glycerin up her sleeve so she can cry prettily without her nose running.
gabes_human said…
Diana has miraculously reappeared as if from the dead to find her eldest son happily married to a lovely woman and together they are raising their three beautiful children. He mind is at ease on that aspect. However, her youngest son has confessed to her that he f***ed up and has found himself shackled to a racially changing harridan. When he first met her she identified as white but of late she is embracing her AA side. Since she is rather light-skinned, she has stepped up her use of bronzer to better Help her get into character and it’s rubbing off all over everything-sheets, towels, duvet, all his clothing that she insists on rubbing up against, it’s EVERYWHERE. He’s financially embarrassed because she spends every penny she can get her greedy little hands on on more PR. Diana says “ Leave it to me. I’ll help you get out of this without looking the cad like your father. Bring her round tomorrow.”

Since Diana hasn’t aged past that day in August 1997 she is still young and stunningly beautiful so when Harry and the Bride of Frankenstein arrive, MeGain is taken aback. She despises any women who are prettier than she is but this is Harry’s mum Saint Diana. She’s willing to make an exception and immediately reaches out with The Claw to enfold her MIL in a bear hug. D stiffens and backs away but it’s too late-there is already bronzer on her collar.
Diana was to-the-manor-born so she politely shows M to a straight-back chair as she seats herself in an overstuffed chair while the maid brinks in the tea trolley. She has chosen a Chanel suit with a ruffled blouse for this interview. Although her skirt is a stylish but modest length, she instinctively crosses her legs at the ankle and her body forms a pleasing ‘S’ shape. She is smiling but somehow it doesn’t reach her eyes. Meg is unaware or uncaring that her too short skirt and crossed knees are allowing a view of her knickers. At least she isn’t going commando today! Since she has been able to see all the earthly goings on and a lengthy conversation with Lord Geidt the previous evening D has a clear view of how to handle this situation. Her baby boy is miserable and a mum’s job is to fix it. M is still looking up through her eyelashes and babbling inane word salad as she alternately claps and flutters her hands. Her beady little rodent eyes are assessing and you can almost hear the gears of her mind turning. She knows she’s got this. She’s irresistible and insanely smart. She ALWAYS gets her way.

The ladies get acquainted over tea and M complains how difficult it has been to get her hourglass figure back after giving birth to Archie. By the end of the afternoon they have a plan to do a month long whirlwind humanitarian tour. Time to pack.

Mr Al Fayed has put his personal jet at their disposal and Diana and MeGain are off to Africa. They visit some AIDS hospitals and an Ebola recovery center. It’s hard, heartbreaking work. Meg HATES it. Where are the parties? Where are the formal dinners that she can amaze the other guests with her woke feminist wit? Diana introduces M to a diamond magnate and a gold mine owner. As they travel and enjoy the hospitality of every leading family along the way M has had the opportunity to meet so many wealthy single men. A few of them even have multiple wives. D introduces M to a Saudi prince and his four sons. Finally she has an opportunity to wear a slinky evening gown! The men are all winking to each other so they must approve she thinks. D and the father share a look and a nod.

Alas, all good times must come to an end. It’s time to return to London and Harry and Archie. An assistant comes to escort Diana and MeGain to their plane and D knocks on M’s door. There’s no answer. After another knock she opens the door. The room is empty. No Meg, no luggage. She’s gone. Mission accomplished.


Now! said…
These are golden! Let me try:

The two women meet in the juice bar. Diana holds out her manicured hand for a handshake, but Meghan responds with an enthusiastic bear hug.

MM:
Omigod, I love you. and I love everything about you. You are so impactful. You are so kind. I love your fashion, and I love your charities, and I just think you’re so grass roots.

DIANA:
That’s lovely dear. It seems you’ve got a bit of the wrong end of the stick though, haven’t you? For the first, the idea with the fashion is that its British. You show the work of British designers.

MM:
Oh sure, of course. I just feel I can be both. And because I’m both, and very international, I like to wear designers from other places too, like Givenchy, which is French, which is also European.

DIANA:
Yes that’s all very well and good, but it is the British designers you need to promote now, dear. You are in the British Royal Family now. The French royals had their heads chopped off some time ago, and we don’t want that for ourselves, do we?

Now about the charities.

MM:
I know, right? I’m promoting British designers through the charities. Like, with Smartworks, I have them wearing a special capsule collection from Marks and Spencer. That’s British, right?

DIANA:
Yes it is, dear, but you must remember that the charities are about the people you serve, not yourself. You need to think first about how you can help them. There should be a bit more of them and a bit less of you, don’t you think?

MM:
Oh, definitely. Definitely, yes. Did you like my issue of Vogue? I didn’t want to be boastful and put myself on the cover, so I put, like, people involved with charities on the cover.

DIANA:
Yes, well. I was on the cover myself a few times. Mario Testino and all. Using your persona to bring attention to charities isn't all bad - it worked with the land mines.
Now! said…
DIANA:
Now, let’s talk about Harry.

MM:
Oh yeah, Harry’s so great. I mean, I have to move him along sometimes. I mean, I have to tell him what to do. But when I do tell him, he’s like, great at it. People really love him, grass roots people and all. You should join us for yoga.

DIANA:
Yes, about that. Harry’s a little fragile, you know. He doesn’t have a clear role, like Wills, you know. You need to help him create that role, encourage him to do the things he’s good at. Like the military charities, for example. He enjoys those very much and they like him. Why has he not been doing as many of those?

MM:
Well, yeah, he does some. Like he does some Invictus stuff, and I help him. I even made the speech at the Australian Invictus Games for him. But you know, now that he’s a dad, I’d really like him to be doing more non-violent stuff. Like environmentalism. That’s so important right now.

DIANA:
Yes, about that. My first advice to you about that is, don’t trust Elton John about anything. He’s unreliable and I hate that bloody song he sang at my funeral.

Pity George Michael’s not around any longer, he was a nice man.

MM:
(angrily, with finger raised) George Michael engaged in blatant cultural appropriation. He sang soul music, but he had no African or African-American heritage. His style was blatantly stolen for the original artists. He should have been ashamed of himself.

DIANA:
Well, if you’re worried about things stolen from other people, you might not want to be part of the British Royal Family.

Now, about this baby…..
Anonymous said…
I think she'll crawl like the twins in Breaking Bad.

I was thinking a "modern" bespoke version of this hair shirt worn by the penitent:

"A garment of rough cloth made from goats' hair and worn in the form of a shirt or as a girdle around the loins, by way of mortification and penance."

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Now! said…
Yes, they say William is actually more aristocratic on his mother’s side than his father’s.

SwampWoman said…
Oh, too true. The "if she had lived" question was for myself because I started wandering off the mental path.....
BlueRidge said…
If Megs is “merching” it explains why a lot of her clothing is worn out of season (ahead) , does not fit and includes accessories like leather gloves at TRC.

Her visit to the retired actors’ Home in Winter, wearing that black and white, too-tight summer dress. Darker fall and winter shades at Louis’ christening, TTC 2019, etc.

Designers would be sending her clothing to be coming out and she’d wear them to generate interest in the outfit with some help from Meghan’s Mirror.

If she wasn’t keeping the outfits but returning or selling the clothes, that also explains why her outfits are not tailored to her frame.

Designers would be sending her sample sizes she wouldn’t be able to tailor if she had to return the pieces to them.

Remember the Polynesian your red dress with hanging price tag?

I do think she is merching as hard as she can, selling some items but having to return others.
Mom Mobile said…
"Well, if you’re worried about things stolen from other people, you might not want to be part of the British Royal Family."

Nice one, @Nutty! Thanks for the laugh. ;)

Honestly, I can't imagine Diana taking any sort of meeting with MM to begin with. If Diana were on the scene I don't think MM would have been on Harry's radar. At least not on dry land.


abbyh said…
I think she would also be carrying the baby on the emotional pilgrimage so she could get the "right" optic.
QueenWhitby said…
I’d like to think she’d channel the Dowager Duchess of Grantham from Downton, and politely ask “why must everyday involve a fight with an American?” or regarding her IG posts “I can’t decide if you’re an instrument of communication or torture”.

In reality, Diana was an astute judge of character as is William, she would have pegged MM instantly. She also despised people using her name and position for personal gain.

Maybe it would go like this:

Harry: “mummy I’ve met someone I think you’ll really like, she’s clever, beautiful, and charming. Men love her. She idolizes you and wants to be just like you and together we want to be global humanitarians”

Diana: “Quite. I’ve seen the tapes. Get rid of her - now. Oh, and have Paul check the jewellry and count the silver before she leaves.”
Lurking said…
If she had coordinated with the men, she would have blended in with the curtains.... which would be a plus. If she had coordinated with the women, she wouldn't have stood out. I think early on she was clueless and merching. Now, I think she dresses in a way to stand out among the crowd of royals at any gathering.

Here's the only photo I could find with her in it... https://cdn.evoke.ie/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/15225737/prince-louis-christening-portrait-696x502.jpg I don't think the dress is a horrible choice. It's almost a neutral color in the setting. She doesn't blend into the decor and doesn't clash with the other women, but does stand out. The photo may be better, because she isn't wearing off-white. Would have been best to wear a more neutral color, perhaps a lighter more taupe green.

Clueless, merching, or purposeful?
Lurking said…
I think she's embarrassed by her family, so did everything she could to keep them away from the royal family. She created a narrative about a supportive father, but left out the part that he's broke, fat, and ill. Her saint of the mother at least isn't fat and makes for better photo ops.
Lurking said…
"William is actually more aristocratic on his mother’s side than his father’s."

This is true. Diana's lineage goes back 20 generations... all British aristocrats. Charles's goes back at most 5 on the QE2 side until you run into foreigners.
Ann Christensen said…
Having been guilty of leading the convo far afield in the past, I shall now stay strictly in line with instructions. Ahem!....

Meghan(gushing and clawing): "So so happy to meet you. We have SO much in commom!"

Diana:(regally, softly)"You really mustn't."
Ann Christensen said…
Well, should read "common"...perhaps a freudian slip on MM's par
Girl with a Hat said…
from a comment at DM: Diana is said to have told a bodyguard that Harry was obsessed with the fact that William would be King.... So obsessed that Diana began giving Harry his own fake title of Good King Harry. I think the rot set in there!

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Rainy Day said…
I’m sorry, I know I’m off-topic here, but should H&M be concerned that everybody is at Balmoral except them (and Andrew)? Any chance that the BRF might be having some interesting conversations about their 2 problem idiots?
punkinseed said…
Rainy Day, I noticed and wondered that as well. No doubt PA, Megs and Harry are the only topic going on at Balmoral if anyone is within earshot of Prince Philip. Note that Fergie left tuit suite (sp), and the dust is still trying to settle as PA took off about a day after Philip arrived. The fly on the wall in me says Philip gave his son a major dressing down and banishment. Harry has sense enough to dodge, duck and avoid Philip right now, too.
The histrionic Megs going to Diana's grave story is nothing but smoke screen distraction from the fact that they are not at Balmoral as they are on top of granny and PP's shit list.
Now! said…
Zara and her family are not there either, or at least didn’t go to church.

The York girls are also missing.

Rumors now that Bea will get married in Italy. Good excuse to keep the party small and not have the British taxpayers on the hook for it. Edo and his family are loaded, let them pay. Oops Meg, your invite got lost in the mail.
Susie Q said…
She wouldn't have gotten within 100 miles of Harry.
Flangalina said…
Diana would have pulled herself up to full height towering MM giving her a withering stare whilst saying
“And You must be Meghan” then turning to Harry saying “and you son have much explaining to do”.
Anonymous said…
I think their meeting would be exceptionally problematic for Ms. Markle. Assuming that Diana maintained her star power, then Ms. Markle would ALWAYS be a footnote to any article or photo-op she designed. All eyes would still be on Diana and none on our little star fucker. So I wouldn't be surprised (this is looking toward the future) that Markle would act all lovey-dovey in front of the cameras, wax poetically about how much she is learning from Diana, blahblahblech, and then use her PR trolls to start placing negative articles in the tabloids to undercut Diana. Also, I wouldn't put it past Diana (because I, for one, did not think she was a walking saint) to use Meghan to undermine the BRF, but it would be on Diana's terms only. So that would also chaff with Meghan, because, as we have seen over and over again for the last two years, Meghan does not play well with others. She uses people and then discards them. Diana wasn't the sharpest tool in the shed, but she was very savvy. And I think that any machinations that Meghan would dream up to aggrandize herself using Diana would be undercut by Diana's PR game. Diana was a master at the PR. Meghan has proved herself to be a disaster. The woman cannot get it right because fundamentally her arrogance always undermines her. Diana was not arrogant, and that was her strength.
Anyone else reading this before it gets deleted?

https://twitter.com/youallknowme999/status/1165461844498083840
Jdubya said…
ThisLittlePetal
@ThisLittlePetal

So that post, among other things, refers to thislittlepetal, sl whom some people think is Megs
Diana: ( sipping her wheatgrass juice thoughtfully) "You know, you really should have taken the FIRST offer. There are no more coming, and that would have been the easy way. For EVERYONE."
abbyh said…
She could make some bad decisions (as do all of us) but she was good and if given a choice, I would have not wanted to take on Diana. She had a lot of street smarts (and phone numbers). Any one else was sort of choking on her dust after being out maneuvered.
Anonymous said…
Apparently. I just read it. The whole Harry-was-blackmailed-Markle-is-an-Epstein-plant stuff is way OTT IMO and nothing I can buy into or even participate in. I think Markle was just a very good hooker and she hooked a big one and the BRF didn't know how to stop it, but they will have to stop it soon enough, one way or another. I would not want to be the FootPrince at this point.
Now! said…
That was quite a thread! It's still up at 0942 EEST (0742 London time.)

I've also screenshotted it for posterity.
Now! said…
@ThisLittlePetal certainly does an excellent imitation of Meghan, using her diction and favorite words, and spends a lot of time "clapping back" at Meghan's opponents, interspersed with details of the writer's own "perfect" life:

"Blissful Mom
💕
Happy Home
🏡
Loving Wife
💍
Organic food
🥗
Animal lover
🐕
Perfect life
😘

Is it really Megs? Who knows.

I'm also not convinced of the Epstein connection, although it certainly isn't impossible.

But I do believe it's likely that Meg claimed she was pregnant, which would account for the rushed wedding (pushing Eugenie's out of the way) and the sour faces on the Royal Family in the pews.
Now! said…
Apropos the topic of this blog post, @youallknowme999 makes her/his own contribution on Twitter (note the British spelling):

"I know you idolise Diana, the worst mistake she ever made was thinking her friends were her friends & would have her back. Instead they backstabbed her & she paid for it with her life. If she was alive, she would have hated you & would be open about it."
How awesome would it be if it turns out that youallknowme999 is actually one of Diana's sisters. Or better still....Camilla !!
Now! said…
I think purposeful. Meg is by nature a divider and a splitter - it's not like her to "go along" with a family theme, even on something as harmless as a prearranged clothing color.

She's also an actress, and actresses generally like to stand out from the crowd. Wearing a different color draws attention and creates commentary, which Meghan loves.

If she's able to merch and bring in some money too, so much the better.
Now! said…
Well, the poster says that she or he is suffering from the flu. We just need to find someone in Royal circles with the flu.

What about Samantha Cohen or Heather Wong?
Now! said…
It took me awhile to sit down and read this all the way through, but when I did it was enjoyable. I particularly liked the ending!
Now if we absolutely have to play Sherlock here's my logic... They are all at Balmoral, and the weather up in Scotland esp Aberdeen is being really funny. It's a crazy heat wave but this week had a couple of very chilly nights. So it'd be quite natural for one of them to catch flu. Hahh...! Do yes, all have to do is look for one of them carrying a tissue, and having a red nose and puffy eyes. We also know that a certain Prince was busy with the highland games most of the week, so very much outdoors, in a crowd, and is known to have delicate health. **wink wink**

He is famously known to be quite passive and has been accused of being a softy. But we do know he is very image conscious, is stubborn about what he wants, and for someone in his position of power it would be surprising for him to be so unbothered. So...**wink and smirk**

PS: I'm talking about Charles.

Suzanne Wilson said…
Diana was on her way to becoming one of the jet set herself. Following her divorce from Charles and the royal Family, and after her break- up with the stable, sensible Dr. Khan she began hanging out with the likes of Dodi Fayed and his friends. William disapproved, and they had a big quarrel over it. And Diana had begun playing games with the press to a greater degree than previously. She was far classier about it than Megan is but she was hooked on the attention, and didn't know how to live without it. Had she lived shemight well have spiraled out of control.
For a little brevity: https://www.instagram.com/marklememes/
SwanSong said…
And that is the crucial difference between Diana & Meghan. I will never forget Diana walking down that long aisle at St. Paul’s with her father, who had just recovered from a stroke. In the footage, you can see a wobbly Earl Spencer leaning on Diana as they walked. She never would have considered for one minute not having him there because of the “optics”. MM had already abandoned her father by the time her engagement was announced.
Trooper said…
I hope if Diana came back now, she would say, "We are not thick, and only one of us is a thief." referring to Harry's comment that Diana and MM would be, "thick as thieves."
Hikari said…
I'm going to echo what Suzanne said above.

The 'Saint Diana, People's Princess' narrative is powerful, and by dying so young and still at the height of her beauty and vitality, it is a narrative that will never be extinguished. I will stop short of calling it a 'myth', because Diana did have a compassionate heart for the sick and disenfranchised, and I think she personally did greater good to destigmatize AIDS than all the doctors' statements could ever have done. She had a heart for her boys as big as the ocean, and had a real gift for connecting with people. She was a generous friend, but could be a very vindictive enemy if she perceived herself to be crossed, and was not above manipulating the media to her own ends.

In the last couple of years of her life, commencing with the 1995 Panorama interview with Martin Bashir, she was engaged in setting herself up as the People's Princess with her own separate 'court' in popular opinion. That interview was her shot across the bow of her former marriage family, with the pronouncement that she didn't think Charles would ever be King (the subtext being, he didn't deserve to be). She was embracing her new life as 'former Royal turned global celebrity' and running with a fast crowd, including her new beau Dodi Fayed, who was a movie producer, scion of the Harrods dynasty and as such had connections with tons of celebrities.

Diana had a particular attachment to Muslim men; before Dodi, indeed, before being officially divorced, she was pursuing Dr. Hasnat Khan--who was married. Her pursuit of him could be labeled 'stalking' according to some biographers, even when Dr. Khan had severed the relationship. Then she took up with Dodi. If Meghan fancies herself 'the new Diana', I think Diana proposed to style herself as 'the new Jackie Onassis' with Dodi, a moneyed foreigner with a yacht as her Ari, the man who could keep a former Royal in the luxurious style to which she had become accustomed, and her offered her the privacy provided by great wealth. I think we all remember well those long-range pictures of Diana, just weeks before she died, aboard Dodi's yacht. She looked happy and as healthy and fit as she'd ever been . . . but it's more than a little ironic, isn't it, that the Princess of Wales essentially became the yacht girl of a multimillionaire Muslim playboy?

Hikari said…
As the days ticked down to the end of August, 1997, a major crisis was brewing in the Royal family: Diana seemed determined to stay with Dodi, and an engagement was said to be imminent. The BRF was then faced with the prospect of the mother of the future King of England married to a Muslim man and, as a condition of that marriage, converting to Islam herself. This was four years before the events of 9/11, but Dodi would never have been deemed a suitable person to be William and Harry's stepfather. I don't think converting to Islam would have troubled Diana overmuch; it would have been expedient to achieve her aim, which is exactly why Meghan converted to the Anglican church. Spiritual beliefs did not enter in. Diana's faith in the church in which she was raised was tenuous at best . . throughout her marriage she was eager to embrace astrology, crystals, whatever took her fancy as a means to alleviate her emotional pain. Even the hymn selected as 'her favorite' at her memorial service, "I Vow to Thee, My Country' is a lovely song--but it is a patriotic ode, not a particularly spiritual song.

The question remains, if she had married Dodi, if being a Muslim wife would have impinged on her globetrotting celebrity charity work and rubbing shoulders with celebrities. Perhaps not; Dodi was not an observant Muslim, but I'm sure his father would have insisted on a traditional Islamic wedding and Diana's conversion to the faith
of Allah. This was giving BP fits.

Diana really blossomed and came into her own as a solo figure, and she was very active during that last year. Even if one acknowledges her problems, her untimely death was a great loss to the world, and to her boys most of all. I would like to think that if Diana were still here, a glamorous 58 now (same as Lord G., though he is not as glamorous lol), that Harry might have settled into himself more easily and certainly wouldn't have endured the mental anguish losing his mother at 12 caused. I think he probably would have buckled down to the Army and stayed in as a career, as a means of making her proud. But his jealousy of his brother and impulsivity, spoiled antics and intellectual troubles would have remained, since he dealt with those as a child.

Would Diana have liked Megs and thought her a suitable bride for her younger favored son? Maybe--if Meghan's PR had matched the reality. Megs looked really good on paper, or the virtual equivalent. Diana was always captivated by celebrities, and that included American ones. We all remember her dance with John Travolta at the White House in 1985. But Megs is NOT what she portrayed herself as, and her sham is transparent; Diana would have seen through her immediately. I think a word from his mother in Harry's ear would have achieved what William's could not--get him to reevaluate the relationship, if it had ever gotten that far.

I don't think Diana would have been opposed to Harry's marrying an actress; even a divorcee. But for as enamored as she was with Hollywood stars (which Megs resolutely was not), she would have wanted Harry to choose a woman who would elevate his status within the Royal family, I think. Someone who could join him in his charity work, authentically, not just lip-service. Someone who would have integrated more seamlessly and would have gotten William and his wife on-side. Diana herself may have been out of the Family, but she would have known that it was in Harry's best interests to stay in, and command respect from within by being a valuable contributing member, along with his wife. Dodi, for all his other failings, was a British citizen, and Diana would have wanted Harry to choose a British girl. I think she would have warmed to Cressida, for example.

What might have been . . . .Unfortunately we, and Harry, and the BRF, are stuck with 'What Is'.
Girl with a Hat said…
I don't think Diana would have ever married Dodi. She could have many wealthy boyfriends and there was no need to marry this guy. He wasn't a very good catch. She didn't have issues with Muslim men, just not incompetent cocaine sniffing daddy's boys.
Lady Luvgood said…
Hikari I adore you, but Dr Khan was not married, he was a bachelor, never marrying until long after Diana’s death.
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Jen said…
I disagree that Diana would have thought that Kate was an acceptable bride for William. She would have wanted William's wife to be from an aristocratic family like hers. She may have been a little more lenient with Harry, but nowhere near the likes of MM.
Hikari said…
But he had many of the perks she was looking for . . . money, a yacht, an influential father . . . money, a connection to celebrities . . there was a lot of talk that Di was interested in appearing in a film. Kevin Costner had, I believe, been in very preliminary talks with her to do a Bodyguard 2. Diana's ability as an actress will have to be left to speculation . . I doubt she would have been good at it, really, but she was aces at playing herself. It worked for non-actress Whitney Houston in the first film, and Whitney would go on to other roles.

I doubt that 'Diana as Movie Star' would have happened, but she was a bigger star than all but a handful of celebrities just by being herself. I could envision her as a correspondent on a lifestyle-type show. Diana had a natural charisma that she'd polished as she matured. Were she still around in living color, Smegs' pathetic, pitiful attempts to emulate her style would never have gotten off the ground.

I agree wholeheartedly with you that Diana could have, and should have, set her sights higher than Dodi Fayed . . but she was keeping company with him and ultimately it cost her her life. We all regret, and none more so than William and Harry, that their mom didn't have better taste in companions.

Those rumors were swirling about an engagement at the time of her death; had she survived her trip to Paris, she may well have come back engaged to her 'Onassis'. She might not ultimately have accepted him as a husband, but I was pretty aghast that she'd ever accepted him as a boyfriend. He had something she found attractive, and I'd wager that it was mostly his money. The Fayed fortune could keep her in better style than her allowance from the RF. And then there was the show business connection, with Dodi. If Di truly had her sights on a foray into show business, Dodi knew people. As you may recall, Dodi dated Brooke Shields prior to her marriage to Andre Agassi. Now *that* was a pairing I found bizarre in the extreme, since Brooke was so very young at the time. Personally I thought Dodi seemed repulsive, but he must have had a certain charisma in person. The RF's concern over Diana and Dodi was quite serious.
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Hikari said…
Thanks for the correction about Dr. Khan. I have mixed up my royal biographers, I guess, as I could have sworn I read that he was married at the time of his involvement with Diana.

I guess it suited Diana to keep her ex-husband's family guessing about her intentions with Dodi, along with Dr. Khan . . . a man who was known to abuse cocaine, along with being from a patriarchal culture were sexual jealousy could have homicidal consequences would have been a terrible match for Diana.

I admire Diana for many things, but can also look clear-eyed at her faults, among which were a penchant for continual romantic dramas around herself which were in keeping with an adolescent girl. Despite being a mature woman of 36 and a mother, the fact is that Diana was auctioned off in marriage to the RF before she was practically out of the egg. Engaged at 19, married at 20, a mother before she was 21 . . . she hadn't had a chance to live a life before she became a handmaiden and brood mare for the Crown. Perhaps if she had, her mental age might have progressed beyond the high school stage when it came to her cravings for soap operatic romantic dramas.

Charles had his spectacular failings, as we all know, but I no longer believe that he could have saved Diana from her most self-destructive impulses even if he had been completely faithful and devoted to her. Diana was never in love with Charles so much as she was with the fantasy of an ideal romantic love and with herself as a Princess. Any man would have failed to measure up to that. That does not exonerate Charles for his behavior towards her, but even if he'd had eyes only for her, she would have managed to find her situation lacking and would have sought attention elsewhere. She and Meghan had that in common--the need for regular injections of all-consuming adoration from others. This wore Charles out, in the end, long before The End.

Diana may not have married Dodi, but at the time of her death she was *already* involved in a relationship that reflected badly on her judgement and was already of concern to the RF. If, as someone suggested, 15 year old William was so aggravated by the relationship that he was arguing with his mother about it--symptomatic, I'd say, of the dysfunctional dynamic Diana had with her eldest son--putting him, at 15, into the role of the adult scolding a wayward teenaged daughter over her romantic relationship--that's whack, isn't it? Points to Diana being a bit infantile, at least in this area; playing off one man against another to create sexual jealousy all around herself is not the action of a mature person. . her relationship with Dodi was therefore already making things difficult for her boys. They were aboard the party yacht that summer before the accident, and while they may have enjoyed their time there, don't we think that the boys, and particularly William would have been grilled re. the status/progress of Diana's relationship with her boyfriend when the boys got back home?

Diana may well have accepted a ring from Dodi just to spite the Royal family and perhaps even gone through with a marriage. All of this is moot speculation now. What we do have as a cold fact is that Diana's association with Dodi and being with him that night is what got her killed. It was on Dodi's orders, no doubt screamed from the back seat in a cocaine-fueled paranoiac rage that an impaired employee drove too recklessly and drove them all to their deaths. It would have been far better for Diana to never have gotten involved with Dodi in the first place, but of course we can only say this with the benefit of hindsight which she never got.
Hikari said…
That's true . . too bad she didn't recognize that earlier and she'd still be alive today.
Lady Luvgood said…
It is I agree and no big deal, not at all.

Regardless of Diana’s flaws, we all lost greatly when she didn’t buckle up that night in Paris.
Her son’s more than anyone else.

Which has led us to Megdusa.
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Hikari said…
@Elle,
Yes, I know it does . . . but honor killings are a very specific type of gender-related violence that tend to occur predominantly in Muslim families and other cultures on the sub-Continent. We may as well be honest and admit that stereotypes spring from kernels of truth.

Not that the al Fayeds would have been my idea of an ultra-conservative Muslim family. Both Muhammad and Dodi were Westernized, at least as far as their business practices/partners went. Other stereotypes that often prove to be truisms: 1. Parents usually much more conservative/religiously observant than their children, particularly if he is an immigrant, as Muhammad was. The senior Fayed had his own reasons for being as wary of a match between his son and Diana as the RF would have been. And 2. Men from rigidly patriarchal cultures very often tend to rediscover their commitment to their roots/become ultra conservative once they are married and facing the prospect of becoming fathers. The elders are willing to allow their bachelors some leeway in their behavior, but once they become family men, a lot of pressure is applied to them to uphold the traditions of their culture.

If anyone was resistant to this pressure, I think Dodi would have been . . he loved the Western lifestyle too much, and I think his father somewhat despaired of him.

The sad truth is that entering into any love relationship or frankly just walking down the street as a woman could have homicidal consequences . . .not just dating a Muslim man. Dodi seemed to be a candidate for a lot of rage and jealousy, though, considering that he was hitting the cocaine pretty hard and had a giant ego and also seemed more into the relationship with Diana than she was with him. For her part, she seemed to enjoy men competing over her, or creating an atmosphere where she created an atmosphere of jealousy in order to feel more desirable. I could see this being a recipe for disaster had the Di-Dodi relationship continued. Diana was in her own way very strong-willed and after a decade and a half of being subjugated to the Royal family was enjoying her freedom as a free agent. I think this would have made problems with Dodi, who for all that he was highly Westernized and a largely non-observant Muslim would have had the cultural conditioning that women, particularly wives, were to be submissive and decorative. Diana'd had enough of that in her first marriage.

How I wish she'd gotten the chance to determine her own future going forward. If she'd been wearing her seat belt, she might have survived that accident with only minor injuries. The fallout from that seemingly insignificant decision is still devastating to contemplate. Which is why Smeaghan's plan to exploit the anniversary of that tragic day to make an 'emotional pilgrimage' to Diana's grave for her own PR aggrandizement turns my stomach. If she had a sincere bone in her body, she'd go in secret, privately, providing that Harry was willing to take her.
SwampWoman said…
ROFL, Alice, I thought that if anything were to cause Princess Di or her ghost to appear, it would be the awful sight and sound of MM blubbering and dropping tears and mucus all over her grave. I also had a mental picture of Earl Spencer reading about the pilgrimage in the paper, spitting out his tea in surprise, and yelling "Oh, bloody hell!"
Hikari said…
Reposting this . .

https://mobile.twitter.com/ThisLittlePetal

I have my doubts it's legit but still entertaining reading all the same.
KayeC said…
Yes, many of her friends have said that Dr Khan was the man she loved and wanted to be with. He was not famous or flashy, but stable and that was what she needed.

I always thought that Diana and Dodi was a bearding relationship. He got to look like a playboy with a princess and she knew it would irk the royals. Not because he was Muslim, but because he was a flashy, playboy type. I do not think being pictured on his yacht made her a "yacht girl."

Also wanted to point out when Diana was doing her anti-landmine campaign, at the time (before the ban), the UK had been a major producer and developer of landmines, and British Aerospace holds 12 landmine patents. These companies did not like Diana highlighting that the UK was listed as one of the main sources for landmines found in the ground worldwide.
abbyh said…
The Earl only has a couple more days of public visitation to the estate for this year. Private parties can be arranged but in advance. I'm not certain he would be all that into a public visit by her (and trailing her photographer) as he wasn't part of the happy christening but who knows.

One can visit the "temple" to her memory but an actual visit to the island where she is buried is a full stop no to the general public. I don't know if any of her family have visited the island or not. If they have, I suspect it was a private thing where they didn't want to share the pain with outsiders (certainly understandable).

As a side note, I have some difficulty with the term of temple to her memory given that there was a fair amount of Diana worship even when she was alive. I just wish they had used another term. Memorial?
Teasmade said…
I'm glad you mentioned the seatbelt, Hikari and CurlySue2. That (as well as her dismissing the RPOs and getting in the car with a drunk driver) are usually forgotten in the vengeful fervor to blame "the press", a fervor both on the part of the public at large and W and H in particular. (Among their many charities for causes in which they have no expertise that they sponsor, why not promote the wearing of seatbelts? What expertise do they have in mental wellness?)

And I agree that anything long-term with Dodi would have been a disaster. It's such a shame, isn't it, to have entered into this relationship partly to thumb her nose at the royal family.

Fifi LaRue said…
Hikari, thank you for your very well-written posts. About the crash in the tunnel, I want to add that a well-known fiction writer in the U.S., Patricia Cornwell of the Dr. Kay Scarpetta mysteries, researched the crash. There was an hour-long special on a major network about it. Cornell looked at all kinds of possibilities, and her final conclusion was that someone(s) at the direction of the BRF set off a flash-bang in the tunnel. That would have been a combination of a loud explosion and blinding light. Enough to frighten the driver into losing control of the vehicle, and resulting in a fatal crash.
Hikari said…
Not a yacht girl in the sense that our Smegs was, but Diana was no longer a married woman or a virginal teenage bride. I'm assuming (only an assumption, but a fairly likely one) that Diana did not accept invitations from Dodi to go about his yacht to merely have a platonic study of the Koran. One of Dodi's main draws was his yacht, I imagine, and access to other toys like private jets and gated homes. Her level of celebrity made this kind of insulation which money could provide imperative to Diana. So, if only temporarily and for her own reasons, which may or may not have included a long-term commitment to Dodi, she was having a sexual relationship on his yacht and was his private yacht girl. Though part of at least one yachting excursion was a family vacation with the boys. Even when they were aboard, I doubt highly that Diana stayed in a different cabin than when they weren't there. But we can only conjecture.

SwampWoman said…
How odd it is that Lady Spencer, who is a Canadian by birth and that lived in Los Angeles, isn't bff with MM. She is beautiful and elegant.
50 and counting said…
I'm of the same generation of Diana. I even married in 1981 (months before her). I remember the press coverage of her well.

Her first negative press happened in early 1981. She had a "do you know who I am" moment with a shop girl over the writing of a cheque. It was in one of the papers but there is no record of it on line. It's stuck in my brain because of her attitude. I moved to the UK to get married and my future spouse was great in giving me an intro to British life. You couldn't write a cheque without a supporting cheque card (especially if it was a Eurocheque). She didn't have the card and was very vocal about it. She had the Coutts cheque book but no card and wanted those jumpers.

Back then in the UK, people married at a much younger age than they do know. I was 20 and my groom 21. My family all considered me old, lol. In my husband's circle I was the oldest bride.

Also bear in mind, Diana's dating pool was limited. She was never going to marry a plumber or a mechanic. Women of her social class dated Cavalry officers (Household was the preferred first choice, Blues & Royals, etc.)

Shortly before her death the papers had turned on her. The Express and Mail were quite nasty. There was a certain fear that she would marry Dodi. Certainly his Dad, the then owner of Harrods, was pushing the story. But after her death several of her close friends were adamant that it would never have happened.

History changes with the telling over the years. Diana was no saint, ask Will Carling's wife.
SwampWoman said…
Rabbit, I suspect that the old adage "When your only tool is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail! " applies here. The network wouldn't have had an hour-long special to say "It was classic drunken driver reaction time in combination with people not wearing their seatbelts." Had they been wearing their seatbelts, all may have survived.

MaLissa said…
#SwampWoman well if you think about it, it isn't odd. Lady Spencer is beautiful/pretty and confident and developed her own charity. I mean Smeagol probably hates her for being beautiful/pretty, had a child and got her body back soon after - which Smeagol hasn't yet. She might want to "hijack" Karen's charity and put her spin on it but I don't think Lady Spencer would let her come near it with a 10 foot pole... or longer. They (Earl & Countess Spencer) probably see right through her and don't have a good opinion of her hence not being invited to the christening. But that's just my opinion - I could be wrong.
Off topic but kinda on topic.... There are so many stories about them every single day. And most of them seem ridiculous and improbable at first. There has never really been official confirmation for most of the stories. But every now and then, something turns out to be true.

Rumours of the rift were there for sometime, and then the official foundation split happened. There rumours of them being exiled to Africa and then out of the blue their Africa tour was announced.

There were rumours that they weren't staying at KP, and then turns out they were living at Cotswold. The Vogue thing, their own Foundation, them celebrating her birthday "low-key" and privately away from family and friends (yes, it turned out to be at Ibiza, but at least it was away from family and friends). The rumoured tie-up with Oprah which was later confirmed. The Gayle king interview, which wasn't all that great but it did come out, with the weepy friend n all... There are so many more examples... Which makes me feel that they might have planned something around Diana's death anniversary. In the end it will turn out to be something gimmicky and tacky, and mainly for the social media optics. It's hardly likely that they would organise a charity concert or something on her death anniversary!

Also makes me wonder if their ultimate sympathy tactic would be to reveal, with specific details, what actually happened with the Archie situation, and why they hid the baby's birth for months, why they fudged his birth date, and what his actual name is. (I for one, refuse to believe that they actually named him that! It's the most ridiculous name for a Royal baby)
Ava C said…
Patrick Jephson's book 'Shadows of a Princess' is well worth reading or re-reading here. He shows Diana's slide from the world of the BRF to the far less forgiving and more tawdry world of the jet-set:

"... the trappings of royalty suddenly reappeared: the jets, the yachts, the bodyguards, and the happy disregard for the cost of anything. The Princess might have been forgiven a wonderful feeling of déjà vu. Such accessories were her meat and drink, her natural habitat, her entitlement – but only, I sensed, if she were able to suppress memories of the days when they had also been earned. [...] Here was all the fun of being royal, with no suggestion that it must be paid for with a visit to an old folks’ home in Frinton. Sooner or later, though, the bill – whatever it was going to be – would be presented. The gods of royal decorum, or the expectations of her devoted public, would surely not be mocked. There was a palpable anticipation, a dread even, among amateur and professional royal-watchers alike that the Princess was leading us inexorably to a confrontation with her new persona. She herself, heading for the Fayed yacht, promised a boatload of pressmen that they would soon get a big surprise. It never arrived. Repayment for her late ration of happiness – and I feared it could only have been in the form of a tightening downward spiral – was never demanded. Instead, all her debts were cleared in an instant in a Parisian underpass. "

I am almost the same age as Diana. I remember scanning the newspaper hoardings that summer of ' 97, on my morning commute. Of her frolicking on Dodi's yacht and hinting at another surprise for everyone. I kept thinking "Oh no, what's she going to do next?" She seemed like such a loose cannon. We all thought that. And now her son Harry is drifting into the same world.
Hikari said…
rabbit,

As much as I enjoy dishing about conspiracy theories relating to the Monstrous Markle and her Addled Prince, what these two numbskulls get up to is, while aggravating, more or less harmless. It spills a lot of ink in the tabloids and certainly gives us tons of fodder for rollicking discussions, but those two are basically harmless. Fauxchie may or may not be a real baby, but as much as I detest the Markle, I don't think she's guilty of murder. At least, not yet. Only the murder of dreams and friendships and reputations, but not people.

The conspiracy theory that the British Royal Family had Diana assassinated percolates to this day, kept alive by Mr. al Fayed, who would much rather be able to lay the blame for the tragedy at the feet of the wealthiest and whitest family in the Kingdom, if not the world, rather than accept that his own son's recklessless and poor judgement killed three people, including himself. I can understand his obsession, as a grieving father. But as provocative it is to contemplate, I do not believe this theory is supported by the evidence.

Patricia Cornwell is, as you point out, an author of *fiction*. Her stock in trade is creating implausible scenarios and dramatizing them so as to seem plausible. I used to enjoy her Kay Scarpetta books very much and read the first 10 or 12 before they took a dive off the cliff in quality. It was around this time that Ms. Cornwell took an excursion into non-fiction, turning out a cookbook and an investigative foray into the real identity of Jack the Ripper. This book is unread by me but leading experts in the field of Ripperology dismiss her conclusions as bunk.

Ms. Cornwell is foremost, a novelist. Novelists drive a narrative in order to sell books and make money. Her former career, as the chief medical examiner of Virginia, a job she later gave to her created heroine, means that she is (or was, years ago) tops in her field of forensic medicine--on humans. Forensic crime scene investigation relating to vehicular accidents is another highly specialized field, and I wouldn't expect that her grounding in human anatomy, as impressive and extensive as it is would qualify Ms. Cornwell to pronounce with authority about such things as tread marks, acceleration patterns, crush velocities of 1994 Mercedes Benzes and the like. Her conclusion that 'someone at the direction of the Royal family set off a flash-bang in the tunnel' for the purposes of murdering Diana sounds like the most rampant speculative fiction to me, but it sure makes for a titillating read.
Hikari said…
The following are the items discussed at the inquest in 2007 under the direction of Lord Justice Scott Baker, the Coroner for West London:
On 27 July 2007, Baker, following representations for the lawyers of the interested parties, issued a list of issues likely to be raised at the inquest, many of which had been dealt with in great detail by Operation Paget:

Whether driver error on the part of Henri Paul caused or contributed to the cause of the collision
Whether Henri Paul's ability to drive was impaired through drink or drugs
Whether a Fiat Uno or any other vehicle caused or contributed to the collision
Whether the actions of the Paparazzi caused or contributed to the cause of the collision
Whether the road/tunnel layout and construction were inherently dangerous and, if so, whether this contributed to the collision
Whether any bright/flashing lights contributed to or caused the collision and, if so, their source
Whose decision it was that the Princess of Wales and Dodi Al Fayed should leave from the rear entrance to the Ritz and that Henri Paul should drive the vehicle
Henri Paul's movements between 7 and 10 pm on 30 August 1997
The explanation for the money in Henri Paul's possession on 30 August 1997 and in his bank account
Whether Andanson was in Paris on the night of the collision
Whether Diana's life would have been saved if she had reached hospital sooner or if her medical treatment had been different
Whether Diana was pregnant
Whether Diana and Dodi Al Fayed were about to announce their engagement
Whether and, if so in what circumstances, the Princess of Wales feared for her life
The circumstances relating to the purchase of the ring
The circumstances in which Diana's body was embalmed
Whether the evidence of Tomlinson throws any light on the collision
Whether the British or any other security services had any involvement in the collision
Whether there was anything sinister about (i) the Cherruault burglary or (ii) the disturbance at the Big Pictures agency
Whether correspondence belonging to the Princess of Wales (including some from Prince Philip) has disappeared, and if so the circumstances.[102]

#6 on this list is the 'bright, flashing light'.

Lord Justice Baker concluded that there was not a shred of evidence pointing to the Duke of Edinburgh or any other agent within the Royal family as having arranged this accident-on-purpose for the aim of killing Diana.

Philip has gotten up to a lot of shenanigans during his 72-year marriage to the Queen, mostly of the sexual infidelity/boys will be boys variety. His animosity toward his daughter-in-law was well known. But murder? I just can't go there. Diana was a loose cannon and she was a worrisome thorn in the side of BP, but would PP have made the Queen complicit in the homicide of their grandsons' mother? Not to mention killing 2 other people in the car with her, and it might have been 3 . . or more. Trevor Rees-Jones survived with debilitating injuries that forced his retirement on disability . . . many other innocent people in the tunnel could have been killed in a pile up collision. How could PP or anyone in on the plot have known as a certainty that Diana's car would take that route into the tunnel? And there was no certainty either that the occupants of the car wouldn't survive to give witness statements. Too risky and slapdash for a murder plot. Why not rig the car to explode as soon as they got in, if 100% fatalities were the aim?

Hikari said…
Occam's Razor states that "When presented with competing hypotheses that make the same predictions, one should select the solution with the fewest assumptions." Or in layman's terms, 'The simplest answer is usually the right one." Henri Paul had a blood alcohol level that was 3.5 times the legal limit in France--in France, mind you, where drinking two bottles of wine per person at lunch is 'just a regular day'. The Mercedes hit the pillar at about 100 km per hour--that's 65 or 70 miles. He'd actually speeded *up* when entering the tunnel, no doubt at shouting from his boss in the back seat. I think these, plus the laws of physics were plenty enough to explain the accident.

Henri Paul was an employee of a volatile man, afraid of losing his position, and that fear drove him to get behind the wheel when he was heavily intoxicated (I believe he was also on antidepressant medication which would have amplified the effect of the alcohol) and then be bullied further into driving at an unsafe speed for the conditions. The poor man is dead and beyond further rebuke, but like the feckless captain of the Titanic, Capt. Smith, the blame ultimately rests with the one in the driver's seat. Had he refused to drive, or had he refused to go above a sedate speed so as to deliver his cargo safely, he might have been without a job in the morning but he and two other people would have been alive.

If the BRF, with the aid of the security services had really wanted to take Diana out, I can think of any number of other scenarios which would have been more effective and private without being a danger to the general public. A misadventure with pills and alcohol in the bathtub arranged to look like a suicide for example. A skiing accident.

It was a terrible day and the aftermath lingers . . I'm not sure anyone old enough to have known and loved Diana and watched her boys grow up from babies has completely recovered from the shock. 22 years seems like just yesterday at times. If I feel badly still, I can only imagine what it's been like for William and Harry.
bootsy said…
Hi abbyh!
I'm English and remember Diana's death very well. In fact I was one of the few people who was awake for it (it all unfolded at about 3am-6am) as I was working in a nightclub at the time and still up.
People forget how Diana was viewed as the weird mass outpouring of 'grief' (I would call it collective hysteria) after her death is the accepted version of things.

As I remember it, Diana's popularity was fading before her death. Yes people still liked her, but her constant courting of publicity, her 'poor me' schtick and cavorting around in general, living the high life whilst claiming everything was terrible (sound familiar?) was most definitely starting to grate.

As such, I really don't know what Diana would make of MM. If she had continued on her trajectory then I think you could argue that she was starting to go down the celeb/PR path that MM has started on immediately. Thirty years on, they might have more in common than you think...

As for going through a time portal, I think it could be argued that Diana might see an alliance with MM as beneficial to her as it would keep her relevant and in the news. Food for thought...
bootsy said…
Hey there, I agree with your synopsis of Diana. People forget she was not that popular before her death/her popularity was slipping quite a lot.

One thing I would say (more as a devil's advocate) is that I wonder whether Diana would be so quick to dismiss MM. As you say, it's possible they have quite a bit in common. Diana was addicted to being in the Press, and MM would have made her relevant and given her a bump if Diana was seen to side with her. I'm not sure it's quite as cut and dried as people are making out.
Fifi LaRue said…
Hikari, you are a very intelligent and thoughtful writer. Thank you for the very full information on the accident. I thought the driver had only one bottle of wine, and didn't realize that Dodi would have been a volatile personality. Years after the accident I read that Dodi consumed huge amounts of cocaine regularly. And, I too, quit reading Cornwell's books for the same reason, she just went off a cliff into uninteresting land.
Fifi LaRue said…
It seems as though Prince Harry would have been insulted to not have his son named after him in some way. Harrison doesn't count.
SwampWoman said…
I don't know about drifting, he's been cut free of his friends and shoved into the current.

/Grown man isn't going to take advice from anybody. If he were taking advice from friends and family, he wouldn't be ditching his responsibilities.
Jen said…
This is a good question, but hate to speculate on what Diana would have thought of MM. I can only assume that as her baby, she would probably be very protective of him and no woman would be good enough. That being said, I think the better question is something many here have already asked; what would Harry be like if Diana had not died when she did? He was so young, and her death had to have profoundly impacted his development. Is the man we see today, one so easily swayed by MM, a result of having a mom who died during your formative years? Or is he a product of the environment he was born in to, and it didn't matter if his mother was around or not. The closer we get to the anniversary of her death, the more I feel for Harry. I think I will always champion Harry and wish the very best for him, even if reality is staring me straight in the face.
KayeC said…
Just saw pics of Harry without his wedding ring at rugby match last week. It's on DanjaZone youtube.

Here is link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWfrsXG3Ask
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Hikari said…
Indy,

I share your cynicism. She was on a bad road after the divorce; I was just shocked the bad road ended so abruptly. I thought we were in for years of Princess Margaret style antics.

I don't think the man existed who could have made Diana happy for very long. The ability to be content with one's situation and love what you have is intrinsic. Diana didn't have it; she was always looking to other people to 'give' her happiness and penalized them when they failed. Meghan is also not capable of contentment. The markers she chases for ephemeral feelings of adulation and worth are meaningless.

Losing Diana so suddenly and traumatically the way they did profoundly damaged her boys, but I do wonder how much Diana would have been available to her sons going forward from 1997. William was on the cusp of manhood; Harry still needed her for a few more years, but both of them were away at school for 2/3rds of the year. School vacations would have been shared with whoever their mother was dating at the time, as that last school holiday was shared with Dodi aboard the Fayed yacht . . . if she'd moved to some other country and become a glamorous expatriate, her sons would have barely seen her. It's not like she was invited to the Royal family get-togethers. She was better off than Fergie, owing to her global superstardom, but as far as the Palace was concerned, they were the same, the cast-off Wives of Windsor.
Hikari said…
"Archie Harrison" has always seemed like a joke name to me, like it was never intended for a real baby.

"Archie" is Prince George's call sign with the RPOs, I believe, and "Harrison" is Meghan's favorite line of home linens as produced by Soho House. It's right there in their catalogue. Any resemblance to Harry's name + son was coincidental. It's so transparent on the part of the Suxxits, it's pretty funny.
Jen said…
But had Diana just been wearing her seatbelt, she would likely be alive. That had the biggest impact on me and why ever since that day, I have never driven without my seatbelt fastened (I was 18 when she died and hated having to wear the seatbelt).
hardyboys said…
Responses on here are so fun to read. Wish I could add or top it up but sadly cant. Love the comment above about Diana being a yacht girl herself in the end. True that. Keep blogging Nutty!!!! Love the distractions at night and while on the treadmill
Eowyn said…
Skippy has a close-up pic showing he was wearing his wedding ring:
https://skippyv20.tumblr.com/post/187312891099/prince-harry-wasnt-wearing-his-wedding-ring-at#notes
Girl with a Hat said…
the Sucks sexes had a pub lunch today

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/9809004/prince-harry-meghan-markle-roast-pub/
abbyh said…
No real pictures of them with their roast. Or the baby.

After the other photos with some amount of photoshop, I lean towards hokey unless I see real action video of them I guess. Those bridges are a little burned from my perspective. But that's just me. (and, I'm willing to admit when I've been wrong in life).
Girl with a Hat said…
the other people in the pub said that Archie was a quiet baby. I bet he never moved the entire time! LOL
Ozmanda said…
oh FFS their PR isn't even trying to be subtle now..

https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/royals/i-dont-really-want-it-prince-harrys-sad-royal-confession/news-story/f99ca492eac92283fa182f9927a429a6

R_O said…
This is off-topic. But I recently came across an interview on YouTube that Meghan did last 2016, for her Good Housekeeping August 2016 fashion feature. She said the best handwritten note she received was from her dad when she booked her very first pilot telling her Meg I knew this day would come. So proud of you. She said and I quote "I still have it, in a little jewelry box by the side of my bed." I suppose she and her father are in good terms for her to treasure this note in her jewelry box by her bedside table. Why can't she introduce Harry to her father during this time? They must have been pretty serious together for Harry to make that October 2016 statement asking the press to back off his girlfriend.
Jen said…
Wait, he says in the interview that he "doesn't want to go down the celebrity route." How does he explain the last 2 years?
Jen said…
You are assuming that she was being honest in that interview. There may never have been a note from Dad....that could very well have been fabricated because it "sounds good."
bootsy said…
Thank you for that, was saying a similar thing. This idea that she was a saint and universally loved is a bit of convenient air brushing.
bootsy said…
Hmmm that's a really interesting post. A lot of stuff on here is long winded speculation passed off as fact, along with the mistaken idea that Di was universally loved and seen as a saint. Like you, I remember that she was not that popular by the time she died and from your excerpt it is clear why.

I never made the connection that Di's life after the royal family is exactly the life that Harry wants for himself with similar pitfalls. Thanks for the post:)
MaLissa said…
Their PR is really reaching. No pictures of anything. Nice plug for the pub though. And they brought a cot for Archie. Really? A COT? Not a pram or a stroller - a cot!! Sigh.
abbyh said…
In the story I read that no other patrons managed to recognized them although the servers were in on it. And, the source was not named (shades from People magazine).
Hikari said…
I love how Archie was so quiet throughout the length of their visit. That little bloke is a dream to care for . . he's never awake! A 3-month old infant who's only been awake long enough to snap 2 photos in his entire little life is a cause for grave concern, isn't it? He might have neurological issues with his brain development, if he sleeps 231/2 out of every 24 hours.

Sunday lunch is a really popular time at most pubs all around the UK and I imagine would be a fairly noisy time with all the tables full, lots of families in. Not to mention the unfamiliar clink and clatter of cutlery and plates, the sounds of many voices, food smells . . and yet the little blighter never stirs from his 'cot'.

Brit speak for 'infant carrier' I suppose, though a cot really sounds unwieldy to be taking to the pub.

Once the child known as Archie reaches the toddler stage, they aren't going to be able to keep claiming that he's as good as gold in public places and sleeps through everything. Buffoons.
Anonymous said…
Apparently the pub denies the entire story. She is shameless. I guess she figures that the initial positive PR will overwhelm what ever denials that occur. Truly despicable.
MaLissa said…
@wizardwench The pub denied the story? Where did you read this? Oh my, this is precious. ;)
MaLissa said…
@Hikari IKR? A 3 month old in a pub with all the noise going on around him and not a peep!! Wow!! That would be something to see. LOL :) Oh and a cot isn't a baby carrier, in UK parlance a cot is a crib. That's why I was laughing at the article when they said a 'cot'. I sincerely doubt they hauled a crib into the pub. ;) LOL
Hikari said…
MaLissa,

Whoops, Meghan's unfamiliarity with British terms trips her up again!!

This is so typical Narc--she really believes that she's so much smarter than the rest of us dolts reading that she is *totally* convincing us. Meg, dear, try using a proofreader . . can't Harry read it and correct your Brit-malapropisms before you fire them off to your American sycophantic magazines? Please, give us some credit for brain cells out here.

So, Brit readers, out of curiosity, what do you call 'a car seat'? The infant models adapt as a carrier for when parents want to dine out with their infant.

Meg is despicable but I also question her grasp on sanity. These are not the actions of someone whose bolts are all screwed tight.

Harry, man, you've really muffed this up, haven't you? When did you start to get glimmers that Smeggie was barking mad? Really, I've dealt with a lot of insane people in my time (I work in public services; it's kind of a job requirement) . . and in my experience, people that are that far off the plumb as your wife is cannot hide it successfully for more than a few minutes at the most. A conversation of any duration apart from superficial pleasantries will catch them out. Also, they can't make appropriate eye contact--they either stare intensely and unblinking like a snake, or their eyes dart all over the place. Don't tell me you didn't notice any of this? Even granting that you guys didn't spend a whole lot of time engaged in conversation . . .even in bed could you not tell that she was not right in the head?

I really and truly wonder what the Royal Family has been dealing with for 34 years with Harry . . he doesn't seem all there, either.
Hikari said…
This seems apropos here, since Meghan obviously does not know the difference between a 'cot' and a 'baby carrier'.

"English vs. American Parents" --hilarious! If only Megs and Harry were as cute as this couple.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uh3_yMLEW1A





Anonymous said…
Yahoo UK says they contacted the Rose and Crown in Winkfield and they deny the story. Also, this is located near Frogmore Cottage, obviously trying to give credence to the lie that they live there. And actually, a noisy pub is white noise to an infact, so that part is not so horrible. When my kids were infants, they would fall asleep in noisy restaurants. That changes around six months. Of course, who KNOWS how old that fake baby is? The shot of her holding an "infant" while deplaning was enormous and NOT an infant. What is she doing? Renting anonymous children by the hour?
MaLissa said…
@Hikari uh... you sure Harry can read?!?! LOL :) Even if he could, I'm sure he'd be too afraid to correct her cause she'd start throwing things at his head like dishes, cups, bananas, muffins/cupcakes... anything handy :)
@wizardwench Thanks for the info. I went and read that. Caught in the lie again. That child is not 3 months old. If he is, then he's the biggest 3 month old I've ever seen. My BFF is 6 ft tall and her husband is 6"5" - even their kids weren't that big at 3 months old. Mind you their 5 year old is my height now and I'm 5'6".
SwampWoman said…
Oh, my! Loved it, @Hikari! Especially the difference between "pants" and "trousers" at the end (grin). I did not know that! I can see where one could get into a lot of trouble in England by telling some random man how nice his pants are.
Hikari said…
@Swampie,

Rather! The usage of 'fanny' is pretty interesting as well.

Maggie Gyllenhaal was in England filming 'Nanny McPhee' and related the story of the time she sent the crew into hysterics when she announced she had to go to the make-up trailer for a 'touch-up'.

In America, women touch up their lipstick. In England, mashers touch you up on the Tube, so a touch-up is nothing one wants, usually.

I had heard most of these Britisms before on account of watching/reading a lot of Brit TV/literature. But I confess that 'baby grow' and 'hundreds & thousands' were new to me. Both wordier than their American counterparts.

Grizzly imparts a completely different mental image to an American. My English friend tells me (rather wistfully) that there are no bears in Britain apart from literary ones like Winnie the Pooh and Paddington. Foxes and pissed-off hedgehogs is about as scary as the wildlife gets. So whenever I find a really good Internet meme of bears invading people's houses or cars or a random business establishment, I make sure to pass it on!
Lime_Smoothie said…
If anyone's in the UK, there's a good documentary on Channel Five tonight about the events after Diana's death, and the public's attitude to royalty.
Ozmanda said…
Yeah for someone who doesn't want to go down the celebrity route, he has made a lot of celebrity "friends" and appearances.
50 and counting said…
My first thought was a "carrycot"
https://www.thefreedictionary.com/carrycothttps://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&id=EC056BDD638D1E824DB885AC33557097452F36CE&thid=OIP._pVNdHkENNl6zYsRACg3PQHaHa&exph=1200&expw=1200&q=carrycot&selectedindex=1&ajaxhist=0&vt=0&eim=1,2,6

But who knows with those two. My friends used to bring their carrycots everywhere (and back in the day they were also used as a type of carseat/restraint)

50 and counting said…
I think those of us of a "certain vintage" remember a lot about Diana that the younger generation doesn't. We were around when tampon gate, squidgygate and the Carling debacle happened.
Re the public story , suffice to say that she/her people read these forums and blogs and know that people are now questioning why she is never seen out and about doing normal people stuff. So that's why the story is probably out now.

I was also I little puzzled by the 'baby was in a cot' thing. Then I thought maybe it was a carrier. Which made me ask as to why a British patron, a regular at the pub, would call it a cot and not a pram/carrier.

This story has all the elements of the Cambridge flight story - the royals being out in public doing normal stuff. The royals going unnoticed by other people. The royals spending modest amounts like regualar people, The child being so quiet and angelic. Noone bothering them as they go about their day but an anonymous person leaking the story. They were out with at least one other person, may be their PA.

The only thing missing is the actual photographs, but that's probably because it didn't happen. Or maybe not quite the same way as they put out..... Maybe it was take away? Maybe it was an old outing? Maybe they just pass by the public do many times and MM dreams of being able to eat their like normal people without being bothered by the plebs?

In any case, since this doesn't actually drive home a message,like the Cambridge's taking a commercial early morning flight, this story would be soon forgotten. It wouldn't do them much good or bad.
Girl with a Hat said…
Meghan to return to "acting"? LOL no comment.

https://www.express.co.uk/news/royal/1171155/Meghan-Markle-news-latest-Suits-baby-Prince-Harry-royal-today
Maybe she is planning to chronical the South Africa tour into documentary style movie/series. Claiming to document their charity work, highlighting the various charities while basically talking about how she and Harry are a godsent. She could also do a cooking segment on the rural cuisines of tribal Africa, with a continental twist, this to highlight a supposed charity that employs women who have invented new recipes to get over their hardships. (I know I'm being nasty here, but that's the sort of thing she does)

We have heard of the spposed Harry-Oprah-Apple documentary that's being made, maybe she will bring out a series of those, starring, directing, producing, screenwriting, editing, narrating, styling, catering, everythinging in said series. After all , acc to the above article " Harry thinks she is one of the finest actresses, and he would hate for her talent to go to waste." **Biggest eyelroll ever**
Hikari said…
The burning question is, which of the indigenous fruits/vegetables would be suitable for writing empowering messages on in Sharpie marker, and is insanely smart Megs going to learn Swahili for the purpose? There are hundreds of tribal dialects in Africa; to be safe, she'll have to learn them all. Expecting all the tribal women she meets to be able to read English is kinda racist. But no matter--St. Meghan will lay hands on them and everyone she touches will become instantly 'woke' and fluent in English, all the better to grasp the life wisdom she's imparting to them . . .because if there's anything St. Megsy has a surplus of, it's wisdom.
Dear Hikari,

You are assuming that the supposed movie will be a genuine documentary on Africa/tribal women/charities etc. Oh love! of course not. Have you learnt nothing g from the smartworks drama? This will be about Meghan's charity. Meghan's love for food. Meghan's approachability. Meghan's take on Africa. Meghan's spin on African recipes. Meghan's fashion advice to African tribal women. She will speak in American. And SHE will obviously dub over for the women. This movie is about Meghan using all her talents after all, so they don't go to waste.
KayeC said…
@Alice and Hikari,

She will also laugh and clap hysterically at anything that is said to her by anyone.
Hikari said…
Megs is an appallingly bad liar for being a pathological one. You'd think someone with so much practice at telling fibs would be better at it, and more creative.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/9809004/prince-harry-meghan-markle-roast-pub/#

Here's the menu for the Rose & Crown. Despite being in the country, the establishment caters to the wealthy Berkshire residents with gourmet versions of traditional pub food. There is NO typical 'roast dinner' (vague, this) or 'fish and chips' on this menu.

At or around the 15 pound price point this fictitious article insists they spent, there are: "Chicken spinach and mushroom wellington with mashed potatoes, cider-glazed vegetables and herb jus"; "Pork sirloin steak with apple-thyme salad, hand-cut chips and pepper corn sauce" and for Harry: "Cod fish cake with curried mussels sauce & parmesan mixed leaf salad."

She doesn't even do her most rudimentary homework. There's no typically English roast or chippie food here. This is an upscale gastropub. It looks darling. The owners deny vehemently that the Sussexes have ever darkened their doors. But a positive fallout of all MM's lies is some nice PR for the business. I'm guessing the R&C is not on Farkle's payroll because otherwise they would have gushed all about their visit and how calm Archie was throughout.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/9809004/prince-harry-meghan-markle-roast-pub/#
Hikari said…
One wonders WTH 'chicken spinach' is . . .
SwampWoman said…
This one thinks that she does not want to know what 'chicken spinach' is...
MaLissa said…
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MaLissa said…
Not crazy about chicken, I eat it sparingly, love spinach... but.. 'chicken spinach' I think I'll pass. I'll also pass on the cod fish cake with curried mussels as I'm allergic to shell fish. I'm up for the pork sirloin steak with apple-thyme salad, hand-cut chips and peppercorn sauce though :)
Anonymous said…
Given this is a Wellington, I'm going to give it my best ex-chef guess and say that it's a chicken breast on a bed of spinach and sauteed mushrooms, wrapped in puff pastry.
Girl with a Hat said…
isn't it pathetic that with civil discord in the UK and a major hurricane looming in the USA that sociopath Meghan still needs to push out stories to get attention? we got the stories about the speculation of her "being pregnant for the second time", and today about her and Harry being "King and Queen" in a rather distateful attempt to provoke the Queen. Has she no common sense?
Hikari said…
WW,
You make it sound delicious; I'd give it a try. Anything with 'pastry' in the title, and I'm there.

There's some kind of roast beef dish for two, at the 'bargain' price of 54.99, not including Harry's 'couple of pints". That's nearly US$70 for the entree alone, for lunch. I know the current exchange rate because I had to send a wire transfer to the UK last week and it's currently more than $1.26 to the pound. If H. and M. were attempting to illustrate how 'regular Joe' they are, having a roast Sunday lunch down at their local . . . I don't know of too many regular people who wouldn't flinch at a lunch tab of $75+ for two, unless it was an anniversary or special birthday. Also, Megs couldn't get her fibs straight because some sugar outlets report that they shared a roast; others say that Harry opted for fish & chips. All the major American and British magazines and tabloids are happily repeating whichever version of this story they got, verbatim, some adding the detail that between bites of roast beef and sips of water, Smegs cradled her infant son throughout the meal . . maybe she put the entire carry cot on her lap then, because an equal number of 'articles' say that Archie slept in a cot beside them for the entire meal.

I feel like we are all engaged in a global game of Punk'd, with Smegs as Ashton Kutcher. I see that I have been very very naive; prior to Smegs, I knew that tabloids would print anything as fact . . any given female celebrity was 'Pregnant with Twins!' one week and the next week would be on the brink of divorce with the incipient twins never mentioned . . .but until Smegs came down the pike, I felt that I could trust major, well-established mainstream media to be concerned about only reporting the facts which could be established. The pub has flat out denied they ever set foot in the place (Smegs doubles down by also printing--'They had been there before'--and still the Internet is awash with varying versions of how much Harry enjoyed his brewskis and red meat. Or fish and chips. Everybody's united on the fiction that Haz consumed two pints of beer while Virtue-Signalling and Pregnant with Baby #2!!! Earth momma sipped water and cradled the inert Fauxchie.

I see now how people are driven to insanity when they cannot trust their own experience of reality. If I wind up in a rubber room, Smegs put me there.
Hikari said…
Nope. How they ever let this madwoman in the door is beyond me. I mean, surely the Queen met Meghan at least once prior to giving her permission to the marriage? I don't believe Smegs is good at hiding herself. So did no one cotton on to the rats' nest hair, the wild eyes, the maniacal cackling and doubling over while reaching out to anyone within reach of The Claw as not boding well for the family? And if she is in fact sane, what value is there in looking so unhinged in the media? We hardly ever see *her* . . she hasn't been spotted since the Lion King debacle over 5 weeks ago. Just this unrelenting stream of toxic drivel pouring forth from her PR machine.

I do not count the dodgy private jet photos as an actual 'sighting' as such.
Girl with a Hat said…
Richard Palmer the royal correspondent for the Express which has tons of royal stories every day, tweeted that he called the pub and they verified that the terrible duo was there. Many people replied that they didn't believe him.
Hikari said…
Hmmm. Sounds like somebody got to the pub owner. A threat or a giant pay-off, or both? Sara Latham stays busy.
Hikari said…
The first reaction is usually the truth. The immediate answer, as confirmed by Yahoo News UK was "They were never here.' Now we're nearly a week out and there's been lots of time for inducements to change the story.
Lady Luvgood said…
Just a heads up, Ladies

Preach and Leech are headhunting their critics
Lady Luvgood said…
I love this group and am not going to stop exercising my free speech, and Leech doesn’t get it, she signed on for this.

Fergie, Diana and Kate have all been subjected to constant criticism in the press

Waity Katie, Duchess of Pork and BPD Diana, to name a few
Girl with a Hat said…
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Hikari said…
I have learned to avoid the Express as the "Fauxpress". Before Megs, I didn't even know the Express existed. Now I compare it to our US Weekly, which prints weekly fibs about who's pregnant with twins and who's getting divorced.
Unknown said…
Funny how you are so so silent about the whole Prince Andrew debacle ! Scum behavior way worse than MM and Harry !
Unknown said…
Btw, I am not a fan of Meghan at all, but I think people are focusing on them and letting discusting behavior win ! I'm sorry but paedophilia is way worse than a fame whore!
Girl with a Hat said…
I am sure that there are blogs to discuss Andrew's behaviour. This one is to discuss Meghan's. Secondly, every person is presumed innocent until proven guilty. As for Meghan, her conduct, as far as we can tell so far, is not criminal, just obnoxious. Discussions of supposed criminal behaviour is different and needs to be moderated because accusations can be considered libellous.

Can you little mind understand that?
Girl with a Hat said…
I should have said " Can your little mind understand that, Lainey Lee?"
Girl with a Hat said…
And I want to add that whatever horrid thing Andrew might have or might not have done, it doesn't make Meghan Markle any less obnoxious or greedy. Can you understand that as well? there is more than one horrible person on the planet at the same time, and their horribleness can vary.
Unknown said…
Lol ! Sorry Beatrice ! I didn't mean to offend you father ! 😂😂
Girl with a Hat said…
Lainey, isn't your Squawking Chicken mother calling to give you your birthday present of contact lens lotion?
Girl with a Hat said…
I wonder if Meghan got a message on a banana while she was whoring on those yachts. Is that where she got the idea for her banana messages?
abbyh said…
I like this blog (a lot). I like the posters and what they bring to the discussions.
And I would not want to see it shut down over something someone wrote which was illegal.

That kind of what I call restraint in commenting where there isn't this sense of I NEED TO TELL YOU WHAT I REALLY THINK OF YOU, snark, profanity, (any and everything is acceptable to write) is really welcome. I'd hate to see this blog become that.

thank you (I'll step off the soap box and go back to fixing dinner)
Lady Luvgood said…
No one that I can see is writing anything illegal, and if they did it surely is not the blogger’s fault

FFS Meggy is repugnant and as for the other, I am so sorry for all those young women, but this is not the place to discuss a pending criminal case
Girl with a Hat said…
Also, Meghan may be mixed up in the Epstein case in some way. LOL.
SwampWoman said…
It appears to me that Epstein would deliberately cultivate people that were the best at what they did, be it business, science, tech, or politics. It must have been immensely flattering for a self-made billionaire to invite a person to his parties and listen to him/her with respect. Were all of the people that associated with Epstein pedophiles (and by pedophile, I do mean an adult attracted to prepubescent children)? The majority were probably networking/schmoozing the other rich and powerful.
bootsy said…
I can assure you as a Brit that the occasional MM story is most certainly not distracting the public from the Epstein/Andrew debacle. It's a classic 'we all know you're dodgy and did dodgy things but can it be proved ' situation.

I can see a rather worrying way in which the Andrew story is being carefully framed though. All the stories reference the photo he had taken with the then 17 years old blonde girl and the fact that it is alleged he had sex with her on 3 different occasions. The narrative being pushed is that this one person and this (one?) occasion is all there is. So if this blonde girl turns out to be slightly unreliable then poof-it all is a terrible lie.

But we all know that he hung around Epstein a hell of a lot and would have certainly either witnessed or taken part in numerous other things. This case is following the same pattern as our other numerous paedophile scandals here in the UK. In the absence of firm proof, just say that you were totally unaware of what was happening, even if it pushes credibility to the limit, even though the only way to not know would have been to walk around blindfolded and with ear plugs. Andrew and all the other Establishment pedophiles could walk down a street with buildings on fire on all sides and their defence for not doing anything would be 'I had no idea that the buildings were on fire.' Maddening to see it unfold with the same sorts of denials as before.
Kat said…
As beautiful as this sounds, why do I feel as though this isn't what the two will be doing this year. I can 100% see William reaching out, but Harry seems so deep in MMs clutches. https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/a28877588/prince-william-prince-harry-honor-princess-diana-anniversary-of-her-death/
Anonymous said…
The more I think about the pub PR debacle, the more I am convinced that Ms. Markle is not concerned about how she plays to anyone but her 'base" (as we would say in American politics) . No one else matters in her world. She's "merched" the BRF almost as much as she can. They and Harry have been nothing more than a commodity to her. Much like all her ill-fitted clothes and shoes, they were something to use as another rung in the ladder of her rapacious social climbing. Having served their purpose, they can be discarded. She is banking on exiting with a gigantic payoff to join her true tribe, Hollywood. I see her spear-heading a new series called "The Divorced Wives of Hollywood." Having been quite active in the fandom scene at one point in my life, she is banking of her stans being unfailingly loyal to support whatever new endeavor she is promoting when she returns to L.A. New flash. This this type of social adoration is temporary. Some other shiny, younger(!) media figure will come along and beckon them, and they will leave her standing with her jewelry and nothing else. Unfortunately, her narcissism can't fathom or understand that this is how fandom worship operates, but that's not my problem. If we don't take into account these worshipping fans and how these are the only people she's marketing her self to, then these clumsy, REALLY clumsy PR gaffes, do not make sense. I've never thought she was particularly smart, but she's also not stupid. A simple visit to the pub's website would reveal that perhaps the only item on the menu that they could order for 15 pounds would be a dessert and another cup of coffee. It's not that expensive, but I would imagine that 15-pound/meal would be appropriate for a local fish and chip shop, which that pub is definitely not. So in the absence of any photographic evidence, the ridiculousness of bringing a cot into a pub, the menu (vegan, my ass), and all the other PR fails associated with this non-event make me realize that she has become the master of the non-event. Will she also be at Balmoral next week, but not? Frankly, because of all the spin, media surrounded the BRF has devolved into photo ops to determine what is real and what is not real (or sort of because she also seems to have exploited Photostop to the nth degree but like all of her other PR gaffes, it's not really GOOD manipulation of the original photos) because we can't trust ANY of what is now printed. I am convinced that is why we had that video of the Cambs on the tarmac. Note, not a picture but a video, which is harder for the stans and everyone else to dispute its veracity. And Meghan stans, please note. She NEVER denies these stories. She never comes out and says the Daily Mail or the Daily Express are wrong. We were not at the pub. We were having a night in, watching Coronation Street reruns. That she never calls out these PR nightmares (that are debunked within minutes of her team unveiling them) says to me that she is completely aware of what is being put out there and is, most likely, orchestrating ALL of it. Because the contradictions, lousy photo manips, those enormous or too small designers togs she wears do not MATTER. They are designed to appeal to her current base and then when that base is disillusioned (this inevitably happens in fandom), she will cultivate a new base. Her history is overflowing with hundreds of scenarios where she abandons either jobs, people, or even relatives when her goals are met. To me, these latest PR flubs are in service of the audience she currently needs. She's merched the BRF for all it was worth, and now it's getting close to cutting bait. I do suspect that she will try to unveil another pregnancy to eke out another year or so (announces another pending baby Sussex on the anniversary of Diana's death), but then she will do to Harry like she's done to ALL the other people in her life with the exception of, perhaps, Marcus Anderson: hasta la vista, baby. without a second glance back.
Girl with a Hat said…
I think you're on to something. There's something wrong with her fans, a special kind of autism that doesn't "get" the social niceties and national traditions that she eschews.

They cannot distinguish between social climbing and more serious allegations so they cannot understand the different treatment she gets as opposed to Andrew. One is gossip, and the other, well, we're not sure what that's going to turn out to be.

They don't understand social grace and human affection. For example, one of her biggest fans, Lainey Lee, wrote a book which was humiliating to her own mother, and thought of it as a joke. Is this person going to understand that creating tension with your sister-in-law isn't going to go down well in the family?

They don't understand what makes a person special and think that if you want something, people should give it to you. If they don't, it's because they are bullies/racists. So they don't get that we don't recognise her as the second incarnation of Diana, and it must be because we are all racist.

They are also the kind of people who don't care if a dress is beautifully fitted, just as long as it's expensive. That's what class is all about to them.

Anonymous said…
Within fandom there is a collective insanity among a set of fans that occurs that defies common sense. For example, many Sherlock BBC fans were convinced that John Watson and Sherlock Holmes would see the gay light and become lovers. Every single episode had "clues" that this was going to be the final trajectory. Martin Freeman's wife (his real-life partner), who was John Watson's wife in the show actually received death threats even though in the ACD books John Watson does, indeed, marry Mary. This crazy notion was fulfilling some sort of fantasy for them, and Meghan Markle is fulfilling some sort of fantasy of theirs that is not being met elsewhere. Sadly for them, she is exploiting that need for her own gain (and amusement, I'd wager).

It is difficult to determine how many there are because it's obvious so many of stans are actually bots that she's paid for, but obviously some of them are real people. The problem with this kind of devotion is that it doesn't take a whole lot of tweaking of the fantasy for that house of cards to tumble. Believe it or not, many fans deserted the Harry Potter fandom when it was obvious that Harry Potter was fated for Ginny Weasley as a partner. If you were somewhat conscious and had read the books, you would think this is a no brainer. But the fantasy trumps all. So when Meghan's plays the racist card against the BRF (as she's doing--that perhaps is the only subtle shade that she's able to pull off with any degree of success), then her fans will swallow this hook, line, and sinker, even if the rest of us hold her in contempt because she's a liar and a sociopath. Oh, not, it's because she's black that we hate her. Not. Being bi-racial didn't work for her in her acting days because to be a bi-racial actress in Hollywood might actually hinder your chances of success (unless you're someone like Halle Barry or Kerry Washington, who are flat-out gorgeous AND decent actors), which is why she consistently identified herself as Caucasian and populated her friends' groups with other Caucasians. Now, seeing herself as Diana 2.0, and ostracized from the BRF, all of a sudden she's identifying quite loudly as bi-racial. And I would imagine her stans are, by and large, women of color. In a very racist world, she got the golden ring (literally).

I can see how that would be attractive to many WOC because the barriers to success in western society are formidable Across all segments of society they are discriminated against. She's wearing a 100,000 pound dress. OMG. She's wearing a 800-pound pair of shoes. She's amassed tens of thousand of pounds worth of jewelry. That none of it might be real or it's borrowed finery doesn't really matter. She's made it and that is all that matters to them. She's had to fight and scrape (like many WOC) in a massively unfair world and she's won. They can identify with her. In their fantasy world, the other stuff doesn't matter.

The problem that I see for her when or if she returns to the U.S. is that this card will no longer be legitimate. All of her other cards didn't work. She's a mediocre actress and she's old (by Hollywood standards). All of her machinations that have played well in the British press are because she's IN Britain. She will need to come up with a new schtick, and that might keep her in the U.K. because I don't see her games working here. She needs the dynamic of trying to show up the Cambs, who are groomed to the nines ALWAYS, appearing at royal events looking like she just tumbled out of bed, etc. She won't have any foils if she returns home. I do hope the BRF expose her lies (especially about the baby, which I find heinous in the extreme) if for no other reason than to prove that such deep-seated manipulation of the media is evil and destructive.
KnitWit said…
I was thinking of MM when preparing for the hurricane. I am in Florida. There is an avacado tree outside that is just recovering from hurricane Irma a few years ago. They are just starting to ripen. I picked a few large ones by hand. Then got a ladder and got some more. I was wearing a Walmart T and shorts and a sweaty mess, but I can have avacado toast....or avacado on bread if the power goes out. Honestly, I would prefer that pub steak.
abbyh said…
Be safe KnitWit. I will be thinking of you in the next couple of days as things progress with the storm.
MaLissa said…
My parents are in Florida too and I just checked in on them. So far it looks like they're going to be bypassed by Hurricane Dorian (crossing fingers and toes). I hope you get bypassed too or I hope at least it won't be too bad for you. If it keeps coming up the coast, we'll get it in South Carolina but we're a bit inland so we'll be getting rain a lot. Stay safe KnitWit.
Ann Christensen said…
Diana is our much missed, dearly departed. Time to move on now?
Ashi1109 said…
Ooo Diana fanfic!! Ok so had Di been alive, she'd undoubtedly been either a global goddess with a cult of her own or a very miserable has been. For all her true love of her boys, she did routinely ditch them for 'me time' as a lot of posh moms do. William and Harry would definitely have struggled more with her scandals in the paper. She would have definitely had her own candidate for William's wife since that would be a future queen. I don't think she'd have ever allowed someone as controlling as Meghan into Harry's life. I'm actually quite sure she'd have liked and Harry would have taken a stand for Chelsea. I'm still hoping they get a go at their love story.

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