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Open post: The Megxit Summit

Today Queen Elizabeth, Prince Charles, Prince William and Prince Harry will meet at Sandringham to discuss the future relationship between the Royal Family and Harry, Meghan, and Archie.

Let's discuss here as developments emerge.

Comments

IEschew said…
I want to @ every single one of you with responses and questions, and grrr I still don’t have time! Why can’t we all make our livings sitting around on Nutty’s blog? Everyone here is a great analyst.

Reactions:

- I am confused about Lord Geidt. I know Charles wanted him gone a few years back, and I think that was a massively dumb mistake with PP leaving, but I thought he came back to BP at the Queen’s behest last year. What gives? Is he or isn’t he helping the BRF? I need to dig up that announcement—might’ve been around the time Sara Latham came on board (she is a giant question for another time).

- I am sad for Beatrice. Remember all that we were reading about her tears about her father’s situation before Christmas? Maybe it was harder on her because she saw writing on the wall or maybe the tears were something else, but the story was Edo was doing the church walk as support. Better to be done with him, Bea. What a rotten situation. Really sorry about that. ☹️

- If we are talking gut feelings and when we knew, I also time it to the engagement interview. I remember looking at my daughter and saying “wow, she’s a handful,” and both of us thought she wasn’t being honest. It was instantly clear, I’m sure to all of us, how self impressed she is and how cute she thought she was being with her “oh but I’m so excited” talking over Harry, and Harry just looked uncomfortable and dare I say embarrassed. I knew then that she was not going to mix well with William or Catherine unless I had totally done misunderstood them. Makes me sick to think about it and I don’t want to rewatch it.

- I love Prince Philip. Love him! I am aware that he hasn’t been the best husband, but he has been important in so many ways. YES he is the one who kept one eye on those boys during that dreadful funeral march, and I think he reached out to Diana in ways no one else could. Give me an irreverent man who looks/carries himself like that but writes those kind of thoughtful letters any day. Oh to be able to get an autobiography out of him! If he didn’t stick around to lay eyes on Harry yesterday, then Harry broke his heart. I hope he was actually there for that 2-hour window when Harry was at Sandringham early. I don’t wish that weight on Harry, horrible as he has been.

- I need time to dive deeper on the other stuff, including Doria because @Elle I see your argument. And yes to someone (sorry!), if we believe Meghan’s account of her “great” mom’s advice, she did train Meghan in transactional relationships. But who believes Meg about anything? Like I said yesterday, Doria would be my top pick to interview (because even at his age, I’d be a little speechless in front of Philip).

All pure speculation and thanks to anyone willing to read it.
ShadeeRrrowz said…
Nutties,

Daily Mail is starting to unleash on Meghan. I'm counting seven new articles in about the last hour and they are not positive.

Let's see how long it takes for the counter offensive from her PR to start.
Hikari said…
Punkin.

I think Liver Bird and I are OK now. She was correct to hold me to account for flinging around words like 'prison' when I was only repeating a general rumor. If general rumors were never allowed in discussion, our board would shut down pretty quickly, but accusing someone of being a convict is on a different level than repeating a rumor about demands for air fresheners or avocados. There are levels of rumor. Doria's past is not relevant, but from a psychological point of view, I wonder what went on in that house when Meg was growing up.

I would hope the journalistic standards for libel do not apply to blog comments. Otherwise, many of us here are screwed. I don't see how those would be enforceable. We know doxxing does work, some of the time. Skippy returned defiant as ever if she was ever shut down.

The huge drawback about becoming a public figure is that it becomes open season on every less than perfect decision you ever made at any point in your life, no matter how many years ago, and long before you entered public scrutiny. That's why Bill Clinton never inhaled, among others. But the scrutiny for public figures splashes onto their families, too, and then you, the celebrity/wannabe Duchess/politician becomes responsible for all *their* misdeeds too by extension.

Someone said it's present misdeeds that matter now, and I agree.

@tatty

>>>What ages was She when they lived with her? If it was from infant to 5 years old, then yes she would barely know them....<<<

Tom and Doria divorced when Meg was two. There is a 15+ year age gap between the siblings so they would have been teenagers when Meg was born and up to 2. Then she and her mom moved to their own place where I presume there was no contact with Tom's other kids much, if at all, or how much time she had with her dad. The period of Doria's absence started when Meg was a preteen, 12 to 17 years old. She attended junior and senior high while living with Tom. By this point, Sam and Tom Jr. would have been in their 20s to early 30s. I wouldn't expect them to have been daily visitors during this period, but we've got enough family snaps to show that they would have been around for various family celebrations--birthdays, Christmas . . some definitely have Christmas decorations in them; others look like regular family gatherings. I 'barely know' my Starbucks barista; I see her maybe 2-3 times a month for about a total of 15 minutes. Even so, we chat. I know she recently was promoted to store manager, has a young child and what her favorite drink is. Even if Meg only spent 5 years' worth of birthdays and holidays with her older siblings, her knowledge of them should be more than 'barely'.

It all comes down to her not wanting to acknowledge that she knew them pretty well, as her blood. Just the white blood, and not posh enough for the set she aspired to. By the time she'd known Jessica Mulroney for a year and a half, they were Best Friends.

There is a generational gap between Meg and her siblings, to be sure. But her claim that she didn't recognize her half-brother in a family photo when asked about him is really cold, wouldn't you say?
HappyDays said…
KC Martin said…
@happy Days

H.G. Tudor is up to part 10 with A Very Royal Narcissist (In a big fan too).

This week has certainly inspired him!

@KC Martin: Thanks for the heads-up. I haven’t even read part 9, so this will be double-bonus reading. Tudor dissects Meghan’s NPD like the rat that she is. Wait, my apologies to rats.
Ava C said…
The two most recent Harry Markle posts are great. The most recent one seems to derive comfort after the Sandringham summit announcement in the same way I am now doing. This is that H&M may have done better than we would like to think BUT it can all be changed at any time.

We have observed MM closely for ages now. We KNOW she can't stick to rules and agreements to save her life. It's only a matter of time before she offends the BRF massively on branding, is caught giving only tiny amounts to charity and is seen to be unacceptably touting for business in Lion King the Sequel.

Add to that the rising discontent of the taxed masses in North America, which will still reflect on the BRF while MM has any connection to them at all. I say MM, but of course Harry is still just as culpable. I do feel however that he still has a way back.

We just have to be patient. I know, I know ...
@LiverBird said,

"So you stated as a fact something you have no proof to be true at all?"

I solidly stand in support of @Hikarie precisely because she has more evidence about Doria than 90% of people have when they state Harry is taking drugs and Meghan is using Harry (or used a surrogate, etc...) or Archie is with his real parents, blah, blah blah,

In California with their extremely liberal judicial system. Doria could have had a felony expunged and therefore no record of it.
Yes, you can go to jail in CA for a misdemeanor. Sometimes, Google is your friend.

Legal Definition of a "Misdemeanor" in California Law. ... “Standard” California misdemeanors, punishable by up to 6 months in jail and/or a fine of up to $1,000; 1and. “Gross” or “aggravated” misdemeanors,” punishable by up to 364 days in jail and/or a fine of up to $1,000 or more.
Glow W said…
@hikari thanks, I really didn’t know her family situation and ages/years of where she lived with whom, other than doria was gone for a while.
@LiverBird

I stand in solid support of @Hikarie as 90% of what people write here they Do Not Have Proof of, such as Harry is taking drugs or Meghan used a surrogate or Archie is with his real parents, blah, blah blah, innuedo and speculation presented as facts over and over, almost every other post.

In California with their extremely liberal judicial system. Doria could have had a felony expunged and therefore no record of it.
Ava C said…
The rumours about Beatrice and Edo seem very precipitate. Apart from CDAN I can only find reports of entirely predictable undercurrents for any woman engaged to a man who already has a child and a continuing link to his child's mother. I've been there myself. You have to put the child first and the child needs his/her parents. Beatrice and her family have known Edo for years I gather. If it goes wrong then I'll be very sorry for her. In the meantime I'll stick with hoping all is still OK, but only if he IS the right man for her. I want her to be happy. She deserves a break.
lizzie said…
@KC said "Diana left more money on her will to Harry than to William, I believe.."

That's not true. Diana's Will was publicly disclosed and everything between the boys was equal. Her sister and mother were the executors and they went to court to change some of the terms of her Will. It was kind of slimy IMO..but they didn't change the 50/50 for the boys. Main slimy change affected Diana's many godchildren who were supposed to get non-jewelry personal property.

There WAS a story making the rounds that the Queen Mother left more to Harry for that reason. But that's kind of been discounted because she died with heavy debts some of which TQ had to pay.

I think it was discussed here that lots of the Harry stories of the past might have been fabrications from Harry's camp to make him look better...that he was left more money, that Diana thought he'd be a better king than William and she used to call him "Good King Harry"....
octobergirl said…
Mrs Mulroney's intervention was given as an example of Meghan using friends to influence what was written about her.

The duchess and her style guru are said to have been in touch after Kensington Palace was informed by the Mail on Sunday about its interview with Mrs Nelthorpe-Cowne, a former friend and adviser.

A Mail on Sunday journalist had notified the Palace about the contents of the story.

The paper's lawyers suggest Meghan then passed this message on to Mrs Mulroney 'with a request that she intervene to try to ensure that a more favourable article was published'.

Later that day – April 7, 2018 – Mrs Mulroney wrote to Mrs Nelthorpe-Cowne 'putting pressure on her to withdraw or change statements', it was claimed.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7887993/Meghan-Markles-closest-confidante-Jessica-Mulroney-tried-fix-press-article-Duchess.html

Jessica Mulroney is one of Meghan's flying monkeys. And I see Meghan's been having Jessica or some of her other flying monkeys talk to People magazine about the BRF being toxic. She's going to be smearing them all over the place through her proxies.
Ava C said…
You'll LOVE this article now in the Telegraph by Allison Pearson, so here it is (paywall):

PART 1

I don't know if you’ve seen it, but there is a video that Jeremy Vine shared on Twitter showing the Duke and Duchess of Sussex attending the premiere of The Lion King. When the Royal couple draw level with Bob Iger, the CEO of Disney, and his wife, this is the conversation that takes place:

Prince Harry: “You know she does voiceovers (gesturing at Meghan, who is ahead of him chatting to Beyonce)?”

Bob Iger: “Oh, really? Ah.”

Prince Harry: “You seem surprised… but, yeah, she’s really interested.”

Bob Iger: “Sure… we’d love to try.”

If Bob Iger seems “surprised”, as Harry noted – I’d say startled and embarrassed – that is nothing compared to the look of frank consternation on the face of Mrs Iger. Showbiz royalty like the Igers are used to being ambushed and asked for opportunities. They just don’t expect it to happen when they’re in a receiving line meeting the sixth in line to the throne.

It is mortifying to see Prince Harry pitching his wife as a voiceover artist while he’s on official duty. To me, he has the slightly desperate air of a man scrambling to make things right for a deeply unhappy woman. Why else would he abase himself in that manner?

That was back in 19 July. So we know that two months after Archie’s birth, the Sussexes were already looking to leverage their Royal status to secure high-profile work which they knew would never be approved by the Palace. And, lo!, as if by magic, prior to last week’s announcement that the couple would be stepping back from their Royal duties, the Duchess reportedly signed a deal with, yes, Disney. It is said to have a charitable purpose.

This excruciating, cashing-in scenario is exactly what the Queen, Prince Charles and Prince William will have been worried about. For Her Majesty, the Crown is a unifying, God-given force in the life of the nation. For her beloved grandson and his questing American wife, it is a hugely powerful “brand” that opens doors to people who would otherwise tell a former B-list actress to get lost.

I’m sure the Queen would be appalled to think of her family as a brand, even if she knew what one was. To Sussex Royal – am I the only one to find that name incredibly naff? – it is the lifeblood on which their future prosperity depends.

It is perfectly possible to adopt a relatively low-key life and escape the pressures of the Royal goldfish bowl. After William and Kate had baby George, they lived on Anglesey where Kate was spotted in a Breton Boden top doing her grocery shop in Waitrose. I suspect Harry would welcome that kind of anonymity. You can bet it is not the sort of non-Royal life Meghan has in mind.

In her statement yesterday, the Queen behaved towards the Duke and Duchess of Sussex with considerably more kindness and consideration than they had shown her. (A majority of the public think the Queen was treated shoddily by the couple, with 71 per cent saying they were wrong not to tell her in advance of their Instagram announcement.)
Ava C said…
PART 2

Mindful, perhaps, of Meghan’s history of ghosting key members of her family and friends and colleagues, I guess the Royals know they must tiptoe on eggshells lest an angry, ensnared Harry is either lost to them forever or spills the beans.

In a clearly rushed, almost panicky statement, the Queen mentioned “family” seven times and, most unusually, referred to Harry and Meghan by their names, not their titles. She said that she and her family were “entirely supportive” of the couple’s desire “to create a new life”, although they would have “preferred them to remain full-time working members of the Royal family”. She agreed to “a period of transition in which the Sussexes will spend time in Canada and the UK”.

Behind that careful, conciliatory tone lies a minefield of hurt, betrayal, mistrust, smarting egos and fear of further unpleasantness. Prince Charles, who dug deep into his own coffers to make the couple feel treasured and who sweetly walked Meghan down the aisle, must feel like he has been kicked in the teeth.

Prince Philip is “spitting mad” at the disrespect to his wife. Prince William is barely on speaking terms with a brother whose “character” he frets has changed. How devastated Diana would be to see her darling boys thus estranged.

The Duchess, who tactically left Archie behind in Canada when she and Harry returned briefly to the UK for their bombshell announcement, was not invited to join the Sandringham discussion by phone. No wonder when her PR man – the immortally named Kenny Sunshine – would doubtless have been listening in and taking notes to be used as soundbites in a threatened “tell-all” TV interview.

I think we can take it as read that the splitting their time between North America and the UK thing can be translated as Meghan will stay put on the other side of the Atlantic – perhaps turning up at Wimbledon if her friend Serena is playing – while Harry shuttles back and forth, trying to honour his duties to his regiments and charities while keeping his marriage on track.

It all seems so desperately sad when you look back on that perfectly happy day, May 19 2018, when the British people rejoiced as Harry Wales, after his mother the most adored Royal of the modern age, married his dazzling bride. I wrote at the time that Walt Disney himself could not have drawn a more perfect princess. Little did we know that, less than two years later, Meghan would have signed to do a voiceover for Disney.
Hikari said…
@Elle,

Cheating does suck, yes. Though in the interests of objective fairness to all, we have only rumor and speculation that Edo cheated on Bea with his ex. He probably did, but if we are going to respect Doria in relation to rumors, then he should get the same. We haven't had an 'official' statement that the wedding is off, have we? When it arrives, I'm certain it won't read "Princess Beatrice of York regrets to announce that she has called off her engagement to Edo Mapelli Mozzi due to discovery her fiance balling his baby mama.'

I've never had an engagement or a marriage or an ex or any of that messiness, but I can easily imagine how complicated feelings can be. Edo gave Bea an engagement ring, but he also quite recently gave another woman an engagement ring also, and that woman had his child. In my opinion, his feelings for Dara were not resolved. Splitting up right after they'd become new parents, she gone all the time, getting involved with Bea so soon after all that. Bea's claim on this man has always seemed tenuous at best, like he wasn't 100% emotionally available and she rushed into an engagement because she's over 30 and her little sister had just gotten happily married.

I want Beatrice to find happiness, but not if Edo would be choosing the wrong partner. If he still loves Dara, they should give it another go for the sake of their child. Dara could also be an agent provocateur who is trying some Meghan style love bombing tactics on the guy she bailed out on before, now suddenly more appealing because he was pledged to another woman.

I prescribe counseling for all. Messy.

Now, what's 'MM's bombshell lawsuit' all about? Another one???? Yoinks.

I really can't take many more bombshells. This is starting to feel like London during hte Blitz.
lizzie said…
Why do folks suppose 27-year old Meghan went to Samantha's graduation in 2008 if she "barely knew her?"

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/6033303/meghan-markle-sister-samantha-grant-royal-wedding-invites/
Ava C said…
PART 3

Fair enough, the majority of us now say, let the Sussexes have the life that they want. It’s cruel to keep them trapped in a gilded cage if it’s causing anxiety and even panic attacks.

By all means look after your mental health, and your beautiful baby boy, and fly away. But don’t expect to take our money with you, don’t profit from tax breaks you’re no longer entitled to, don’t count on the Rolls-Royce security offered by Royal protection officers, don’t embarrass our Queen and her successors, don’t think you can keep vacant Frogmore Cottage, tarted up the by taxpayer to the tune of £2.4 million, just so you can pretend you live there. Rent it out as other people have to do to make ends meet; you can always put it on HeirBnB.

Freedom, as you’re about to find out, does not come free of charge; it’s an expensive, hard, mucky, tarnished business.
And please, whatever you do, don’t claim that you were “driven out”, or that the British people were racist towards Meghan, because that is the most insulting, disingenuous, face-saving falsehood. North America may be shamefully short of mixed-race couples; a tolerant UK leads the world in them. We only ever wished you the best.

When Prince Harry makes the draw tomorrow for the 2021 Rugby League World Cup at Buckingham Palace, his first official engagement since the Sussexes announced their abdication from Royal duties, he won’t be booed. But feelings towards him have already cooled. Remember when just the sight of him used to make us smile? How much longer can the Rugby Football League rely on the services of their Patron? Nobody knows.

How long will the Royal Marines have their Captain General, a special role he inherited from his grandfather? Last July, the Duke failed to attend a memorial concert for the Royal Marines. Instead, he chose to be Meghan’s plus-one at that Lion King premiere where he touted for work for his wife. It was a sign his priorities and loyalties had shifted, away from merit to meretriciousness. The lads thought it was a poor show. The old Harry, who used to be be one of the lads, would have agreed.

I am trying not to think this, I really am, because it’s probably not fair, and the story is complicated, but if I sense that, imagine how the Queen must feel. All families have to absorb the quirks and ambitions of new members who, in turn, must adapt to their peculiar new relations. In this case, the accommodating seems to have been decidedly one-sided. The Duchess felt “it wasn’t working” for her.

All Granny can do is humour the tricky granddaughter-in-law, make her feel she’s got what she wanted, while keeping the indignant British taxpayer onboard. If they get the money side of the Sussex deal wrong, it will not only be utterly toxic, it could hasten the end of the monarchy.

Prince Harry is a huge loss to this country. Like losing Big Ben or Windermere. His wife doesn’t see to mind how many bridges they burn. The Royals must hope that, however volatile and estranged Harry may be right now, the dear boy will always feel that he can come home.

ENDS.

Certainly don't agree Harry is a huge loss though. He's got away with so much for years, he's lucky he remained popular for so long. He needs Edward Lane Fox back so he can work the miracles he used to perform as Harry's private secretary. After Meghan's gone of course.

Wanda said…
@KC Thanks so much for the Telegraph article! Not only is the lawsuit story very interesting but I also enjoyed this last bit

"Associated Newspaper goes further in its defence document, alleging that on another occasion in April 2018, the Duchess enlisted a ‘close friend of hers, Jessica Mulroney, to intervene” after another friend Gina Nelthorpe-Cowne, a former commercial adviser, had given an interview to the Mail on Sunday. After the interview - but before it was published - the newspaper approached Jason Knauf, the Duke of Sussex’s then communications secretary, notifying him of the interview’s contents."

"Associated newspapers, in its legal defence, then alleges that on the same day the Duchess contacted Ms Mulroney “to try to ensure that a more favourable article was published”. Ms Mulroney, the newspaper alleges, wrote to Ms Nelthorpe-Cowne requesting she withdraw or change the statements she had given."

Markle is unbelievable - as usual! So when her ghosted ex friend / PR agent Gina wrote her original articles, MM orchestrated the removal of some of the information. I remember that two 2018 articles from Gina Nelthorpe-Cowne about Meghan Markle came out in the DM in quick succession, and recall wondering why they published 2 so close together. Now I'm thinking they printed the second one with the additional info that MM had excluded from the first one.
KC said…
Did someone already post this? AGC Blind Items for January 2020 (cant get Enty's site through the link, Nutty has said his royal sources aren't that great though).

144. ENTERTAINMENT LAWYER 01/12 **7**
The PR team for the alliterate royal thought they were doing her a favor by saying it was her loving husband that helped her get an acting part. Apparently though, she was ticked off because it made it seem as if her acting isn't good and her husband had to call in favors or use his position to get her a role. [Meghan Markle/Prince Harry (Prince Harry Heard Asking Disney CEO About Getting Meghan Markle Voiceover Work in Resurfaced Video)]

Maybe why the vid seems to be disappearing.
Ava C said…
Mind you (re: 3-part Telegraph article above), I'm surprised Allison Pearson made the mistake of saying William and Kate lived in Anglesey after George was born. We all followed it in real time. Surely that was their newlywed phase only.
none said…
I appreciate the free flow of speculative information here and think of it as crowdsourcing. There is so much misinformation and outright fabrication everywhere now. But the truth still matters and we should keep researching and discussing to find it. Please posters do not feel the need to self censor.
KC said…
Blogger lizzie said...
@KC said "Diana left more money on her will to Harry than to William, I believe.."

Thanks for clarifying this, lizzie!
Hikari said…
IEschew,

Re. Lord G.

>>I am confused about Lord Geidt. I know Charles wanted him gone a few years back, and I think that was a massively dumb mistake with PP leaving, but I thought he came back to BP at the Queen’s behest last year. What gives? Is he or isn’t he helping the BRF?<<<

It is very confusing, innit? I too had been under the impression that he had been brought back in the capacity as Queen's private secretary, but he was appointed as to a post with the Commonwealth Trust to oversee the new 'Youth Ambassors' scheme which the Queen had made Harry and Meghan President and Vice President of.

Running this through the Liz-olator:

"We are giving our grandson and his new wife this very impressive sounding sinecure because We had to give them something to be seen to be doing, but We are looking to you, Lord G., to actually run it and be Our eyes and ears.'

In short: Lord G.'s callback was baby sitting detail for Megs and Harry, but to my knowledge, apart from the one reception where we see him giving Meg his Handshake of Doom, while she was 'pregnant', the Harkles did sod all as Youth Ambassadors for the Commonwealth. Lord G.'s oversight was limited in this capacity. As Private Sec'y to the monarch, he would have wielded power in BP second only to HM. The Sec'y is the queen's mouthpiece and majordomo . . similar to Chief of Staff for the American president. He's the gatekeeper as to who gets audiences with HM and lesser mortals might see him only, and not the Queen. He might have pissed off Charles and Andrew by being too good a watchdog and not letting them in to see her . .?

Anyway, Lord G. sounded like a formidable figure who ran a tighter ship at the Palace than his successor, Sir Edward Young, poor sod, who might be feeling as beleaguered as Neville Chamberlain right about now.
Wanda said…
@Hikari - Thomas DID see a lot of Meghan after the divorce and prior to Doria taking off to "where ever" she disappeared to for several years. As a matter of fact I believe she still stayed / lived with him during the week because his home was closer to her school. He took her to school in the morning.
There are plenty of pictures on the internet of Thomas and Meghan during the ages of 2 - pre-teen when she supposedly lived with Doria and before he had official custody. I believe Thomas supplied the roof over her head one way or another, through-out most of her childhood. There are way more pics of Thomas and MM together than there are Doria and MM.
octobergirl said…
New Blind Gossip:

Stockholm Boy


[Blind Gossip] Many people have been wondering why this family has not been more brutal and decisive in cutting out its rogue members.

Fortunately, we have some insight from an insider!

The family is thinking about the long-term implications. While they are furious – not just upset, but furious – about what is happening, they do believe there will come a time in which he will return to them.

What time is that?

They believe there will be a divorce within five years.

So, what is their strategy?

They must allow him to go but keep in contact and leave the door open for him to return. If they close the door on him, he might feel obligated to stay in the marriage longer because there would be no where else for him to go.

What about his wife?

The most frequent word I hear used to describe her internally is “duplicitous.” They know that from the beginning she has said or done whatever she needed to do to capture him, all while planning to do the exact opposite after marriage. They call it a “long con.”

If they knew this, why didn’t they warn him?

They did so repeatedly! Any warnings from the family were summarily dismissed by him.

This is a powerful family. Can’t they take her down?

Despite the conspiracy theories, his family will not “take her out” or publicly “take her down.”

They have dual objectives: To get him to return to the family, and to protect the family. To do both requires great restraint on their part.

For example, they know that they can not criticize her openly. Criticizing her would only result in his defense of her and in her positioning herself as the victim or martyr. Unfortunately, she has conditioned him to see her as his only ally and his family as the enemy.

So, does this mean that his family will work with her?

Only insomuch as to facilitate his return. That is a primary objective.

That wording almost makes him sound like a hostage.

In many respects, he is an emotional hostage who is siding with his captor. He is not locked up in a room, but he is emotionally tied to her. She is in charge and he will not work against her.

That sounds like Stockholm Syndrome. Can’t his family pay her a “ransom” to get him back?

Right now, she is confident that she can make much more money with him than by giving him up. That is what makes this situation so unusual.

https://blindgossip.com/stockholm-boy/#more-99944
Hikari said…
@Bluebell,

That's true. I've only seen a few with Doria from infancy and young girlhood.
Anonymous said…
@Trudy Blue, yes, all that info that will slip out leading up to and during... it's going to be great. I'm sure it was part of the motivation for Rach & H to hurry it along. But so many things are in play.

I keep thinking about Archie, not mentioned during any of this. Will Archie still be in the line of succession? How about H? Is Archie's DNA part of the issue?
What was the fight about the night before the polo match? That was a couple of days before Wimbledon, and yet, Kate still went with that wretch because Kate's so mean (just let Rach try that one).
Why are Rach's friends worse than silent, they're distancing themselves? What would make Alexis Ohanian would make such a public statement? ("You will start to wonder if it'll ever catch up with them, but I've convinced myself that in the long-term, it's just not sustainable for them. Eventually enough people will see them for who they really are--charlatans.") Just so many things, and yet, that shameless fraud is out getting papped today and smiling about it. I do not see this going well for her. And I'm gleeful when I think of it because she's told so many lies, conned the world, and destroyed a family.
Animal Lover said…
@ Ava,

Thanks for that. H&M are already spinning the story the RF was toxic and not supportive of Meghan when racist articles were published in the British press.

AS an American who's read the DM for several years , I've found them to brutal at times, e.g. a sweaty Andrew in a disco dance floor, but don't recall racist articles about M. The headline about straight out Compton was stupid and attention grabbing though.
@holly said…
""I appreciate the free flow of speculative information here and think of it as crowdsourcing. There is so much misinformation and outright fabrication everywhere now. But the truth still matters and we should keep researching and discussing to find it. Please posters do not feel the need to self censor.""

Most everybody here wants to speculate without any shred of facts. That is just the way it is here (and probably any blog). Then don't get holier-than-thou when one person does it and you are guilty of the same thing (usually over and over). Look at your own actions before you fault someone else.

It seems like certain people want to be the blog police here and are hypocrites when they don't realize we can see they do the same thing. And lets be honest, many seem afraid to complain about the 'blog police' here as they are so strong in their personality and bulldoze their views on us. (Note: not saying you btw 'Liverbird').

Yeah we should self'censor on the matter if we are trying to criticise or shame someone on the very thing we do ourselves.

Go ahead and speculate but 'live and let live' to posters, all posters (not just the biggie bloger personalities.
@holly

Didn't mean you were the blog police either @holly. I think you meant well.
KCM1212 said…
I feel that the availability of Harry (and it will only be Harry going forward) for choice engagements will come to a screeching end the first time he steps into a venue and is soundly jeered/ booed.

Thus the part time fiction will be very short lived.

It could even happen at this rugby engagement this week.

Taking it off the table can only serve to simplify the negotiations, expose the Sussex dishonesty, and may illustrate to Harry that Meghan only agreed to the part time fiction as a sop to Harry's guilt over his betrayal of his family, his duty, his country, and his oaths.
Hikari said…
@KC

He should be sent to review the Royal Marines. They would just love to have him back, I'm sure.
Wanda said…
WOW! That Blind! If true it answers a lot of questions. It almost feels as if the RF leaked that info so we would understand what they are doing. However, I have read elsewhere that the divorce is already in the works. Which piece of gossip is true remains to be seen.
And what about the secrets of fauxchie the ever changing child? If he is indeed faux, that fact should be outed asap even if they are dealing with a neurotic prince and his psychotic wife.
Anonymous said…
Re CA expungement:

Who is eligible to have a conviction expunged?

Expungement is available to defendants convicted of either California misdemeanors or felonies provided that:

The defendant has successfully completed probation for the offense, and

The defendant either:

Did not serve time in state prison for the offense,

or

Served time in state prison, but would have served it in county jail had the crime been committed after implementation of "Realignment" under Proposition 47.1 (those that could have been charged as felonies or misdemeanors - mainly some theft and drug stuff, and there are limits on those, too.)

SO, not all crimes, not all felonies, fraud isn't on the list, and the expungement must fit into the categories above.
KCM1212 said…
@Hikari

Yes!!

He would never dare, though Megsy would.
Portcitygirl said…
DM has a pic of MM for first time boarding
a plane to somewhere in Canada.
Also, apparently the lawsuit with her Dad has hit the docket as well. Comments in dm are mainly unfavorable to and Harry.
Anonymous said…
@Hikari, I agree that he's only a cheating liar if he did cheat lol. As for the reasons for it, he's an adult. I know complicated relationships, and I'm hardly going to be the next Saint Elle, but he's an adult, and a father, and if he cheated, there are no circumstances under which I would consider it acceptable. Understandable from an objective standpoint? Yes. Acceptable or excusable? Never. But I'm pretty hardline on it that because I have learned the hard way that cheaters cheat and liars lie and there's even a song about it lol, so it must be true :) (Do you know that one, @Swampwoman?)
Wanda said…
Elle / Hikari - there is much to keep up on tonight - perhaps this is a small release of the Kraken at least!
Did you see the blind yet?
KC said…
Blogger Animal Lover said...
@ Ava,
Thanks for that. H&M are already spinning the story the RF was toxic and not supportive of Meghan when racist articles were published in the British press.

I am recalling the trip to Chelsea where Meg *accompanied* the QUEEN, which is pretty much HMTQ proclaiming her One of Us. Americans call it "wrapping [her] in the flag." We love our flag. (I almost said wrapping MM in the Royal Standard, not the same, it might not have gone over well).

I guess it was a test too, of sorts, and MM didnt do so well on it.
abbyh said…

Questions about proof ... (of anything)

Think about how long legally people and businesses are required to hold onto their paperwork.

Bank statements that she paid for all of her schooling.

unlikely to be out there unless she felt a need to keep it to prove something (if only to herself that she did this). why? bank records only need to be kept for a certain number of years (7 believe) and she has long passed that. That time period was when they may have actually returned cancelled checks or beginning to have it scanned depending on the bank. Her father, in his move to Mexico to lighten his financial load, probably didn't bring them with him either if he was the one who paid for it.

What about the banks? meh that kind of thing may or may not still be around because if they legally don't have to keep it as a record, why should they? One's only hope is micro fiche. Alas, so probably not. It might be in a box some where but where and is it still around and can it really be found is a crap shoot.

Phones: this is much more recent and therefore more likely to be available on a statement. Can statements be forged? yes with photoshop, many things are possible but the court can request some sort of documentation from the source (phone provider) to clarify what is and isn't a real statement.

Would some side be crazy and create something? well? well? not telling the truth to your lawyer is so not a good idea. Ever.

It could also require people to know to take snaps of their calls and texts perhaps keep the texts) to help document that they did, indeed, do what they are claiming they did.

Computers

tee hee hee. To allow a deep dive, is to allow access to not just what you want, but what you would not want seen associated with you on the front page of the paper, above the fold.

Pivot: DM article that Harry was always part of the slimmed down monarchy
The comments are brutal.
@Elle Reine des Abeilles

Thank you for confirming what I said was correct. I did not say All felonies could be expunged but some can. If Doria had a felony that could be expunged then she might have had it done Especially IF she wanted to get licensed as a Social Worker. I rest my case.
Seannac said…
@hushhush I wonder if the writer of the Nantes article has ever been to New Brunswick? The Sussexes don’t speak French!
Mimi said…
Does Doria go by only ONE name. I read somewhere that she has used MANY names wherever she has lived. All speculation of course and I hope I am not breaking any laws by asking and making the comment.
punkinseed said…
Elle and Hikari... Alloutte comes to mind! LOL. Kinda blends with "Liar Liar Pants on fire..." cuz, little matches.
Wanda said…
@abbyh - Believe or not - for whatever reason, Thomas kept the receipts for his payment of Meghan's college tuition. It was mentioned that he did so in a DM article. Samantha also tweeted that he had the receipts when Markle falsely claimed in a speech in Australia, that she had paid her own way through college by working part time.
Anonymous said…
@Hikari: Where did you get the Liz-olator? I need one of those lol. Yours worked quite well, however. It's exactly how I'd have translated it.


IEschew re: Lord Geidt, it looks like someone answered that, but here are some interesting photos of the Lord G putting the fear of a very powerful deity into Rach, in case you need to practice your evil laugh lol:

https://www.google.com/search?sxsrf=ACYBGNTkZ-gBo3QpSyqvU4l6Wy1Pdw96ow:1579050814486&q=lord+geidt+meghan+markle&tbm=isch&source=univ&client=firefox-b-d&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj9vYTXtoTnAhWBoFsKHYVtAgkQsAR6BAgKEAE&biw=1280&bih=681

and ditto: re Philip. All of it.

I need time to dive deeper on the other stuff, including Doria because @Elle I see your argument. Good :) I'm really not a heartless unforgiving person lol. A lot of people screw up, and I believe in doing the time and getting another chance, usually, depending on the crime, of course. Even though the WC is considered to be the hell where all liberals live without the rule of law lol, we actually have a location in WA where repeat the most dangerous sex offenders are kept even after they've done their time and this is arguably in clear violation of their civil rights. I don't hear anyone crying too loudly about it, however. In other situations, crimes of moral turpitude can come back to haunt, even if the time has been done, and that is not always the case. Details regarding prior bad acts and previous criminal history are not always allowed. So, that's my long way of saying that I'll look forward to hearing about what you find. Eventually, the snow is going to melt here and I won't be on an ice slab, so i'll have to go back to work, and may not get to it soon :(

And @Ava C

"...the tricky granddaughter-in-law well, now that's something I wouldn't have expected to see in print a month ago lol

But too true about the money, and I believe the last bit about Harry is key for many reasons.
abbyh said…

Proof by Thomas

Cool.
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Glow W said…
Re: college expenses

Tuition
Fees (these days are more than tuition)
Dorm
Textbooks
Meal plan if live on campus
Individual class fees like lab fees

Etc.


punkinseed said…
Mimi, haaa haaa. No. We have a First Amendment in the US so I think you're fine. Don't feel you have to censor yourself. Most of us have sense enough to know by default that what commenters say on here is just opinions and speculation so no worries.
Anonymous said…
That should say: the most dangerous repeat sex offenders Also, it's McNeil Island in case anyone is interested.
Mimi said…
punkinseed, whew! it’s getting so you’re afraid of commenting on here for fear the “comment police”👮‍♀️ will come after you.
Anonymous said…
@Mimi, I'll second @Punkinseed and say "don't worry about it" lol. You can have n opinion and the defamation laws in the US are pretty liberal. There are some links on the last post about the differences in UK v US laws if you want to review them in terms of this cluster.
HappyDays said…
Hi All,
Interesting BlInd Gossip Post from Today

Two things: 1- I saw a post on this thread saying the past Harkle reveals were gone from this site. Looks like they are back up.

2- There’s a new post today that’s an interesting interview with a palace insider. From the quotes, it sounds like the RF has had Meghan super sussed from the start of this mess.

See below. Insider replies are in quotes.

Blind Gossip January 14, 2020
Stockholm Boy

Many people have been wondering why this family has not been more brutal and decisive in cutting out its rogue members.

Fortunately, we have some insight from an insider!

“The family is thinking about the long-term implications. While they are furious – not just upset, but furious – about what is happening, they do believe there will come a time in which he will return to them.”

What time is that?

“They believe there will be a divorce within five years.”

So, what is their strategy?

“They must allow him to go but keep in contact and leave the door open for him to return. If they close the door on him, he might feel obligated to stay in the marriage longer because there would be no where else for him to go.”

What about his wife?

“The most frequent word I hear used to describe her internally is “duplicitous.” They know that from the beginning she has said or done whatever she needed to do to capture him, all while planning to do the exact opposite after marriage. They call it a “long con.””

If they knew this, why didn’t they warn him?

“They did so repeatedly! Any warnings from the family were summarily dismissed by him.”

This is a powerful family. Can’t they take her down?

“Despite the conspiracy theories, his family will not “take her out” or publicly “take her down.”

“They have dual objectives: To get him to return to the family, and to protect the family. To do both requires great restraint on their part.”

“For example, they know that they can not criticize her openly.“

“Criticizing her would only result in his defense of her and in her positioning herself as the victim or martyr.”

“Unfortunately, she has conditioned him to see her as his only ally and his family as the enemy.”

So, does this mean that his family will work with her?

“Only insomuch as to facilitate his return. That is a primary objective.”

That wording almost makes him sound like a hostage.

“In many respects, he is an emotional hostage who is siding with his captor. He is not locked up in a room, but he is emotionally tied to her. She is in charge and he will not work against her.”

That sounds like Stockholm Syndrome. Can’t his family pay her a “ransom” to get him back?

“Right now, she is confident that she can make much more money with him than by giving him up. That is what makes this situation so unusual.”

It certainly will be interesting to see how this all plays out!
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Mimi said…
Elle, don’t kid around like that!!!!!!!! You scared me!!!😳 (jk)
Wanda said…
abbyh said...
Proof by Thomas
Cool.

*******
AND Thomas is working on the DAILY MAIL's SIDE in the lawsuit!! I'm so proud of him!! That is major evidence IMO of MM's soulless character. It's very sad but I guess it's better for him to accept the situation.
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punkinseed said…
abbyh, Tom Markle's bankruptcy docs would show how much he paid for Meg's tuition and all that documentation along with receipts, etc. would be on that and filed in the Bankruptcy court.
She didn't do student loans. She didn't pay for her college. Her dad paid for all of it plus.
Did Megs pay him back? No.
I just read that Megs paid for her mom's tuition to get her license to be a social worker. However, her mom got a degree from some place but the article states it hasn't found from what college, so that is a mystery. My guess is Doria got her college degree in prison. Yes, for those who don't know, you can get all sorts of college degrees in prison and tuition is free or close to free. Can't get college in jail, but can in prison. And in most places, if one is sentenced to more than 365 day sentence, person has to be put in prison, not jail. Lots of criminals are super happy to get prison time rather than jail because they can get college degrees there, while if one is stuck in jail, nothing, zero, not even a GED program in most jails. Stupid I know, but true.
@Mimi

The Nutty Flavor blog police are to be feared if your comment isn't up to their standards, you disagree with them or you go up against them. Of course, a number of people have got 'doxxed' by what they wrote online. I for one am respectful and careful; which is why I don't speculate unless it is strictly something that the law allows as an opinion'.
Mimi said…
oh crap! I forgot the “OT” police👮‍♀️
punkinseed said…
sorry I can't remember what article. I think it was linked by one of the commenters on Celt News or Murky Meg.
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Mimi said…
Anonymous, this blog is not fun anymore and is why I have left about a dozen times now!!!!!!!
Ozmanda said…
So it is lunchtime and me being the sad individual I am I run to read up on the blog :)

@Hikari - I am ashamed to admit I never usually have a automatic reaction about a person - I think it is largely due to my line of work but I am usually the one sitting back and observing and forming my opinion based on what I see later on. I am not a very fun person to have around:)

@Elle Blogger Elle, Reine des Abeilles said...
@Ozmanda, I totally agree and get it. My analogy is different, but the same, and you are the expert, so I wanted to get your answer :) It's why some of us were never sold on Rach - pings going off everywhere, from the engagement photo and that absurd wave to the pap walks with the poverty bags (GMAFB - the Tig, hello, nothing about poverty or her great works in the world), the looks she gave Kate at the Fab Four mtgs -- it was all there. Sometimes, I feel like I'm watching a totally different "movie" than the others in the room, but often, it's because my intuition is pinging while they're listening to the facts only.

___________________________________________________________________

@Elle - I am ion touch with that emotion, I usually feel like the outcast because I am always analyzing, always observing and take in EVERYTHING to the point it becomes overwhelming. This is why I am introverted and really need alone time. I always want to know the answers to the small details - which can drive people a little crazy:)

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punkinseed said…
Anonymous and Mimi:
ha haaa! Nutty would not really allow Blog Cops. She just wants everyone to be nice and respectful and try to stay on topic. Kinda like herding cats but actually we do pretty good most of the time.
The Nutty Flavor Blog Police determines what is OI or not depending on their mood or interest, lol.
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Mimi said…
Hi BlueBellWoods aka Trudy. 🤗I have been reading what has been going on and I am sickened by it. I mean the squabbling. It really bothers me that the some posters love to rile people up and argue until they think they have won the stupid argument.
punkinseed said…
Elle, I agree. Much better to get an accounting degree which also adds self esteem than get out with nothing but the pimp biker or gang banger boyfriend to return to.
That seems to be what @LiverBird and @Elle are implying...no proof.
Wanda said…
Elle please read the blind I'm waiting for your reaction!

Mimi / punkin / anonymous / hikari / abbyh / anyone else here / DID YOU SEE IT? :-)
Mimi said…
For those of us who have been around for a while, remember the subject of Doria came up a while ago and for whatever reason people went ballistic over defending her. I read that she was in prison for about 10 year for WELFARE fraud. She met her very long term partner while incarcerated and they are still together. Someone who did intensive research was able to find all the aliases she has used and showed proof that she forged her brothers signature in order to get her fathers house. SO THERE! Now go ahead and cuff me!
Anonymous said…
@Ozmanda-<I usually feel like the outcast because I am always analyzing, always observing and take in EVERYTHING to the point it becomes overwhelming....I always want to know the answers to the small details - which can drive people a little crazy:)

I know! Exactly! And then, if I offer up my thoughts, esp at the beginning, I'm going to get all sorts of "but they said" BS back, and I'm very clear on what they didn't say, eye contact, gestures, incongruencies, perfect stories that sound rehearsed, too many details, etc. Of course, I also sound heartless because I call 'fake' and 'lie' faster, too. But in the end, I just make everyone say "Elle, you were right!" three times and I forgive them lol.
Mimi said…
BlueBellWoods, what blind? where?
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punkinseed said…
Blue Bell, LOL ok. Alleged jail bird. I also read she might have been in a cult or Ashram for awhile. Notice nobody from any commune or job or other has ever popped up to say, ya, we were in a commune together in 1985...I guess now we'll be seeing a biography about her come out.
When I read "commune" I thought, how the hell long would she have lasted in one of those communes if she's only out for herself and what others will do for her? And, if she taught her kid that if someone doesn't do things for her to not bother being friends with them. Explains a lot about how she learned to ghost people. I can't remember the exact quote but Thomas Markle said Doria taught Megs to only make friends with people who are willing to do what she wants. Well how can anyone do a single thing Meg wants because she's such an over the top harridan, demanding, my way is the only way that's right type of person? Explains why she hasn't ghosted Five Friend Mulrooney though, (yet). Gotta have someone do your nasty press releases about your dad.
Ava C said…
@octobergirl - thanks for that! Totally makes sense. The most illuminating explanation I've seen so far and one that makes me feel far more charitable towards the royal family. If it was my family, and my brother, I would perhaps be doing the same thing.

Although I find it very difficult to forgive Harry everything even if he is Meghan's psychological hostage. Which I think he is. His treatment of his grandparents, his brother, his sister-in-law who had truly made him one of HER 'young family', his nephews and niece who will have to get into royal mode sooner in their lives because of him, his country he is labelling racist ... his iniquities go on and on.

Fundamentally however, it is for the royal family in the private sphere to forgive him. But only if he is truly no longer part of the royal family in the public sphere. This is what we don't yet know for sure. While the public is kept hanging the anger will keep building.
Mimi said…
BlueBellWoods, yes, it’s been this way for a while and like you, I get knots in my stomache. What blind? where?
Wanda said…
Mimi and others - the blind has been posted here in its entirety at time stamp 2:29.....:-)
Mimi said…
BlueBellWoods, read it but am not going to comment because I am sooooo angry that they accepted their demands and threats, considered them and came back with giving in to them!!!!! They can word it however they want but the truth is they gave in to them and that truly pisses me off! What the hell kind of Monarchy does this? It’s no longer a monarchy when idiot family members can do sooooooo much damage without being held accountable.
The Cat's Meow said…
I read the blind (transcribed above) and it makes a lot of sense.

However, what is not fun for us observers, is that therefore the RF will continue to play it slow, and essentially wait her out. She will eventually crash...or, as someone said earlier, they are "helping" devalue the Sussex name so that it isn't worth that much at the end of their "transition" period.

Harry is a total mess....whether it is enough to officially be Stokholm-like, who knows. I doubt he will ever turn into a fully-functioning, individuated adult.
punkinseed said…
Good work Mimi! Thank you. I was writing so I missed your comment about the Doria alleged case. That's the gist of what I read as well. It's been awhile. It's quite common for incarcerated women to become bi when locked up, who were not before. Notice we've never seen Doria's partner? I feel kind of sorry for the collateral people in this. Kind of sad that all this duchess sussex stuff has destroyed so many people's day to day privacy.
Wanda said…
Punkin I was just joshin' you about not being allowed to call her that - since poor Hikari was given a hard time earlier when she was discussing it. It is a mystery as to where she was during that time. I too remember some kind of grifter-mommy comment - about only befriending people you can get something from??? or something like that. Old Doria's parenting methods sure did produce a winner. lol
Glow W said…
This is where she went today on the seaplane

https://mobile.twitter.com/chrisshipitv/status/1217270086085619713

Ava C said…
Worth scrolling down ladygreyhound93

https://ladygreyhound93.tumblr.com

to see

1) Slowed-down loop of the time Archie met Archbishop Tutu. Harry is holding Archie tightly to his chest in that awful way we're familiar with, and Meghan goes up to them both and noticeably pauses, hesitating, before touching Archie. Just, as it says, as if it was the first time. As if he was someone else's baby and she wasn't sure if she had permission. Or as if he was an unexploded bomb.

2) Slowed-down loop from the engagement interview. She's smiling away, then watch her face when Harry says he'd never heard of her before i.e. before their blind date (if you can have a blind date with a British prince). Smile vanishes, face tightens and jaw turns to granite. Just a little peek of what we saw more clearly at the Inskip wedding.
Glow W said…
downtown eastside women’s center on Facebook

“Look who we had tea with today! The Duchess of Sussex, Meghan Markle, visited us today to discuss issues affecting women in the community. 💜”
abbyh said…

Blind: Sadly it has the look of real.

It's kind of like when people call police/lawyers about a family member in a cult, has mental illness (think not dealing with reality/homeless) or married to someone who is keeping the family member away from the rest of the family.

The person is an adult and can legally not have anything to do with their family if they don't want contact.

The family, like the family in the blind, doesn't have a lot of options except to wait and not drive them further into the arms of the spouse. And hope the person survives the separation if drugs are part of the mix.


In the case of M, one cannot say that any or all articles which are negative to M are from the family because she has managed to piss off a lot of the press. And just because the press has not retaliated doesn't mean they won't later. Never get into an argument or start a war with someone who buys ink by the barrel means that the family doesn't need to do anything actually at all. She did it to herself.

And that, my friend, is living well as the best revenge.
CatEyes said…
@Bluebell Woods

Late to the party but read the Blind and I can see the sensibility and reasoning why the BRF would do what they have done.
And I also read the same things regarding Doria. Maybe the press didn't want to say anything because up to this point, Megs was in their fold. Who knows if they would write anything now since there seem to be far bigger things to discuss at present.
I sure hope poor Bea hasn't been burned by Edo, she deserves a good loyal man.
Mimi said…
I have nothing against the York girls besides the way they dress. I will feel sooooooooo bad for her “if” what is being reported about Edo is true. That will be so humiliating and devastating for Bea. I don’t know her personally but from what I have read about her, she is a very decent person.
Wanda said…
Hi CatEyes,
Yes there has been much released all of a sudden. The blind sounds true and although I think it will be frustraing waiting it out and I hope they don't spend too much moneu on her in the meantime.
I too feel bad about Bea - they have known each other for so long I'm surprised at him if it is true.
I agree the Doria trail is less intersting right now with all the Markle stuff coming out. Did you see the story on the last page about Meghan's law suit against the Daily Mail for printing the letter she wrote to Thomas? The DM finally gave their response. You will like that one!
BlueBell
CatEyes said…
Meghan probably went to the Eastside Center to garner some good PR as she knows she needs it big time!!! I bet she will try to work harder on these endeavors far more than when she was working for the Queen as she knows her future depends on turning around her poor image. Maybe Harry could have even encouraged her to do it, knowing begrudgingly she suffers from a poor public persona. Whatever the reason, it's about time she put some effort into charity work on her own.
Anonymous said…
Trudy Blue, I'm assuming you're talking about Stockholm Boy blind, and you asked for my opinion, so here goes:

Many people have been wondering why this family has not been more brutal and decisive in cutting out its rogue members.

“...long-term implications. While they are furious – not just upset, but furious – about what is happening, they do believe there will come a time in which he will return to them.”

My opinion: True, just what I'd do if I cared and had to behave. They love Harry, even if he is a a cotton-headed ninny muggins! Also, they cannot go ballistic or call it out because they'll stir sympathy for the star-crossed lovers and be the big meanies Rach would love them to appear to be. So gentle, caring, forgiving, accepting, and cooling that big dish of revenge to serve at just the right time (no fingerprints on the china, either).

“They believe there will be a divorce within five years.”

My opinion: If the BRF do this right, it will be sooner. The trick is cutting off the funds, merching and BRF$, and doing it discreetly with the truth (to quietly reveal Rach's hypocrisy and nastiness, esp if there is racism or abuse or Archie involved) and friends (back-channel press and others).

“They must allow him to go... If they close the door on him, he might feel obligated to stay in the marriage longer because there would be no where else for him to go.”

My opinion: True, true, true. He's a grown-ish short of man with just no real life experience and he's living with a street hustler. It's like Buddy the Elf fell in with a really, really bad crowd and also had a drinking problem that went well beyond syrup. Seriously, he's really leaving home for the first time - at 35 yo. And did I mention he's living with a street hustler who would cut him (figuratively, not literally, probably, but I've seen her looks).


“The most frequent word I hear used to describe her internally is “duplicitous.”... They call it a “long con.””

My opinion: They're really nice. The things I call this and her have fewer syllables and are for more to the point, but basically, yes.

“They did so repeatedly! Any warnings from the family were summarily dismissed by him.”

My opinion: And that's exactly it. It pushes him closer to her to defend and protect her if they say anything. Cognitive dissonance and the denial are strong with Harry, or anyone caught in that type of abusive relationship. I've watched women do it too many times. It is why Family Law is my no-fly zone. It's too hard not to want to shake people and yell "WTF is the matter with you?!" and it turns out that is a violation of the rules of professional conduct. This is the same situation the BRF finds itself in times a whole lot of money and the monarchy hanging in the balance.
The Cat's Meow said…
@tatty -- wow, good find.

Unfortunately...I now want to gag!

Sigh. Think I need to strengthen my own boundaries...lol
lizzie said…
@Punkinseed said "I just read that Megs paid for her mom's tuition to get her license to be a social worker. However, her mom got a degree from some place but the article states it hasn't found from what college, so that is a mystery."

It's true apparently it's not known where Doria got her undergraduate degree that supposedly was in psychology. So it *might be* there is something weird there. Might not be, too.

But Doria's social work degree is an MSW (required for practice pretty much everywhere in the US) That's from USC and was
earned in 2015. Her license is the **initial entry level license** (Associate in Social Work/ASW) meaning she has not applied for the LCSW (the "real" SW license) can't practice without supervision and hasn't passed the national licensure exam and the ethics exam (despite what Wikipedia says she couldn't sit for those exams in 2015. She'd have to practice under supervision after graduation according to CA rules.)

Getting the initial license (really more of a "registration") requires paying a fee but no exam and no scrutiny. For example, a criminal background check is required **only** for the LCSW, not for the entry-level ASW. Kind of scary re: the ASW, not related to Doria but in general. HOWEVER, schools of social work, psychology, counseling can require criminal background check stuff for either admission or advancement to internship.

Guess Doria doesn't plan to seek the advanced license since she's not doing social work anymore anyway.
Anonymous said…
@Trudy Blue, the rest:


“Despite the conspiracy theories, his family will not “take her out” or publicly “take her down.”

My opinion: the key word there: "publicly"

“They have dual objectives: To get him to return to the family, and to protect the family. To do both requires great restraint on their part.”

My opinion: this requires delicate balance and gaming the scenarios. This is Art of War stuff, and laugh if you will, my Nutties, but it's still used.

“For example, they know that they can not criticize her openly.“
“Criticizing her would only result in his defense of her and in her positioning herself as the victim or martyr.”
“Unfortunately, she has conditioned him to see her as his only ally and his family as the enemy.”


My opinion: exactly on this and all of the rest of what was in the blind from this point on.

I've said all along that the BRF has to go long with this. They have to put on the "we tried, we're trying, we are really really, trying" front, all the while gathering more information and slowly tightening this up until there are no exits (think rabid wolverine in trap and you're about to take their raw meat from them - that is Rach - her temperament and how she will respond when she sees her meal ticket, her greedy, greedy, gauche vision of a meal ticket (the merching, not harry) taken from her).

But in order to do this and shut her down and get harry back, that means next cutting off money. But if they do it in a way that stirs up sympathy for poor Rach and H, then they and the monarchy itself are way screwed.

They've seen this coming, and I know that some here just think they're lame and/or weak and/or foolish, but I see it as carefully planning, holding back, choosing words wisely, and waiting. Just waiting for that perfect moment. Rach is rash and brash and tacky and foolish, and she will make more big mistakes and the BRF just has to bide time and have the back-channels prepped, and based on how I've seen Rach's friends silent or, worse, actively disengaging, those back-channel convos are happening.
SwampWoman said…
@ Elle, Never. But I'm pretty hardline on it that because I have learned the hard way that cheaters cheat and liars lie and there's even a song about it lol, so it must be true :) (Do you know that one, @Swampwoman?)

I believe that one says cheaters cheat and fools believe somewhere in it, too. (This week I've been listening to Mongolian heavy metal again. Love the throat singing. The wild steppe speaks to my heart.)
CatEyes said…
No, I didn't see the DM response to the lawsuit, I am dying to know what it is. I will find it now.

Poor Bea she should not be faulted if Edo was unfaithful. And to the poster who mentioned something about her maybe considering an 'open marriage;, well that is just repulsive and she sure doesn't need to settle for that (I don't care how old she is). I saw the reference that maybe Edo had his hair cut by Dara, whattttttttttttt s***t is that? He has the money to go to a hair stylist. What a crock! I wouldn't want my fiance cozying up close to an ex for a hair cut...like maybe Dara rubs her breasts on Edo's head while she is cutting his hair...eeeew!!
Wanda said…
Thanks Elle - I couldn't wait for you to see it as it seems to not only answer some questions but to also actually sound true!
I agree with everything you said. I too think it will take less than 5 years but she can't be allowed to prosper.
#BoycottMeghanMarkle !!
And as I wrote earlier I hope they don't spend too much money on her in the meantime.
She was out and about today doing PR faux community-care work! Now that she's working for herself we'll probably never see the end of her!
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punkinseed said…
If you want to know what Megs is doing to Harry as far as control, etc., check out the Wikipedia article about the infamous Eugene Landy. Landy was a psychologist who completely took total control of Brian Wilson of the Beach Boys for years and years by keeping him drugged and isolated from his family, friends everyone and everything. He wouldn't allow Brian's kids to see him. The parallels are sublime! Landry managed to live vicariously through Wilson and take over all of his assets for years! Worth the read!
Wanda said…
Swamp Woman!
Have you been caught up? lol! Much has happened. We now (THINK) we know the RF's plan for handling the Harkles, the DM leaked info about their response to Meghan's lawsuit against them, we learned Thomas is definitely working for the DM side of the suit, Meghan has been getting Mulroney to hold-back info on her in the tabs, Meghan has been papped getting on a seaplane, she attended a PR community tea, and poor Bea may be getting cheated on! That's the summary of this evening!
Dido said…
Re: Doria during Meghan's high school years (at Immaculate Heart in Los Feliz)

At the time she lived with her father, whose house was walking distance from the school in Los Feliz, and saw her mother on weekends. The older she became, the more she felt she was the one who was mothering her father. It was a source of friction, especially when she started dating. As a friend notes: “Typical teenage stuff.” There were other issues, too, that clearly troubled her, though she did not discuss them publicly at the time. Fitting in was a constant concern. As she later recalled: “My high school had cliques: the black girls and white girls, the Filipino [sic] and the Latina girls. Being biracial, I fell somewhere in between. So every day during lunch, I busied myself with meetings—French Club, student body, whatever one could possibly do between noon and one p.m.—I was there. Not so that I was more involved, but so that I wouldn’t have to eat alone.” Photographer John Dlugolecki, who photographed Meghan and other students throughout high school, commented that Meghan would often talk to his wife, Vicki Conrad, about her love of drama. Vicky in turn noticed that Meghan never appeared to be part of the African American or the Asian groups of girls, or any other ethnic clique. Dlugolecki also remarked that Meghan “was not considered mixed race by her peers,” adding, “We only ever saw her with Tom, never with the mom.” And so it came as a mild shock to members of faculty when they finally got to meet Doria. “Everyone thought [Meghan] was Italian because she was so light skinned,” recalls one former teacher. “Then we met her mother and realized she was biracial.” As poised and confident as she seemed to her classmates, at Kairos, when she discussed her own demons, at least those about her family discord, it clearly enabled her to encourage her classmates to confront their own. Mrs. Knudsen recalls: “You have to be very honest about who you are and be willing to share all the things that you struggle with, your successes and failures. She was articulate, confident, feisty, and spunky. I remember her saying, ‘Why can’t we do it this way, has anybody thought about that?’ She was always thinking about a better way to do something, not just complaining.”

Morton, Andrew. Meghan (pp. 41-42). Grand Central Publishing. Kindle Edition.
abbyh said…

There is a part of me which would not mind reading the Morton book on her but then I think, there is just so much going on right now, better wait for the updated versions as they may fill in all your questions.
Wanda said…
The beach boys were really targeted - first an evil psychologist then Charles Manson. Thanks Punkin I'll read about that after I get up on the Harkle stuff. I'm off now to check the new Harry Markle articles....
PrettyPaws said…
Hi, Nutties

I'm a bit late to this party (due to illness) but I've just had a lovely thought. Whilst Harry is still in GB, wouldn't it be a lovely surprise for him if Chelsey Davey turned up? I'm surprised, actually, that she hasn't shown up already. I am sure the BRF would just love to see her again, especially since MM is a whole ocean away.
SwampWoman said…
@ Elle My opinion: And that's exactly it. It pushes him closer to her to defend and protect her if they say anything. Cognitive dissonance and the denial are strong with Harry, or anyone caught in that type of abusive relationship. I've watched women do it too many times. It is why Family Law is my no-fly zone. It's too hard not to want to shake people and yell "WTF is the matter with you?!" and it turns out that is a violation of the rules of professional conduct. This is the same situation the BRF finds itself in times a whole lot of money and the monarchy hanging in the balance.

It's the same with police, they hate responding to a domestic. Even if they intervene to protect a partner that is getting the living crap beat out of them, the partner that just got rescued may turn around and attack the police with deadly force to help the abuser.
Mimi said…
Oh Pretty Paws, you’re bad! My kind of nutty!!!!
Anonymous said…
@PrettyPaws, I normally wouldn't agree that another woman would help lol, but I think that if Chelsy were to show up as a long-term friend who really knows and understands Harry, it might help just to anchor him a bit. He is adrift with only Rach, and we know she is not going to let him on her life raft. Once Harry is away from her for real, then Rach can be burned down (again, indirectly, no prints at the scene). It is possible that she could reach out to him in a helpful way, and if she can, I hope she does. I hope you're feeling better, too.
Wanda said…
The Times has an article out now on the DM lawsuit and Thomas Markle. Some content repetitive - some new (from behind paywall):

Thomas Markle may give evidence against daughter Meghan in court

Thomas Markle is preparing to give evidence against his daughter in her privacy action against a British newspaper, legal documents indicate.

The Duchess of Sussex’s estranged father could be called as a central witness to detail how their relationship deteriorated.

Text messages between him and Meghan are included in legal papers submitted by Associated Newspapers, publisher of The Mail on Sunday, in response to Meghan’s legal action. She is suing the paper for misuse of private information, infringement of copyright and breach of the Data Protection Act for publishing a letter she wrote to her father after marrying Prince Harry in May 2018. Mr Markle did not attend the ceremony amid reports of a rift.

In its defence, filed with the High Court yesterday, the newspaper says that there is a “huge and legitimate” public interest in the royal family. Its submission states that Meghan is a “high-ranking member” who enjoyed “immense privilege and wealth”, funded in large part by public money. It also argues that she cannot claim a right to family privacy because she allowed friends to leak negative stories about Mr Markle after the wedding.

A week before the ceremony, Mr Markle texted her to say: “I look forward to trying on my shoes and see how we look thank you for getting it ready for me its probably past your bedtime so have a good night I love you Dad”. Days later, after press reports that he had posed for paparazzi, he was taken to hospital with heart problems and texted to say that he would not be well enough to attend the wedding.

The documents state that he received a text response signed “Love M and H”, but which read as if it was from Harry. It criticised Mr Markle for talking to the press and accused him of upsetting his daughter, the defence says. He replied “I’ve done nothing to hurt you Meghan or anyone else I know nothing about 20 phone calls I’m sorry my heart attack is . . . any inconvenience for you”.

The newspaper claims that Meghan “stoked” public interest in her private life by allowing information about her relations with her father to appear in People, an American magazine, days before The Mail on Sunday published her letter in February last year. The newspaper also asserts that she could not have had a reasonable expectation that the letter would remain private, because Mr Markle was entitled to tell his own story. It alleges that Meghan took great care over its presentation because she expected it may be leaked.

The People article quoted five of Meghan’s friends, all unnamed, speaking out against the “heartbreaking lies and bullying” she had endured from the press. The article included new details of her relationship with her father. It claimed that he refused to get into the car sent to collect him for the wedding, and revealed the existence of her letter.

Kensington Palace has refused to comment on whether People’s sources had Meghan’s consent, the newspaper says, adding: “It is to be inferred that the claimant … permitted the information in the People interview to be published, or acquiesced in the same.”

The Sussexes are privately funding the legal action, announced in October, and say that any damages will go to an anti-bullying charity. Schillings, their lawyers, say the “unlawful” publication of the letter “was part of a campaign by this media group to publish false and derogatory stories” about the royal couple.

Harry has issued proceedings against the owners of The Sun and the Daily Mirror over alleged phone hacking. The Sun is part of News UK, which also publishes The Times.
HushHush said…
So Meghan is staying at the same house in Victoria, BC. Today she took a float plane to Vancouver. Plus her entourage. It's a short flight, but on a very cold day, after, and between snow storms, in a not very snowy place- Vancouver can't deal with snow, like London. No sign of Archie, who she went back for. And she dropped into a women's shelter in Vancouvers impoverished Downtown Eastside. No banana's were harmed this time.
Why is she day tripping to Vancouver? IVF treatments. Tea with Huawei's Sabrina Meng who's under house arrest in Vancouver to compare notes?

https://www.vancouverisawesome.com/vancouver-news/meghan-markle-dtes-womens-centre-visit-2021666
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Unknown said…
hey Nutties. I've been swamped with work for the last 48 hours, so im sorry if this has already been discussed, but did any of you see that some lawyer trademarked "Sussex Royal" to supposedly "teach Harry and Meghan a lesson about business". Any of you see this? What do you make of it?

HushHush said…

Same MM story on CBC.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/meghan-markle-dtes-womens-shelter-1.5427270

Community Vancouver paper, The Georgia Strait.

Markle, 38, was seen boarding a seaplane in Victoria earlier today, but no one expected her to show up at the Downtown Eastside Women's Centre.
Her various appearances in B.C. are fuelling speculation that she and her husband, Prince Harry, may settle in B.C. now that the Queen has given them permission to live part-time in North America.
https://www.straight.com/life/1346791/duchess-sussex-meghan-markle-visits-downtown-eastside-womens-centre-vancouver
Starry said…
The tweet from Alexis Ohanian (Serena Williams' husband and founder of Redditt) uses the words "thrive" and "charlatans".

Wowza.

https://mobile.twitter.com/alexisohanian/status/1216652533508104193
Mimi said…
anonymous, if it is true and he was really able to trademark SussexRoyal I am going to break out my special box of wine and have myself one hell of a party.
Unknown said…
Mimi,

There's multiple articles about it. Lets hope!!!
Unknown said…
Meghan is just so frustrating. She had the opportunity of a fucking lifetime. She could have really made something of herself by marrying Harry. And she completely blew. All for greed and ego. It's actually quite alarming when you actually think of it.
Wanda said…
This is a good article from the Times with advice to Harry about how to live as a minor royal. And it features the best looking member of the Royal Family - Peter Philips!

Harry and Meghan can have their cake and eat it
alice thomson
Part 1
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex should follow the example of Peter Phillips, who is part of the family but has built a proper career
Who would want to be a minor member of our royal family, forced to wear smocked rompers as babies then expected to compete in the modern world while everyone criticises everything from your baths to your bald patch. Prince Harry and Meghan Markle have obviously concluded it’s unendurable. The sight of Uncle Andrew refusing to sweat on TV must have been the final straw: no one wants to be the spare.

But there is one member of the royal family who appears to have cracked it: the Queen’s eldest grandson, Peter Phillips, born fifth in line to the throne and given a 41-gun salute to mark his birth. He married his Canadian wife Autumn, an actress/model/management consultant, at Windsor Chapel, like Prince Harry, and his children, Savannah and Isla, have joint Canadian-British citizenship and flit across the Atlantic whenever they want, though not on private jets.

Pete, as his family call him, goes to banquets at Buckingham Palace and his children can use the indoor pool and cinema. He lives in a beautiful Cotswold farmhouse on his mother’s Gatcombe Park estate, bought for her by the Queen, and can use granny’s amenities in London rather than stay in a contentious grace-and-favour house. Only last weekend, hours before the family conference, the Queen hosted a shoot for him and his friends at Sandringham.

Mr Phillips — he has no title — has worked since leaving Exeter University for the Williams racing team, for RBS in Hong Kong and now runs a sports and events management company. Apart from a revelation in 2017 that the firm was paid £750,000 to organise an event marking the Queen’s 90th birthday, no one cares. No wonder Prince Philip, who adores his grandson, christened him “the winner”, while his sister Zara says he is “very calm, considered and grounded”.

Mr Phillips has managed to slide down the line of succession (he’s now 15th) with dignity. He has shown that you can keep many of the benefits of royalty — still watching Trooping the Colour from the balcony and making use of Windsor, Balmoral and Sandringham — while leading a comfortable private life.

He appears to have accepted that he and his family can never compete with others higher up the royal ladder. If only Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie had followed him and also got rid of their titles, protection officers and pretensions.

Mr Phillips didn’t lose his mother but he had a tricky childhood with his parents’ separation and divorce. He was the eldest grandchild but young William and Harry soon got all the attention; even Zara, a showjumper, is better known than he is. Yet he still had to ask his fiancée to convert from Catholicism to the Church of England, which she did for the Queen without public complaint.

Maybe he is his stoic mother’s son but it’s not all about maintaining a stiff upper lip. He often bear-hugs Princess Anne in public, his children dress in dungarees and clamber all over his back at horse trials. The Duchess of Sussex obviously worries that Archie will feel like a second-class royal but Savannah and Isla don’t look remotely disadvantaged.

Mr Phillips has realised that you can have a near-normal though very privileged life if you keep your head down and take the inheritance and perks, while finding a job to keep you happily occupied. Princess Margaret’s children, the Earl of Snowdon and Lady Sarah Chatto, have pulled off a similar feat.
Wanda said…
Part 2
Meghan and Harry can do the same after the “transition period”. It’s slightly ghastly watching the prince at a function asking the Disney CEO Bob Iger to give his wife a voiceover job, but Meghan should return to acting. Watching Suits again, she was great as Rachel: feisty, bolshy and difficult, but all on screen, and she’ll get protection on set. Harry can become a Canadian firefighter; after all, his brother did air rescue in Wales without being harassed. He could also lead the Queen’s Commonwealth Canopy, a network of forest projects, and continue his involvement with the Invictus Games rather than just become a celebrity activist. Archie can copy Savannah and Isla and use great-granny’s top-notch facilities while in Britain, but the family should ditch Frogmore Cottage.

A halfway-house arrangement isn’t going to work. The Princess of Wales floundered when she left the Firm; she continued to promote her charities as a global superstar but without the royal support structure. Her life became chaotic as she was still mobbed when she made public appearances but no one knew whether to curtsey any more, and she had to rely on sponsors like Mohamed Al Fayed and his son for transport and holidays. Sarah Ferguson was slated for selling slimming merchandise and trading on the family name after her divorce.

By making such a fuss about semi-retiring, yet wanting to stay centre-stage, Harry appears not to realise that his new deal could bring his family more scrutiny, not less. He risks jeopardising the arrangements of other royals: the public will question why they get perks and financial support from the Firm yet have so few responsibilities.

The Sussexes should get proper jobs, keep Archie out of the limelight and not try to compete with the royal circuit or cash in on the royal crest. Few will then begrudge them a security detail and they can feel respected for their talents. Peter Phillips shows how the younger royals can have their cake and eat it, as long as they don’t shove it down our throats too.
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Anonymous said…
And you know, that's another thing, when someone falls in love, tests show that it's like our brain on cocaine. If someone is already addicted or has an addictive personality, would that make falling in love even more addicting or dangerous? Just thought of that. Any Nuttier know?
Glow W said…
If they settle in Vancouver, one thought I have is its because the time zone difference is so great that the British press will miss out on things that happen in the middle of the night for them.
@HushHush, sickening! The only women she is truly interested in are those with money to buy her planned TigTots line of SussexRoyal baby clothes.
Anonymous said…
Yep @Starry, I've been trying to figure out what went down, and commented about it earlier. What are your thoughts?
Glow W said…
@mimi it was only in the us and for certain platforms and he said he would give it to them for free, but the had already appiled for a larger encompassing trademark worldwide, so their claim would likely come first and his would get thrown out (what I read earlier from somwwhere).
Mimi said…
Anonymous, It really and truly is unfathomable that these two had the world in the palms of their hands. They could have been worshipped and adored and had anything and everything they ever wanted if they had taken a grateful, humble, genuine humanitarians. route. They could have outshone William And Catherine without much effort had they taken a very different route. I think about all the good they could have accomplished with not much effort, they had it ALL and they threw it all away with both hands. I don’t understand how they cannot see this!!!!!
Also, what is this rubbish about her being "spotted"? Her PR peeps sent the pic out after the fact.
SwampWoman said…
@BlueBell Woods said...
Swamp Woman!
Have you been caught up? lol! Much has happened. We now (THINK) we know the RF's plan for handling the Harkles, the DM leaked info about their response to Meghan's lawsuit against them, we learned Thomas is definitely working for the DM side of the suit, Meghan has been getting Mulroney to hold-back info on her in the tabs, Meghan has been papped getting on a seaplane, she attended a PR community tea, and poor Bea may be getting cheated on! That's the summary of this evening!


Thanks! I'm kinda/sorta caught up but I am afraid that I may have missed something significant in my hurried reading. I'll be out of state with no cell phone coverage tomorrow so I hope no really interesting things happen in the meantime because I'll NEVER be caught up.

My heart is broken for Bea; however, there are worse things than being alone. Being with somebody that does not respect her and treat her well would be one of those things. That being said, MM seemed to have a real dislike for the girls for whatever reason, and this could be some poison from her camp. *sigh*



Mimi said…
tatty, thanks for the information. I had only heard that someone was going to trademark Sussex Royal.
The Cat's Meow said…
There is actually a second blind item about MM that we have all missed! The first and second blinds on BlindGossip are both about her....

The first id Stokholm Boy and the second focuses on her mystery PR.

Check it out.
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Louise said…
re: the visit to the impoverished women: Same m.o. as in the UK, "secret" visits that end up in all the papers.

In my opinion, she has heard that Canadians don't want to pay for her security and she wants to show us that she is "kind".
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Starry said…
@Elle, Reine des Abeilles

The language seems deliberate to me. Veiled juuust enough.

So, he and Serena have her number. Major volley in counteracting "it's the racism!" claims.

What a show.

Any insights?
CookieShark said…
Per Twitter the seaplane photos are Splash News. They pap the Kardashians and almost certainly were called to pap MM. Splash news allegedly gives celebs a cut and edits photos to make sure the celeb is looking right 😘
HushHush said…
To add to Alice Thomson's Times article suggestion, Harry could be a helicopter pilot for Vancouver areas North Shore Rescue. They're the local search and rescue organization that volunteers save skiers and hikers in the local mountains. He'd be a great addition for them, it's a non-profit organization. It's high profile, yet dangerous SAR work. They're highly skilled people.
Wanda said…
Swamp Woman - Maybe it's not true then. Or possibly exaggerated? I didn't think about how it could be Markle's camp. She had a tough time with her last beau too.
Ozmanda said…
@Elle - addiction comes from the release of dopamine and studies have shown that falling in love releases the same chemicals so it is very much the same thing. I can expand further but conscious that I am writing too much and may be annoying :)
xxxxx said…
As always, today DM has good photos ...
Megs doing a victory lap today after "extracting" from the BRF. She figures she won.

Today was photo ops day as she notified the paps she would be getting on a seaplane. She looked like the average bundled up against the cold commoner here, at the seaplane dock. She had a huge grin under the hood of her parka. She is truly a woman of the people. She flew to Victoria for her prime ops photos of the day, at a women's center. I have no idea what this women's center does, don't care.

Analysis >>>> Gotta Tend to that humanitarian image before the Sussex merch-o-rama frenzy begins.
Glow W said…
Alexis added he was speaking of the tech industry. Sorry to disappoint, but I have been meaning to check out his twitter...


Over the course of your career, you'll encounter people who use strategic sycophancy in order to level themselves up, rather than, say, doing great work.

Some will hit their inevitable ceiling early, but others will actually continue to thrive.


You will start to wonder if it'll ever catch up with them, but I've convinced myself that in the long-term, it's just not sustainable for them. Eventually enough people will see them for who they really are--charlatans.

I realize that's little satisfaction for those of you working toward your recognition, your due. But there is no more surefire way to be successful in your career than to do great work, take ownership for everything that goes wrong, and be kind to everyone, especially yourself.

I can only speak for the tech industry, of course, but I suspect this is largely universal. I've only been doing this 15 years now, but the highest-performers (and most respected folks) I've encountered actually get-shit-done.

And while there are many people in the tech industry who seem to keep getting away with it, the more sunlight, the better.












HushHush said…
@Tatty. If they move to Vancouver, they can be the other half of the 24 hour news cycle. As we're currently seeing. Same time zone as LA, part of the reason that Vancouver is the #3 filming location in North America.
And my own note, if Meghan actually wanted to go incognito in Vancouver, she could check into the relatively new Trump hotel. No one would ever suspect it was her, and film productions won't put clients there! Meghan is there to rub elbows with who ever she can though, so that'll never happen.
IEschew said…
@Hikari and @Elle, thank you re: Lord Geidt. I found the confusing new title that I remembered reading about: Permanent Lord in Waiting to HM. And also Chair of the Queen’s Commonwealth Trust. See 10(a) and (e) at https://members.parliament.uk/member/4692/registeredinterests, though I’ve now forgotten why he was being discussed this morning. I recall the vice grip on Meghan’s hand, lol, and at the time I hoped it meant he was going to whip things into shape. So what is his role as PLIW for the Queen, I wonder?

@Bluebell/Trudy and @HappyDays, the new blind sounds like it could be true. Thanks for bringing it over. In a way it’s relatable for most families who worry about a loved one who has mental illness, addiction issues, and/or is paired up with someone every blessed one else knows is very bad news. Per someone’s great post about how the BRF do things, I wonder if that was a BRF “leak” to explain and garner empathy.

@AvaC I enjoyed the Allison Pearson piece, and didn’t someone earlier today post another good Telegraph piece? I feel anti-Sussex yet loving-if-angry-at-Harry sentiments are out in the open and all well reasoned. Meghan doesn’t have a spot in that. Best of all, I think mainstream journos are beginning to ask bolder questions, as Allison Pearson does about the Sussex’s pretending to live in FrogCott. She buried the comment a bit, but she asserts it, doesn’t even it phrase it as a question!

The more and more normalized (vs tinhat) these questions we’ve all been asking become, the better.

Finally, it’s shaping up to be Tom Markle’s word against Meghan’s in the MoS suit. Bets on how long Meg pursues it? Seems like many of you feel a narc will pursue it to its bitter end? She will break Harry’s bank in no time if she doesn't have the clarity to drop it.
Glow W said…
@hushhush good point
Wanda said…
CookieShark said...
Splash news allegedly gives celebs a cut and edits photos to make sure the celeb is looking right.
*****************
....so those photos of Murky Markle in the DM on her (hopefully) last day on British soil with soaking wet pits that reaked through my laptop screen, would normally have been edited to remove the offending stains - but they left them in to annoy her, right? RIGHT? :-) LMAO!
Wanda said…
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Ooooooh the Blog Enforver is at it again to quote: You can pretty much tell who is needling and making remarks about others. @Nutty shuts down nuttiness. Now, no Anonymous and/or Unknowns are allowed (though obv some break that rule) and if you just respond to identified Nuttiers who you know and/or seem normal and/or aren't aggressive, it's still really fun. You can pretty much tell when it's the same commenter under a different name (writing styles,
grammatical errors, patterns, etc.)

First of all Nutty did not ban 'Unknowns' so you are wrong, she suggested using screen names, but who wants to when you are a bully. You set yourself up as being an expert on psychology, law, interpersonal relationships, sleuthing by observing writing styles.grammatical errors/punctuations, music lyrics, cashmere, BFF with Catherine, knowing the motivations of the Royal family, food, tea, culture, etc...it never ends. You must be a really unhappy person since you have to act like this. Try to focus on the topics, let people have their opinions without always correcting or trying to make yourself the opinion counts the most, the longest and the loudest (in terms of strident).

Most importantly if you don't like a particular poster you are relentless in harassing them when they don't even say anything to you. Remember, Take Your Own Advice, SCROLL PAST. You attack and attack me and always want to run to Nutty. Always sniveling. Why can't you just post your endless posts and posts and posts and let me be.

You falsely accused another poster of stalking and you HAD To Apologise. Well leave Me alone as well. I didn't even stalk you and you won't leave me alone.

Who wants to identify when you are on a Witch Hunt. It is precisely the way you treat me as to why I don't want my name out there (actually I did an Unknown identifier and you didn't know (so it blows your concept you can tell one Unknown from another Unknown. I'm not leaving.

And I am handicapped so I can't type well due to partial paralysis. Sorry my hands don't type good enough for you. Please leave me alone, you are causing to feel very bad.
Glow W said…
I brought up ghe time zones because chris ship had it on his twitter and someone asked him why he was awake and shouldn’t he be sleeping. I though, oh that’s interesting...
Wanda said…
Cat's meow - do you have a link for he second blind? please
abbyh said…

https://blindgossip.com/public-relations-chaos/
Wanda said…
Thanks Abbyh :-)
xxxxx said…
Vancouver is better for them, over Toronto. Warmer. A very outdoorsy recreation kind of place, so maybe good for Harry in this way. He could spend days skiing, away from M. Further from London, poster here said it takes 11 hours to London while 6 from Toronto, due to no direct flights from Victoria. So better to isolate Hapless from the BRF. Closer to LA of course and same time zone to talk to her LA agents.

Me, I would rather live in Vancouver than Toronto.
SwampWoman said…
BlueBell Woods said...
Swamp Woman - Maybe it's not true then. Or possibly exaggerated? I didn't think about how it could be Markle's camp. She had a tough time with her last beau too.


I have my fingers crossed for her, anyway. Maybe she just wants to be happily ever after so badly that she isn't enforcing those giant boundaries that sound a klaxon warning with neon lights flashing DANGER DANGER DANGER DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT GOING THERE that a lot of us have around us. Maybe she's so sweet that nobody is afraid of angering her.

She needs to up her crazy game.

Meowwww said…
Just got home from work and saw the article about MM visiting the womens’ shelter. Checked the comments. Her PR is hard at work, there are tons of positive comments.
Glow W said…
After I visited Vancouver and Whistler, I started looking up Canada immigration. I love the area. Amazing trip.

BA did have a non stop London to Vancouver, about 9.5 hours. I didn’t check the other way
Wanda said…
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Magatha Mistie said…
Ava C. Re the Allison Pearson article, Telegraph. I noticed her comment, shortened version, “ vacant Frogmore cottage, tarted up by taxpayers, just so you can pretend you live there “ hmmm letting us know that we were right in assuming they’ve never lived there?
Anonymous said…
@Starry, re this: "The language seems deliberate to me. Veiled juuust enough."

It's shade alright, but if you read the comments, they all refer to Rach, and he never shut it down, so that tells me he was referring to Rach. But what I don't get is why he'd do it. It would seem that silence would suffice, but this is directly indirectly dissing her, it was pointed and seemingly needless, and i cannot figure out why he'd do it. I mean, I can imagine why someone would loathe Rach and see through her. I can't imagine why he'd tweet it unless something went down. It may be nothing, and I may just be stir crazy (snowed in for two days and another to go lol), but it really seems like a clue.
Magatha Mistie said…
@tatty. Why hasn’t Alexis denied he was ref H&M, many tweets to him asking if he was alluding to them, no denial from him?
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Sandie said…
https://www.the-sun.com/news/257103/meghan-markle-left-theatre-bosses-fuming-as-patron-carried-on-as-if-everything-was-ok-hours-before-royal-bombshell/

No respect. Self-centred through and through. With all that taxpayers' money they spend on staff one would think that they would have a plan in place to contact and reassure every patronage.

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/meghan-markle-beams-pops-tea-21282518

Building her brand as a feminist (and of course she called the paps).
Anonymous said…
Sandie re the theater: Not only is she disrespectful and self-centered thru and thru, but this PR counteracts her "good" work today in BC. BC can see what they have to look forward to with Rach.
Mimi said…
Nothing has changed. She just relocated to a place that is warmer and more welcoming than those horrible racist British people. She had to hurry up and get out there and show everyone how wonderful she still is and how the Canadian people love and accept her!!!!!
Magatha Mistie said…
Eastside Women’s Centre = Grenfell 2. New cook book already on the boil, rinse, repeat & rehash.
Starry said…
re: Alexis

I think they he and Serena felt used around that US Open visit. Her behaviour in the stands, especially with him, was cringe.
Anonymous said…
Ozmanda re this: I can expand further but conscious that I am writing too much and may be annoying :)

You're kind of our resident expert on some of these things, so IDK why you'd be writing too much, and I don't think there are any limits.

So, does a person with an addictive personality become more susceptible to the love drug than a person without an addiction? Or is it different? It occurred to me that this may be an issue and you might have had training in this.
Wanda said…
@Swamp Woman
I have some hope as I can't imagine Edo pulling a stunt like that on the world stage and to the Royal Family no less. And just after being allowed to attend their Christmas festivities - which we know is a big deal for un-marrieds. I had assumed they were a sure thing.

I noticed a while back that his ex started showing up in the tabs - I only glanced at the headline but I remember thinking the ex was trying to get attention. I think she was in a skimpy outfit - maybe working out. Perhaps she is having regrets and wants him back? I know I would not like my fiance getting his hair cut by his ex.
Ozmanda said…
@Elle yeah this is part of my training once o get home from work I will write more :)
Wanda said…
"MEGA DRAMA ‘Scheming’ Meghan Markle was behind devastating smear campaign against her frail dad, bombshell court papers claim"

(Boy, if MM thought the headlines were bad before megxit she better look out for what's coming now!)

https://www.the-sun.com/news/256680/scheming-meghan-markle-was-behind-devastating-smear-campaign-against-her-frail-dad-bombshell-court-papers-claim/
Magatha Mistie said…
@Starry. Yes I agree. The photos of Megs fluttering her eyelashes & splaying her legs at Alexis is probably the reason. She wasn’t there to support her friend, she was there to be seen, Serena was forgotten, usual backhander from Megs.
Wanda said…
@Sandie - I can't believe she met with theater directors and actually discussed with them upcoming events and engagements she would take part in. That is just plain deceitful, disrespectful and even mean-spirited. What is wrong with her?
Anonymous said…
@Starry & @Magatha , Good point about the splayed legs! Maybe when Serena watched the replay on video and saw that, she saw what was going down. That'd do it for me. Wills might not be the only one driving around with one of Rach's wigs hanging from the antenna.

Magatha Mistie said…
&Elle, I’d be using her wig as new strings for Serena’s racquet 😉
Anonymous said…
@Magatha, 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Anonymous said…
OT & @Nutty, I hope that if there is ever a slow Rach time, we can have a post on Estonia. I have so many questions!
Sandie said…
The photos of Meghan getting on that plane and at the women's centre make the front pages on the day that William and Kate are doing an official engagement together. No coincidence. (Meghan is not a team player and never can be, that is why she used the word 'collaborate' instead of 'support' with reference to the Queen in her manifesto, and even then, that was a lie.)

The visit to the women's centre was not official. Why was she there and why did she need to publicise it? She needs to be seen, and she needs to build credentials for the foundation to bring in the donations (has to be seen supporting women's empowerment to get big donations, of which she only needs to use 5% for the issue and the rest can be used to cover her 'expenses').

She is not even waiting for the deal from the family: full-steam ahead on her agenda, her way.
Magatha Mistie said…
@Sandie. She doesn’t care, never did. She’s got what she wanted, fame/money. If her world domination plan fails she knows she’s got much more wealth/infamy than she ever dreamed of initially as a 2 bit z lister. If she can hurt others, all the better for her twisted ego. She is beyond...
JLC said…
The pictures of meg in Canada really showcase the difference between her arms and face. The bronzer has been stepped up me thinks...
FrenchieLiv said…
Good morning everyone!

I have a quite candid question about Doria. If she was put in jail for years, why there is no former fellow-inmate who would remind of her?

I don't see how Harry (mental health issue, possible addictions) could ask for a license pilot...

Anonymous said…
I was just reading AHP, and @Sandie & @Magatha, you're both right. Rach* is the epitome of classless, boorish, brash, rash, tacky, twisted Megalowmania. Harry has given up everything for her, and she's pimping already. To make it worse, William and Kate have an engagement today, and we've got this stuntmuffin all over the front pages. And she's got that wig back, longer than ever. She is beyond disgusting to me.

You're right, Magatha, if she can hurt others, all the better for her twisted ego, and I guess that's what I don't begin to understand. If everyone is lavishing attention on her 23 out of 24 hours, all she sees is the hour she didn't get, and she tries to tear the attention back to herself still. It's just maddening, and she's going to do whatever she has to do, tear down Kate, drag William, toss Harry, ruin everything, just so she can get that extra little bit. Enough bad things cannot happen to her. I guess that the only good news about any of this is that she was all by herself. No celebrity A-listers cheering her on. No Bey & Jay dropping off homemade muffins Chez Rach. And does she even care that Harry is not there? He's busy dealing with his family while she just takes the money and runs.

*I'd call her Cockrach, but that sounds too close to the vulgarity that she is, and is too reminiscent of her former life.
Anonymous said…
@FrenchieLiv, possibly she wasn't in jail. Possibly the people who were with her were paid off. Possibly the story was squealched out of respect for the BRF and no one wanted to go after Doria. Lots of possibilities. There's a lot that isn't out about that whole family. For example, reportedly, Tom M. won the lottery, but I have read that there's no record of that. So, lots that isn't out.
Magatha Mistie said…
Frenchie Liv I agree, but we could also question lack of comments from Dorias neighbours, colleagues & friends. No one has said anything about her, good or bad?
Magatha Mistie said…
Elle. Cockrach hahaha, I’m now wondering if Tig isn’t code word for extras served on the side of the tossed salad!!
Sandie said…
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7887569/The-real-reason-Megxit-bad-blood-Firm-say-friends.html

Meghan felt ostracised? No, Meghan cannot tolerate a situation where she is not in control, and not getting adulation and attention all the time. (There's a Queen more important than me? But I am here to modernise her. There is a brother and sister-in-law who are more important than me? But I know everything and it must be done my way ...)

Bad blood in the family? Toxic? Smearing the very family that have bankrolled your extravagant lifestyle and who you are now demanding still cough up for you while you go off and do exactly what you like? By the way, that is really rich coming from someone who has ghosted her entire family (except her mother who is useful to back up her cries of racism). There are plenty of current photos (and many photos from the past) of this toxic family getting together, not only for formal occasions but also for informal ones, and enjoying each other's company. Strange Meghan that there is not one photo of you and Harry with your family you never had unless you were forced to interact at formal occasions. Oh, yes, there was that day at the polo when there was no interaction between you and Kate and her children. You are the one who has created bad blood between Harry and his family; you are the one who is toxic. (By the way, folks, is projection one of the classic traits of a narcissist? I personally have experienced that but am not sure if that is coincidence or expected.)

Royalty has always been a target for criticism and ridicule. Before the modern media, cartoons were the favourite vehicle for this. And gosh, monarchs in those days used to be roasted. And then, some of them even had their heads chopped off. Meghan and Harry are like spoilt self-centred children who are told not to do something, throw a tantrum, do it anyway, and then throw another tantrum when they get hurt.

I think there are some members of the family who will find it very difficult to forgive Harry for this, his grandfather being one (and he may not live long enough to allow for forgiveness anyway).
Anonymous said…
Magatha I call it "The Tick" which is perfect for her
Anonymous said…
So, this is from the DM link Sandie just posted: "The source spoke to US magazine People, which has previously run a story defending Meghan which it said came from five of her close friends."

Clearly, Rach is not going to follow any rule, show any respect, honor any agreement, act with goodwill, no decency at all. She just took the money and ran. I hope they burn her down because she will ruin everything that she can.
Portcitygirl said…
Omg. She looks pregnant! Does anyone else see this?
@PortCityGirl

Yes, she does look pregnant. Infact im pretty certain that this was done to stir up pregnancy rumours. That would be a sureshot way , in her mind, to deflect from this shitshow. She wil fan these rumours till she is waddling in uggs at 8 months, she will keep the speculation rife this time around till the very end.(for privacy, obviously)

ANother reason i think this could be true is because the rumours were swirling throughout this 6 week break that its family planning time for the couple, that she is frantically trying. they kept it up till Scoobie denied them just a week or so before they were slated to return. and we know, that poor scobie is almost always never speaking the truth (or they purposely feed him lies). If he has categorically stated this, then all the more reason the the truth is the exact opposite of it.
Camper said…
Morning all, I’m sure Nutty will start a new page today, but something caught me eye on GMB this morning. One of the news reviewers, Kevin something who works for a paper, mentioned in passing to Piers and Susannah that there was more to be said, but they were prevented due to legal reasons. This was a discussion about Meghan and her use of mouthpieces. Then, as if this is the only thing anyone can come up with, the response by two ladies was the WOC narrative. So, that’s all they ever do, it’s all about colour, so tiresome. Piers said how can colour have anything to do with treating your father that way?

As to the Stockholm blind, yep, this is exactly something I’ve seen in action. How did it end with my brother, it didn’t until she walked away for a richer man........and he still wouldn’t bad mouth her for years! So I’m not expecting Harry back in the fold until she walks away and even then I think he’ll defend her. It’s a really, really difficult situation and no matter how many deep talks, it’s like it just doesn’t register. Oh well, it’s a waiting game and so, so sad.
Britannia said…
Regards her visiting a women's shelter in Canada: I truly believe she will use some of the phrases she has heard there in the weeks and months to come.
Portcitygirl said…
She looks 5 months at the center and in the UK a few days ago in the sweaty sweater she didn't at all. I'm like PP, "What is she playing at"?
Since her pictures from the women's shelter are now out im certain weell see those on her Instagram very soon. Harry has an engagement today right? Wanna bet she will overshadow his royal engagement with simpering, saccharine sweet testimonials of her greatness and un-diva like saintliness?!

She is still building her fake-humanitarian brand, Harry be damned.
Magatha Mistie said…
I don’t know about pregnancy, but she did have an extra smarmy look to her face. I noticed she kept her left hand in her pocket for all the photos, barring one, blurry shot entering the seaplane. Is she wearing wedding ring, or is she not, here we go again, pantomime starring Dame Twanky, hopefully someone is behind her engineering her swift exit, stage left.
Magatha Mistie said…
@Britannia. Sickening but true. Gathering info from abused women to use later in her divorce. She truly is the devil incarnate.
Doria;

It appears that still nobody has looked at the links I gave. I didn't want to have to spell it out but here it is, from memory. Please check it out yourself:

The sources quoted in the relevant video look OK - one source at least does look like a legit police/court doc that somebody has been sufficiently motivated to pay for.

Apparently, Doria called emergency services on finding her father lying with head injuries on the boardwalk outside his house, with feet/ankles entangled in the dog lead. Am not sure whether he was DOA or shortly afterwards. Doria inherited his house.

The autopsy seemed, however, to suggest that the injuries weren't entirely consistent with the account given by Doria but there seemed to be no real reason to doubt what she had said.

Nevertheless, the authorities did what is usual when something doesn't seem quite right in these cases - they looked at the Will of the deceased and who was set to benefit from the death.

The house should have been inherited jointly by Doria and her brother, not solely by Doria. Moreover, the brother seemed to be unaware that he should have benefited.

The police were proceeding with caution - they were not sure how brother would react if he found out what had happen.

The investigation was shelved/dropped in 2017.

Make of this what you will. All I can say is that I couldn't see any obvious flaws in what was presented.
Duty calls said…
What about the carbon footprint from flying to women’s shelter?

Daily mail says her sweater is £1800

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7887419/Meghan-Markle-breaks-cover-time-leaving-UK.html

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